essay on an unexpected friendship

Seven Essays on Friendships

A reading list....

Earlier this month, as I tried to tuck my unwell mother into bed, I turned on the TV to watch Notting Hill for the nth time. My mother doesn’t fully understand English, but over the years has grown familiar with the visuals of some movies that make me endlessly happy. Drugged, and sleepy, she nestled in with me and watched the movie, our friendship quietly blossoming from a cliched love-hate mother-daughter relationship to a meaningful connection that’s refreshing and constantly evolving. In the last handful of years, the bond between us has transcended into a more congenial one. We are now more interested in each other’s well-being — always concocting a new recipe for the other, thinking of a better joke to crack the other one up.

As I’ve pondered over this new, unexpected friendship I had so strongly yearned for as a child, I’ve also contemplated my friendships growing up: The childhood best friend for whom I was never enough. The junior in my high school who went from being a best friend to a friend with benefits. The college roommate who I, admittedly, didn’t think was cool enough to be friends with. Over time, I’ve lost more friends than I’ve managed to make. I’ve realized that over the last three decades, my friendships have all been so different that “friendship” has become hard to define.

A reading list of seven essays that I have found myself going back to over and over again in the last few years…

The last two decades I spent on social media have also changed the way I’ve made friends. Whether I met people on MySpace or through Facebook, or stumbled on new friends by accident — I once dialed a person by mistake and started SMSing with her, thinking she was my cousin — I’ve kept busy creating and maintaining my own tribe of friends online. People at home, however — from family members with former boyfriends — tend to be suspicious of friends I’ve met on the internet. How do you know her? Did you go to college together? She’s in Mumbai and you’re in Delhi, so how did you meet? Then there are those clutch of valued work friendships that have evolved to hold so much more meaning over time. Trans-continental friendships with someone I merely went to college with, or a guarded bond with a certain someone whom I might’ve only ever met once in person — I hold many of these virtual and non-internet(y) friendships close to the heart. That is not to say that I haven’t often times struggled to maintain them, to keep up with their moving rhythms and changing landscapes with shifting times.

It is with all this in mind that I share a reading list of seven essays that I have found myself going back to over and over again in the last few years.

What If Friendship, Not Marriage, Was at the Center of Life? (Rhaina Cohen, The Atlantic , October 2020)

Rhaina Cohen’s essay outlines society’s general lack of regard for platonic relationships. In a world where marriage and family are key currencies to living a socially agreed upon life, friendships have taken a backseat. As someone who has always pondered about the exclusion of even a mention of friends in Indian families like mine, I felt this piece in my bones. The essay cuts deep into the social codes that prohibit us from mentioning friends as our first choice of family, much like in my own life. When I was in school, weekends were pious brackets of time, reserved only for family. Even suggesting to hang out with friends was forbidden. It was different though, if I made an excuse of studies, an exam, or a group presentation.

Cohen also underlines the importance of approaching friendship as the foundation for every meaningful relationship in one’s life — be it familial or romantic. Conditioned to think only one way, in the first few adult years of my life I hardly had the knack to allow friendships the room they required in my life. I was quick to close them off into specific segments of my world that didn’t directly interfere with my regular activities. Little did I understand then that friendships, as Cohen emphasizes, could be my whole life.

She challenges the norm in which our partners are expected to be our priorities and points out how this notion doesn’t seem to be questioned, except in queer circles.

“Just in the past several months, experts and public intellectuals from disparate ideological persuasions have encouraged heterosexual couples to look to the queer and immigrant communities for healthy models of marriage and family. The coronavirus pandemic, by underscoring human vulnerability and interdependence, has inspired people to imagine networks of care beyond the nuclear family. Polyamory and asexuality, both of which push back against the notion that a monogamous sexual relationship is the key to a fulfilling adult life, are rapidly gaining visibility. Expanding the possible roles that friends can play in one another’s lives could be the next frontier.”  

My Buddy (Patti Smith, The New Yorker , August 2017)

When I first stumbled upon Patti Smith’s essay, I let out a deep sigh of joy. I’ve devoured each of Smith’s books, read all of her poetry, and listened to her music, and I knew her piece about her friend and fellow creator, the late playwright and actor Sam Shepard, would be as beautiful as her other work. Shepard was a multi-hyphenate whose work outlived him, and there couldn’t have been anyone better than Smith to pen this ode to his life and their friendship. The essay, much like Smith’s poetry, sings with an ease that worms its way into my heart each time I reread it. There are surprises too, but the writing carries a charm — perhaps an offshoot of Smith’s deeply lived and enjoyed life — and leaves me asking for more. 

Just a late-night phone call out of a blue, as startling as a canvas by Yves Klein; a blue to get lost in, a blue that might lead anywhere. I’d happily awake, stir up some Nescafé and we’d talk about anything. About the emeralds of Cortez, or the white crosses in Flanders Fields, about our kids, or the history of the Kentucky Derby. But mostly we talked about writers and their books. Latin writers. Rudy Wurlitzer. Nabokov. Bruno Schulz.

There I Almost Am: On Envy and Twinship (Jean Garnett, The Yale Review , May 2021)

Jean Garnett’s essay is, at the surface level, about twinship. But it goes beyond this, delving deep into topics of sisterhood, envy, and self-destruction. Though Garnett writes about her relationship with her twin sister from both a personal and professional perspective, the nature of their relationship echoes one of friendship. Garnett ruminates about being in constant competition with her sister, and how that has evolved into an uglier feeling of envy — what Socrates called the “ulcer of the soul.” 

She writes:

“I remember how, in our early twenties when my sister was at her thinnest, I was always angling for a view of her, using barback mirrors and public bathrooms and shop windows to catch secret glimpses. I remember how perverted I felt whenever our eyes met in the reflection and she caught me in the act of envy. I am never more disgusted with myself than when I am engaged in this covert looking and assessing, treating her body as a human mirror. But I still do it. I spy on her. She’ll be walking or crying or dancing or getting dressed or trying to tell me something important, and I’ll become aware that my eyes are scanning her as though she were a bar code.”

This is How a Friendship Ends: A Recipe for Miso Ginger Carrot Bisque (Nina Coomes, Catapult , March 2022)

In this hybrid essay that’s part of Nina Coome’s narrative recipe series, Half Recipes , she comes to adult friendships with a new, encouraging language. She writes specifically about severing a friendship that was no longer meaningful to her and the other person — one that she writes was not built to transition, and had to end. There is an immediacy, and a strong sense of self-empathy in Coomes' writing. In letting this friend go, she is not only allowing herself to grow, but also making room for both of them to accommodate newer versions of themselves. The recipe format of this essay makes it even more endearing. 

“In retrospect, we both were growing out of our old selves, slowly becoming adults. I can’t give you an exact date or dramatic dinner where we stopped being friends. I can only say that it was a slow fading, a gradual and at times painful transition from being in communication every day, to every week, to every few months, to once a year and, now, not at all.”

Friendships Have Never Been Harder to Maintain (Jo Piazza, The Cut , March 2022)

In this essay, Jo Piazza meditates on the joy and beauty of friendship in our lives. She writes about contemporary friendship from the perspective of someone who knows firsthand what it’s like to be lonely, having lived in San Francisco in her mid-30s with no friends. Piazza highlights how crucial it is to find one's tribe and how maintaining that is also ongoing, intentional work. During the pandemic, these responsibilities became even more complicated, leaving people without friends, or in unbalanced friendships. 

“A friend is often seen as less important than a husband or a wife and definitely ranks lower than blood relations. So despite legions of studies proving they are essential to long-term mental and physical health, friendships are often the first relationships to fall by the wayside when life gets crazy. It seems so easy to make friends in college and your early 20s, when you’re more carefree and have the hours to dedicate to the groundwork.”

Friendship (Devon Brody, The Paris Review, July 2023)

It doesn't happen too often in life that we find ourselves in a friendship that leans more towards being a romance. Out of nowhere you are drawn towards a person you know little about. They might be a neighbor, a coworker, a bookshop checkout person. You want to know everything about them, the thoughts that circle inside their heads, the dreams and hopes they nurture, who they call family. Something like this, if felt in the context of a romance, might take a more heavy, underlined, nuanced meaning. But often we tend to slight these efforts in friendships.

In this essay, Brody writes along similar lines about a friendship that is so unthreatening, so slight, so simple it becomes the all-encompassing ultimate relationship of their life, and yet not. Through the essay Brody tries to capture the essence of such friendships that become more than the sum total of their parts, making us look at them from a new lens, and mine them for more than what they offer. In the essay, they parse the comfort of being there for each other, the shared knowledge of never betraying in any way, and that cocoon-like space that exists in the cervices of such fleeting relationships against the vast canvas of marriages, flings and familial ties. 

Brody writes: 

“On the phone I asked him if he was still there. He said he was, and I started crying a little, then stopped, I think. I asked him if he could meet me at the hospital. He said he would, still in the same tone.”

This sense of belonging is unique, ephemeral and also a touchstone of a matured way of looking at people. I feel this essay makes for an unmissable selection on this list, giving me the much-needed space, time and tenderness to regard these friendships with a love that is often denied to them, and by extension, us.

It’s Your Friends Who Break Your Heart (Jennifer Senior, The Atlantic , March 2022)

In this essay, Jennifer Senior focuses on how friendships sometimes exist vaguely during midlife. She delves deeply into the intersection of friendship and aging, and how friendships come to an end. At the start of the essay, Senior structures the piece as a connection between two women, Elisa and Rebecca, and how their friendship comes to a “painful dissolution.” She then blends socio-cultural commentary with her own personal narrative, writing about the friends she has lost over the years. This speaks to readers who have lost one too many friends and are now at the cusp of a kind of change.

I decided to close my reading list with Senior’s essay as it felt like a good place to let things be. Her essay left me with thoughts, feelings and ruminations that bordered on the pensive. The essay made me think deeply about the friendships I have lost, and how those losses sit within my current state of mind. As I enjoyed the repose of this serene essay, I felt other readers might also be able to find such moments for themselves.

“You lose friends to marriage, to parenthood, to politics—even when you share the same politics. (Political obsessions are a big, underdiscussed friendship-ender in my view, and they seem to only deepen with age.) You lose friends to success, to failure, to flukish strokes of good or ill luck. (Envy, dear God—it’s the mother of all unspeakables in a friendship, the lulu of all shames.) These life changes and upheavals don’t just consume your friends’ time and attention. They often reveal unseemly characterological truths about the people you love most, behaviors and traits you previously hadn’t imagined possible.”

Anandi Mishra is an essayist and policy professional, whose work has been published by the LA Review of Books, Aeon, The Atlantic, Electric Literature, among others. She has also worked as a reporter for The Times of India and The Hindu. She lives in Delhi and writes about it in her newsletter Scurf .

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Essays About Friendships: Top 6 Examples and 8 Prompts

Friendships are one of life’s greatest gifts. To write a friendship essay, make this guide your best friend with its essays about friendships plus prompts.

Every lasting relationship starts with a profound friendship. The foundations that keep meaningful friendships intact are mutual respect, love, laughter, and great conversations. Our most important friendships can support us in our most trying times. They can also influence our life for the better or, the worse, depending on the kind of friends we choose to keep. 

As such, at an early age, we are encouraged to choose friends who can promote a healthy, happy and productive life. However, preserving our treasured friendships is a lifelong process that requires investments in time and effort.

6 Informative Essay Examples

1. the limits of friendships by maria konnikova, 2. friendship by ralph waldo emerson, 3. don’t confuse friendships and business relationships by jerry acuff, 4. a 40-year friendship forged by the challenges of busing by thomas maffai, 5. how people with autism forge friendships by lydia denworth, 6.  friendships are facing new challenges thanks to the crazy cost of living by habiba katsha , 1. the importance of friendship in early childhood development, 2. what makes a healthy friendship, 3. friendships that turn into romance, 4. long-distance friendship with social media, 5. dealing with a toxic friendship, 6. friendship in the workplace, 7. greatest friendships in literature, 8. friendships according to aristotle .

…”[W]ithout investing the face-to-face time, we lack deeper connections to them, and the time we invest in superficial relationships comes at the expense of more profound ones.”

Social media is challenging the Dunbar number, proving that our number of casual friends runs to an average of 150. But as we expand our social base through social media, experts raise concerns about its effect on our social skills, which effectively develop through physical interaction.

“Friendship requires that rare mean betwixt likeness and unlikeness, that piques each with the presence of power and of consent in the other party.”

The influential American essayist Emerson unravels the mysteries behind the divine affinity that binds a friendship while laying down the rules and requirements needed to preserve the fellowship. To Emerson, friendship should allow a certain balance between agreement and disagreement. You might also be interested in these articles about best friends .

“Being friendly in business is necessary but friendships in business aren’t. That’s an important concept. We can have a valuable business relationship without friendship. Unfortunately, many mistakenly believe that the first step to building a business relationship is to develop a friendship.”

This essay differentiates friends from business partners. Using an anecdote, the essay warns against investing too much emotion and time in building friendships with business partners or customers, as such an approach may be futile in increasing sales.

“As racial tensions mounted around them, Drummer and Linehan developed a close connection—one that bridged their own racial differences and has endured more than four decades of evolving racial dynamics within Boston’s schools. Their friendship als­o served as a public symbol of racial solidarity at a time when their students desperately needed one.”

At a time when racial discrimination is at its highest, the author highlights a friendship they built and strengthened at the height of tensions during racial desegregation. This friendship proves that powerful interracial friendships can still be forged and separate from the politics of race.

“…15-year-old Massina Commesso worries a lot about friendship and feeling included. For much of her childhood, Massina had a neurotypical best friend… But as they entered high school, the other friend pulled away, apparently out of embarrassment over some of Massina’s behavior.”

Research debunks the myth that people with autism naturally detest interaction — evidence suggests the opposite. Now, research is shedding more light on the unique social skills of people with autism, enabling society to find ways to help them find true friendships. 

“The cost of living crisis is affecting nearly everyone, with petrol, food and electricity prices all rising. So understandably, it’s having an impact on our friendships too.”

People are now more reluctant to dine out with friends due to the rapidly rising living costs. Friendships are being tested as friends need to adjust to these new financial realities and be more creative in cultivating friendships through lower-cost get-togethers.

8 Topic Prompts on Essays About Friendships

More than giving a sense of belonging, friendships help children learn to share and resolve conflicts. First, find existing research linking the capability to make and keep friends to one’s social, intellectual, and emotional development. 

Then, write down what schools and households can do to reinforce children’s people skills. Here, you can also tackle how they can help children with learning, communication, or behavioral difficulties build friendships, given how their conditions interfere with their capabilities and interactions. 

As with plants, healthy friendships thrive on fertile soil. In this essay, list the qualities that make “fertile soil” and explain how these can grow the seeds of healthy friendships. Some examples include mutual respect and the setting of boundaries. 

Then, write down how you should water and tend to your dearest friendships to ensure that it thrives in your garden of life. You can also discuss your healthy friendships and detail how these have unlocked the best version of yourself. 

Marrying your best friend is a romance story that makes everyone fall in love. However, opening up about your feelings for your best friend is risky. For this prompt, collate stories of people who boldly made the first step in taking their friendship to a new level.

Hold interviews to gather data and ask them the biggest lesson they learned and what they can share to help others struggling with their emotions for their best friend. Also, don’t forget to cite relevant data, such as this study that shows several romantic relationships started as friendships. 

It’s challenging to sustain a long-distance friendship. But many believe that social media has narrowed that distance through an online connection. In your essay, explain the benefits social media has offered in reinforcing long-distance friendships. 

Determine if these virtual connections suffice to keep the depth of friendships. Make sure to use studies to support your argument. You can also cite studies with contrasting findings to give readers a holistic view of the situation.

It could be heartbreaking to feel that your friend is gradually becoming a foe. In this essay, help your readers through this complicated situation with their frenemies by pointing out red flags that signal the need to sever ties with a friend. Help them assess when they should try saving the friendship and when they should walk away. Add a trivial touch to your essay by briefly explaining the origins of the term “frenemies” and what events reinforced its use. 

We all know that there is inevitable competition in the workplace. Added to this are the tensions between managers and employees. So can genuine friendships thrive in a workplace? To answer this, turn to the wealth of experience and insights of long-time managers and human resource experts. 

First, describe the benefits of fostering friendships in the workplace, such as a deeper connection in working toward shared goals, as well as the impediments, such as inherent competition among colleagues. Then, dig for case studies that prove or disprove the relevance and possibility of having real friends at work.

Whether it be the destructive duo like Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn, or the hardworking pair of Sherlock Holmes and Dr. John Watson, focus on a literary friendship that you believe is the ultimate model of friendship goals. 

Narrate how the characters met and the progression of their interactions toward becoming a friendship. Then, describe the nature of the friendship and what factors keep it together. 

In Book VIII of his Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle writes about three kinds of friendships: pleasure, utility, and virtue. Dive deeper into the Greek philosopher’s mind and attempt to differentiate his three types of friendships. 

Point out ideas he articulated most accurately about friendship and parts you disagree with. For one, Aristotle refutes the concept that friendships are necessarily built on likeness alone, hence his classification of friendships. Do you share his sentiments? 

Read our Grammarly review before you submit your essay to make sure it is error-free! Tip: If writing an essay sounds like a lot of work, simplify it. Write a simple 5 paragraph essay instead.

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Essay on Friendship: Samples in 100, 200, 300 Words

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• Sep 14, 2023

Friendship is a lovely connection that thrives on pure love and care, free from demands. It’s recognized through respect, support, open communication, shared joys, empathy, and unwavering presence. True friends cherish and express this bond in countless meaningful ways. Mentioned below are the essay on friendship that you can write in your school assignments to express gratitude towards them.

Table of Contents

• 1 Friendship Sample Essay in 100 Words
• 2 Friendship Sample Essay in 200 words
• 3 Friendship Sample Essay in 300 Words

Friendship Sample Essay in 100 Words

Everybody needs friends in their life because friends with friendship fill that gap of proper understanding that at some point even our family fails to meet. Whenever challenges come up in life, this friendship becomes a path to overcome those challenges and boosts us toward progress. In the dark and bleak world of reality, friendship fills vibrant and vivid colours of life, enthusiasm, and motivation. Every occasion becomes extra happy when celebrated with that special circle of friends. Every moment spent and lived with your friends, be it sad or happy, dull or motivating, shapes us into who we are. It also helps us see the good in life. 

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Friendship Sample Essay in 200 words

Friendship is something exceptional. Whenever life gets rough, one thing that we can always rely on is our friendship. We know that we have our friends to support us through the tough times in life. Not only that, friendship is such a deep-rooted emotion that even when we don’t share what we are feeling at the same moment, just by looking at our faces, our friends can figure out that something is bothering us. And they, just by having a thoughtful talk with us, have the strength to make all the bothering go away in a snap. Such is the power of friendship. It’s more than meets the eye. However, there are times when we have those life tests that make us reach our limits and test us through thick and thin. 

Everything in life isn’t always smooth and happy, there are phases when even friends get into a fight with each other, but when they come out of that situation with their friendship still intact, then that bonding reaches new heights of strength.

If you have deep friendships with people, always be grateful to god for that, because not every bond of friendship lasts forever. Those people who have friends who last a lifetime are truly blessed because friendship truly is beautiful.

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Friendship Sample Essay in 300 Words

In this vast world, there are innumerable people we meet every day, yet we still meet people who are there with us for a lifetime. The term for those people is “Friends” and the emotion that sustains them is “friendship”. The word friendship may have a particular number of alphabets, but the meaning it conveys cannot be measured in numbers. The word “friendship” is more than meets the eye. The depth it holds in terms of emotions, bonding, trust, understanding, support, communication, and much more is unparalleled. At every phase of our lives, we come across people and don’t even realize the bonds that get forged with time. These bonds are filled with the spirit and essence of trust, honesty, support, etc. hence becoming the pillars of friendship. 

In every person’s life, friendship plays different roles but one thing that every person can agree on without a doubt is that friendship sustains you. Now, there are basically 2 types of friends, first ones are those who are good friends while the other ones are best friends. The best friends are the ones that we share a special bond of affection and love with. They make our lives much richer and easier

In true friendship, there is no place for judgment. True friends can share anything they are feeling without the fear of being judged by the other. To put it simply, we can say that true friendship gives us a reason to become even stronger in life.

Friendship makes us stronger in all aspects. No matter how much we fight our friends, we always come back to them. This is what teaches us the virtue of understanding and being patient. Without an iota of doubt, we can conclude that there is nothing out there that is nearly as beautiful, and as strong as friendship. Lucky are those who have this blessing in their life. Forever cherish it. 

True friendship is one where there is mutual respect, good communication, honesty, and trust. When you know that no matter what, you can rely on your friend and that friend has got your back in every situation. 

The full form of “FRIEND” is” Few Relations In Earth Never Die”.

The word “friendship” is more than meets the eye. The depth it holds in terms of emotions, bonding, trust, understanding, support, communication, and much more is unparalleled. At every phase of our lives, we come across people and don’t even realize the bonds that get forged with time. The power of friendship is such that it can turn a dull day in any person’s life into a really happy one. Every moment spent and lived with your friends, be it sad or happy, dull or motivating, shapes us into who we are. If you have deep friendships with people, always be grateful to god for that, because not every bond of friendship lasts forever. Those people who have friends who last a lifetime are truly blessed because friendship truly is beautiful. 

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Unbreakable Bonds: The Essence of True Friendship

In the beautifully complex tapestry of life, friendships form one of the most vibrant threads. Friendships, particularly those that transcend superficial interaction and delve into the realm of true, meaningful connections, leave lasting imprints on our lives. The essence of true friendship is a unique blend of shared experiences, unconditional support, and deep understanding, forging unbreakable bonds that enrich our existence. In this post, ‘Unbreakable Bonds: The Essence of True Friendship,’ we will explore the profound importance of these friendships and their lifelong impact.

True friendships are not a luxury; they are a necessity. They act as pillars of support when we need strength, sources of joy in times of happiness, and provide comfort during moments of sorrow. These relationships foster growth, empowering us to evolve and navigate life’s challenges with increased resilience. Understanding the importance of such bonds is essential as it allows us to cherish and cultivate these relationships more consciously.

Additionally, true friendships leave an indelible mark on our lives. The shared laughter, the silent understanding, the triumphs, and even the disagreements, all contribute to shaping our character and perspective. They enrich our lives, provide a sense of belonging, and enhance our overall wellbeing. As we delve further into this topic, we will uncover the various facets of genuine friendships and the remarkable influence they have on our journey through life.

Join us as we journey through the realms of friendship, appreciating its inherent value, and recognizing its role in shaping our life story.

What is True Friendship?

Friendship is a relationship universally celebrated, crossing cultural, geographic, and age boundaries. But not all friendships are created equal, and those that stand the test of time, weathering all storms, are what we define as ‘true’ friendships. True friendship is an emotional bond marked by mutual respect, understanding, and a shared sense of camaraderie. It’s a connection that enriches our lives and supports our growth, both personally and emotionally.

So, what distinguishes a true friend from a casual acquaintance? Certain qualities set these friendships apart, fostering bonds that remain unbroken, regardless of the challenges life throws their way. Let’s explore these qualities in more depth .

Genuine Support and Understanding

Being there for each other through thick and thin is a cornerstone of true friendship. Friends celebrate our triumphs, cheer us on when we’re striving for goals, and provide comfort during times of struggle. They are our champions in success and our solace in distress.

Empathy is a defining trait of true friendship. True friends have an innate ability to understand and share the feelings of others. They don’t merely sympathize; they empathize, putting themselves in our shoes and experiencing our emotions along with us. This profound understanding cultivates a bond of trust and mutual respect, making true friendship a sanctuary where we feel valued and heard.

Active listening is another key element. A true friend listens attentively, making an effort to understand our feelings and perspectives rather than merely waiting for their turn to speak. This kind of meaningful communication promotes deeper emotional connection and reinforces the bond of friendship.

Loyalty and Reliability

Loyalty and reliability are integral to the definition of true friendship. A loyal friend stands by our side, regardless of the circumstances, never wavering in their support. Their steadfastness acts as a beacon, providing us with a sense of stability and assurance that we’re not alone, no matter what.

Dependability is a trait synonymous with true friendship. Reliable friends keep their promises, stay true to their word, and are there when we need them the most. This trustworthiness builds a sense of security and trust in the relationship, further strengthening the bond.

Consistency is the glue that holds true friendships together. Friends may not be present physically at all times, but they remain a constant emotional presence, lending a sense of continuity and reliability to the relationship.

Acceptance and Authenticity

True friends accept us as we are, quirks, flaws, and all. They celebrate our strengths and help us navigate our weaknesses without judgement. This unconditional acceptance fosters a safe space where we can be our authentic selves without fear of criticism or rejection.

Being genuine and transparent is a hallmark of true friendship. Authentic friends are sincere, honest, and open, not afraid to show vulnerability or express emotions. Their genuineness resonates with us, fostering deeper connections.

A non-judgmental attitude is key in a true friendship. True friends respect our individuality and our right to make decisions, even when they disagree with them. They offer advice when needed but refrain from imposing their beliefs or values. This freedom to be ourselves without judgement further enhances the bond of true friendship.

True friendships, embodying these qualities, provide an enriching experience that transcends ordinary social interaction. These bonds illuminate our lives, offering a blend of companionship, support, and love that’s hard to find elsewhere. In the face of life’s inevitable changes, true friendships are the unchanging constants, the unbreakable bonds that stand strong amidst the chaos. As we navigate life’s journey, these friendships are our anchors, grounding us and reminding us of who we truly are.

The Power of True Friendship

True friendships carry immense power, influencing not only our daily interactions but also shaping our mental health , personal growth, and overall happiness. The influence of these unbreakable bonds permeates various aspects of our lives, reinforcing our resilience and contributing to a robust sense of well-being. Let’s explore the dynamic power of true friendships and their transformative impact.

Impacts on Mental Health and Well-being

True friendships provide a critical support system, particularly in terms of mental health. Friends act as sounding boards, providing empathy and understanding during times of stress , anxiety, or sadness. This emotional support can significantly alleviate mental health issues, promoting a sense of calm and stability.

Additionally, true friends can help us recognize when professional help may be needed, encouraging us to seek therapy or counseling when we may not recognize it ourselves. Thus, the role of true friendships is paramount in fostering a healthy, balanced mental state.

Nurturing Personal Growth and Development

Personal growth and development is another area where true friendships cast a significant influence. Friends challenge us, push us out of our comfort zones, and inspire us to reach new heights. By celebrating our successes and providing constructive criticism during failures, they foster an environment conducive to personal development.

Furthermore, friends provide diverse perspectives, enabling us to view situations from various angles and broaden our understanding of the world. This exposure to different viewpoints encourages intellectual growth, enhancing our problem-solving skills and ability to empathize with others.

Enhancing Overall Happiness and Resilience

True friendships contribute greatly to our overall happiness . Shared experiences, laughter, and memories create a rich tapestry of joy that enhances our lives. Moreover, the knowledge that we have a reliable support system in our corner boosts our confidence and self-esteem, leading to greater overall happiness.

Resilience, the ability to bounce back from adversity, is another attribute nurtured by true friendships. Friends provide emotional support during tough times, helping us cope with life’s challenges. Their presence fosters resilience, enabling us to navigate difficult situations with increased strength and positivity.

In conclusion, the power of true friendship is profound, significantly impacting our mental health, personal growth, happiness, and resilience. These unbreakable bonds, characterized by mutual respect, understanding, and support, are indeed a life-enhancing blessing, an essence of life worth cherishing.

Nurturing and Maintaining True Friendships

True friendships are akin to a flourishing garden; they require nurturing, maintenance, and a consistent investment of time and effort. These bonds, built on mutual respect and trust, are cultivated through effective communication and a shared commitment to the relationship. Let’s delve into the principles that underpin the nurturing and maintaining of true friendships.

Effective Communication and Open Dialogue

Clear, open communication forms the foundation of true friendships. It involves expressing feelings honestly, listening attentively, and maintaining an open dialogue about shared experiences and individual perspectives. Effective communication fosters understanding, strengthens the bond, and ensures that both parties feel valued and heard.

Cultivating Mutual Trust and Respect

Trust and respect are paramount in true friendships. These bonds thrive on mutual trust, built on sincerity, reliability, and confidentiality. Respect, on the other hand, acknowledges individuality, appreciates differences, and fosters a non-judgmental atmosphere. Cultivating these twin pillars strengthens friendship and enhances its longevity.

Investing Time and Effort in the Relationship

Friendships require an investment of time and effort to sustain and deepen the bond. This might involve regular communication, spending quality time together, and actively participating in each other’s lives. Such investments serve to strengthen the connection and reinforce the mutual commitment to the friendship.

Quality Over Quantity

Understanding the value of true friendships often means focusing on quality over quantity. A few deep, meaningful relationships can be more fulfilling and enriching than numerous superficial acquaintances. This involves cultivating deeper connections based on shared values, mutual understanding, and shared experiences.

Managing expectations is another key aspect of this principle. Recognizing that every friendship is unique and setting realistic expectations about the level of commitment, communication, and mutual support can prevent misunderstandings and foster healthier relationships.

Being a True Friend

The essence of true friendship lies in reciprocity. Being a true friend means reciprocating the support, understanding, and appreciation that we seek in our friends. It involves being present and available, not just in times of crisis, but also in everyday moments.

Supporting friends, celebrating their achievements, and showing appreciation for their presence in our lives can greatly enhance the bond. It sends a clear message of love and respect, strengthening the connection and reinforcing the value we place on the friendship.

In conclusion, nurturing and maintaining true friendships is a dynamic, ongoing process that involves open communication, mutual trust and respect, and a genuine investment of time and effort. The journey, while requiring commitment, is profoundly rewarding, resulting in bonds that enrich our lives and stand the test of time.

Recognizing Toxic Friendships

While true friendships offer enriching experiences and emotional support, it’s crucial to recognize when a friendship becomes toxic and detrimental to our well-being. Identifying red flags early on can help us take the necessary steps to address the situation and, if needed, sever the ties that are causing harm. Let’s discuss how to recognize toxic friendships, their impact on well-being, and when to consider letting go.

Identifying Red Flags

Toxic friendships often involve consistent patterns of negative behavior. Some red flags may include one-sided relationships, where the give-and-take is imbalanced; manipulation or control; incessant criticism or belittlement; betrayal of trust; or lack of respect for personal boundaries. These behaviors can gradually erode the foundation of a friendship and should not be ignored.

The Impact of Toxic Friendships on Well-being

Toxic friendships can significantly impact our mental and emotional well-being. They often breed negativity, causing stress, anxiety, and a decrease in self-esteem. Over time, these friendships can lead to feelings of frustration, sadness, or isolation, impacting our overall happiness and potentially causing long-term damage to our mental health.

Deciding When to Let Go

Letting go of a toxic friendship is a personal decision and often a challenging one. If a friendship consistently drains you, makes you feel bad about yourself, or affects your mental health negatively, it might be time to consider letting go.

It’s important to communicate your feelings first, providing the friend an opportunity to address and rectify the issues. However, if negative patterns persist despite communication and efforts to change, stepping away from the friendship might be the best course of action.

Remember, it’s essential to prioritize your mental and emotional health . While it can be painful to end a friendship, sometimes it’s the healthiest choice to make. Releasing toxic ties can open up space for more positive relationships and experiences, leading to enhanced well-being and personal growth.

In conclusion, recognizing toxic friendships is an integral aspect of nurturing healthy relationships . Being aware of the red flags and the negative impacts on well-being enables us to make informed decisions about when to let go, paving the way for more fulfilling, supportive, and enriching connections.

Celebrating True Friendship

True friendships, the unbreakable bonds that enrich our lives, are indeed worth celebrating. Expressing gratitude, creating shared memories, and marking milestones and achievements are some of the ways we can appreciate and honor these precious relationships. In this part, we’ll explore how to celebrate true friendships and foster deeper connections .

Expressing Gratitude

An important aspect of celebrating true friendship is expressing gratitude. A simple ‘thank you’ can go a long way in acknowledging the love, support, and understanding that true friends offer. It can be a personal note, a heartfelt conversation, or even a token of appreciation. Expressing gratitude not only strengthens the bond but also reinforces the positive elements of the friendship.

Creating Meaningful Memories Together

Shared experiences and memories form the bedrock of true friendships. Whether it’s an adventure-filled trip, a quiet evening of heartfelt conversations, or a shared hobby or passion, these experiences create lasting memories. Investing time in creating these shared moments can greatly enhance the connection, adding depth and richness to the friendship.

Celebrating Milestones and Achievements

Recognizing and celebrating each other’s milestones and achievements is another significant way of honoring true friendships. Whether it’s a career advancement, a personal accomplishment, or even overcoming a challenging phase, celebrating these moments together conveys support, pride, and admiration.

Moreover, it emphasizes the shared journey and mutual growth, enhancing the sense of camaraderie and deepening the bond. Celebrating together also creates joyous memories, adding to the repository of shared experiences that characterize true friendships.

In conclusion, celebrating true friendship is an enriching experience that can significantly deepen the bond. It involves recognizing the value of the relationship, creating shared memories, and rejoicing in each other’s achievements. As we celebrate these unbreakable bonds, we enrich our own lives, fostering connections that offer support, understanding, and shared joy.

The journey through the varied facets of true friendship underlines the beauty and significance these relationships hold in our lives. These unbreakable bonds, formed on the foundations of mutual respect, understanding, and shared experiences, serve as anchors, providing us with support, joy, and a sense of belonging. As we conclude, let’s reflect on the ways to nurture and cherish these special connections that can last a lifetime.

The beauty of true friendship lies in its authenticity. It is a bond that transcends surface-level interactions, delving into a realm of deep understanding, mutual respect, and shared growth. Each true friendship in our life adds a unique flavor, enhancing our life experience with its individual dynamics.

However, like any meaningful relationship, these friendships need nurturing. Open communication, mutual respect, and consistent investment of time and effort are vital to maintaining these relationships. Celebrating shared memories and milestones, expressing gratitude, and being there for each other in times of need are ways to cherish these bonds.

Moreover, it’s essential to recognize when a friendship turns toxic and learn to let go when necessary, prioritizing our mental and emotional well-being. This balance of nurturing healthy relationships and acknowledging unhealthy ones is a crucial aspect of managing our social connections.

In a world that often emphasizes romantic and familial relationships, let’s not forget the profound impact of true friendships. These relationships, often forged by choice rather than obligation or blood ties, offer a unique blend of companionship, understanding, and shared growth. They are indeed unbreakable bonds that can last a lifetime, enriching our existence with their unwavering presence.

As we continue on our individual journeys, let’s carry forward the essence of true friendship, nurturing these relationships that not only offer companionship but also help shape our lives. May we always find joy in these unbreakable bonds and cherish the warmth, support, and understanding they bring into our lives.

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Friendship is a divine relationship, which is defined by neither blood nor any other similarity. Who is in this world does not have a friend?

A friend, with whom you just love to spend your time, can share your joys and sorrows. Most importantly you need not fake yourself and just be what you are. That is what friendship is all about. It is one of the most beautiful of the relations in the world. Students of today need to understand the values of friendship and therefore we have composed different long essays for students as well as short essays.

Audience: The below given essays are exclusively written for school students (Class 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 and 8 Standard).

Introduction:

Friendship is considered as one of the treasures that anyone can possess. God has given us the liberty to choose friends because they are for our lifetime. It is quite normal for our parents and siblings to love us because they are our own blood but a friend is someone who is initially a stranger and then takes his/her place above all the other relations. Friendship is nothing but pure love without any expectations.

Role of a Friend:

True friends share and support each other even during the toughest of times. A true friend is one who feels happy for our success, who feel sad for our failures, fight with us for silly things and hugs us the next second, gets angry on us when we do any mistakes. Friendship is all about having true friends who can understand us without the need for us to speak.

Conclusion:

Friendship is very essential for a happy life. Even a two-minute chat with a friend will make us forget our worries. That is the strength of friendship.

Friendship is a divine relationship, which is defined by neither blood nor any other similarity. Friends are those you can choose for yourself in spite of the difference you both have from each other. A good friend in need will do wonders in your life, whenever you are in need of self-realization, upbringing your confidence and more.

Friendship serves you best not only in your happiest moments but also when you feel low in emotions. A life without a good friend is not at all complete and an emptiness will be felt all the time you think of sharing your emotion that can’t be told to anyone else.

Honesty and Patience in Friendship:

To maintain and keep going with a good deep friendship, honesty is the most important factor. You should choose a person who can be cent percent honest with you in all perspective like emotions, decision making, etc. Trustworthy friendship will help you to take better decisions and choose a better path for your future well-being.

Tolerance and patience with each other are another important characteristics of long-lasting friendship. Accepting the differences, friends should be able to be with each other in all situations. As a friend, the person should lead the other to success by being a motivation and criticize the person if they choose the wrong path.

Friendship will give you sweet and happy memories that can be cherished for a lifetime and if you succeed in maintaining that precious relation, then you are the luckiest person in this world. Love and care for each other will cherish the relationship and helps the person to appreciate each thing done without any fail.

Of all the different relations which we indulge in, friendship is considered to be the purest of them all. Friendship is the true confluence of souls with like minded attitude that aids in seamless conversation and the best of times. It is believed that a person who doesn’t have any friend lives one of the toughest lives.

The Desire to Belong:

Each one of us have been so programmed that we need a companion even if it’s not romantic, someone just to tag along. There are several definitions of friendship and it is upon you as to how you believe your relation to be. Friendship can happen when you are simply sharing a bowl of food with a person day after day. It can be expressed in the way you silently care for someone even when they may not be aware of your existence.

The Little Moments that Matter:

It is giving up the little things you love dearly for the sake of someone you cherish a great deal. Friendship often refers to the little moments of senseless laugh you two share when the rest of the world starts to look bleak. It is to know what your friend needs and being there for them even when the rest of the world has turned their back towards them.

Friendship is the kind of relation which sometimes even exceeds the realms of love because it is all about giving without even once bothering to sense what you shall get back. Every time spent is special because when you are with friends, you don’t feel the blues!

The Bottom-Line:

Of course the definition of friendship is going to vary a great deal from one person to another. But, remember one thing, when you are friends with someone, be prepared to put your heart on the line for their happiness because friendship often manifests into love, even if it is not romantic, it always is true!

Friendship is the most valuable as well as precious gifts of life. Friendship is one of the most valued relationship. People who have good friends enjoy the most in their live. True friendship is based on loyalty & support. A good friend is a person who will stand with you when times are tough. A friend is someone special on whom you can rely on to celebrate a special moment. Friendship is like a life asset and it can lead us to success. It all depends on our choice how we choose our friends.

The quality of friendship is essential for happiness. The benefits of healthy friendship remains long-life. In addition, having a strong friend circle also improves our self-confidence. Due to the strong relationship, we get much emotional support during our bad times. True friendship is a feeling of love & care.

Real friendship cannot be built within limited boundaries like caste or creed. It gives us a feeling that someone really needs us & we are not alone. This is true that man cannot live alone. True friends are needed in every stage of life to survive. A true friend can be an old person or a child. But it is generally believed that we make friend with people who are of the same age as ours. Same age group can give you the freedom to share anything.

The selection of a true friend is also a challenging task. We have to carefully make our friend selection. Friends might come & go. They will make you laugh & cry. Wrong selection can create various problems for you. In the modern world, many youngsters become a social nuisance. The reason behind it is wrong & bad friendships.

But if we successfully choose the right person as a friend then our life becomes easier. It doesn’t matter who you are, what type of clothes you wear. The most important thing is trust because the relation of friendship stands on the pillars of trust.

Friendship is a relation which can make or break us in every stage of life. But in other words, friendship is an asset which is really precious. Obviously, it is also not so easy to maintain friendships. It demands your time as well as efforts. Last but not the least, it is hard to find true friendship but once you succeed in this task you will have a wonderful time. In exchange for that a friend will only need your valuable time and trust.

The idea of friendship is either heartwarming or gives cold feet depending on individuals and the types of friendships. In the current world, friendships have had different definitions based on the morality and civilization of the society. Ideally, friendship is defined as the state of mutual trust between individuals or parties. Trust is an important component of friendship because it determines the reliability and longevity of the friendship. Trust is built through honest communications between the individuals and interested parties.

Once trust has been established, mutual understanding and support being to form the resulting in a friendship. This friendship can be broken through lack of trust. Trust can be breached through deceit and/ or some people, it differs with the frequencies. There are people who will break friendships after only one episode of dishonesty whereas some people give second chances and even more chances. Friendship types determine the longevity and the causes of breakups. The importance of friendship in the lives of individuals is the reason why friendships are formed in the first place.

Types of Friendships:

According to Aristotle’s Nichomachean ethics, there are three types of friendships. The friendships are based on three factors i.e. utility, pleasure and goodness. The first type of friendship is based on utility and has been described as a friendship whereby both parties gain from each other.

This type of friendship is dependent on the benefits and that is what keeps the friendship going. This type of friendships do not last long because it dissolves as soon as the benefits are outsourced or when other sources are found outside the friendship. The friendship was invented for trade purposes because when two people with opposite things that depend on each other re put together, trade is maximized.

The second type of friendship is based on pleasure. This is described as friendship in which two individuals are drawn to each other based on desires of pleasure and is characterized by passionate feelings and feelings of belonging. This type of friendship can ether last long or is short-lived depending on the presence of the attraction between the two parties.

The third type of friendship is based on goodness. In this friendship, the goodness of people draw them to each other and they usually have the same virtues. The friendship involves loving each other and expecting goodness. It takes long to develop this kind of friendship but it usually lasts longest and is actually the best kind of friendship to be in. the importance of such a friendship is the social support and love.

In conclusion, friendships are important in the lives of individuals. Trust builds and sustains friendships. The different types of friendships are important because they provide benefits and social support. Friendships provide a feeling of belonging and dependence. The durability of friendships is dependent on the basis of its formation and the intention during the formation. Friendships that last long are not based on materialistic gain, instead, they are based on pure emotion.

Friendship is an emotion of care, mutual trust, and fondness among two persons. A friend might be a work-mate, buddy, fellow student or any individual with whom we feel an attachment.

In friendship, people have a mutual exchange of sentiments and faith too. Usually, the friendship nurtures more amongst those people who belong to a similar age as they possess the same passions, interests, sentiments, and opinions. During the school days, kids who belong to the similar age group have a common dream about their future and this makes them all of them get closer in friendship.

In the same way, employees working in business organizations also make friends as they are working together for attaining the organizational objectives. It does not matter that to which age group you belong, friendship can happen at any time of your life.

Benefits of Friendship:

Sometimes friendship is essential in our life. Below are a few benefits of friendship.

1. It’s impossible to live your life alone always but friendship fills that gap quickly with the friend’s company.

2. You can easily pass the rigidities of life with the friendship as in your distress period your friends are always there to help you.

3. Friendship teaches you how to remain happy in life.

4. In case of any confusion or problem, your friendship will always benefit you with good opinions.

True and Dishonest Friendship:

True friendship is very rare in today’s times. There are so many persons who support only those people who are in power so that they can fulfil their selfish motives below the name of friendship. They stay with friends till the time their selfish requirements are achieved. Dishonest friends leave people as soon as their power gets vanished. You can find these types of self-seeking friends all around the world who are quite hurtful than enemies.

Finding a true friendship is very difficult. A true friend helps the other friend who is in need. It does not matter to him that his friend is right or wrong but he will always support his friend at the time of his difficulty.

Carefulness in the Selection of Friendship:

You must be very careful while choosing friends. You should nurture your friendship with that person who does not leave you in your bad times easily. Once you get emotionally attached to the wrong person you cannot finish your friendship so soon. True friendship continues till the time of your last breaths and does not change with the passing time.

Friendship with a bad person also affects your own thoughts and habits. Therefore, a bad person should not be chosen in any type of circumstances. We must do friendship with full attention and carefulness.

Best Qualities of Good Friendship:

Good friendship provides people an enormous love to each other.

The below are the important qualities of good friendship:

1. Good friendship is always faithful, honest, and truthful.

2. People pay attention and take note of others thoughts in good friendship.

3. Persons quickly forget and let off the mistakes of the other friend. In fact, they accept their friend in the way they are actually.

4. You are not judged on the basis of your success, money or power in it.

5. Friends do not feel shy to provide us with valuable opinions for our welfare.

6. People always share their joyful times with their good friends and also stay ready to help their friends in the time of need.

7. True friends also support others in their professional as well as personal life. They encourage their friends in the area of their interest.

Friendship is established over the sacrifice, love, faith, and concern of mutual benefit. True Friendship is a support and a blessing for everybody. All those males and females who have true and genuine friends are very lucky really.

Friendship can simply be defined as a form of mutual relationship or understanding between two people or more who interact and are attached to one another in a manner that is friendly. A friendship is a serious relationship of devotion between two or more people where people involved have a true and sincere feeling of affection, care and love towards each other devoid of any misunderstanding and without demands.

Primarily friendship happens between people that have the same sentiments, feelings and tastes. It is believed that there is no limit or criteria for friendship. All of the different creed, religion, caste, position, sex and age do not matter when it comes to friendship even though friendships can sometimes be damaged by economic disparity and other forms of differentiation. From all of these, it can be concluded that real and true friendship is very possible between people that have a uniform status and are like-minded.

A lot of friends we have in the world today only remain together in times of prosperity and absence of problems but only the faithful, sincere and true friends remain all through the troubles, times of hardships and our bad times. We only discover who our bad and good friends are in the times where we don’t have things going our way.

Most people want to be friends with people with money and we can’t really know if our friends are true when we have money and do not need their help, we only discover our true friends when we need their help in terms of money or any other form of support. A lot of friendships have been jeopardised because of money and the absence or presence of it.

Sometimes, we might face difficulty or crises in our friendships because of self-respect and ego. Friendships can be affected by us or others and we need to try to strike a balance in our friendships. For our friendship to prosper and be true, we need satisfaction, proper understanding and a trustworthy nature. As true friends, we should never exploit our friends but instead do our utmost best to motivate and support them in doing and attaining the very best things in life.

The true meaning of friendship is sometimes lost because of encounters with fake friends who have used and exploited us for their own personal benefits. People like this tend to end the friendship once they get what they want or stab their supposed friends in the back just to get what they think is best for them. Friendship is a very good thing that can help meet our need for companionship and other emotional needs.

In the world we live in today, it is extremely difficult to come across good and loyal friends and this daunting task isn’t made any easier by the lie and deceit of a lot of people in this generation. So, when one finds a very good and loyal important, it is like finding gold and one should do everything to keep friends like that.

The pursuit of true friendship Is not limited to humans, we can as well find good friends in animals; for example, it is a popular belief that dogs make the best friends. It is very important to have good friends as they help us in times and situations where we are down and facing difficulties. Our true friends always do their best to save us when we are in danger and also provide us with timely and good advice. True friends are priceless assets in our lives, they share our pains and sorrow, help provide relief to us in terrible situations and do their best to make us happy.

Friends can both be the good or the bad types. Good friends help push us on the right path in life while on the other hand, bad friends don’t care about us but only care about themselves and can lead us into the wrong path; because of this, we have to be absolutely careful when choosing our friends in this life.

Bad friends can ruin our lives completely so we have to be weary of them and do our best to avoid bag friends totally. We need friends in our life that will be there for us at every point in time and will share all of our feeling with us, both the good and bad. We need friends we can talk to anytime we are feeling lonely, friends that will make us laugh and smile anytime we are feeling sad.

What is friendship? It is the purest form of relationship between two individual with no hidden agenda. As per the dictionary, it is the mutual affection between people. But, is it just a mutual affection? Not always, as in the case of best friends, it is far beyond that. Great friends share each other’s feelings or notions which bring a feeling of prosperity and mental fulfillment.

A friend is a person whom one can know deeply, as and trust for eternity. Rather than having some likeness in the idea of two people associated with the friendship, they have some extraordinary qualities yet they want to be with each other without changing their uniqueness. By and large, friends spur each other without censuring, however at times great friends scrutinize do affect you in a positive manner.

Importance of Friendship:

It is very important to have a friend in life. Each friend is vital and their significance in known to us when certain circumstances emerge which must be supported by our friends. One can never feel lonely in this world on the off chance that he or she is embraced by true friends. Then again, depression wins in the lives of the individuals who don’t have friends regardless of billions of individuals present on the planet. Friends are particularly vital amid times of emergency and hardships. On the off chance that you wind up experiencing a hard time, having a friend to help you through can make the change simpler.

Having friends you can depend on can help your confidence. Then again, an absence of friends can make you feel lonely and without help, which makes you powerless for different issues, for example, sadness and drug abuse. Having no less than one individual you can depend on will formulate your confidence.

Choosing Your Friends Wisely:

Not all friends can instill the positivity in your life. There can be negative effects as well. It is very important to choose your friends with utmost wisdom. Picking the right friend is somewhat troublesome task however it is extremely important. In the event that for instance a couple of our dear friends are engaged with negative behaviour patterns, for example, smoking, drinking and taking drugs, at some point or another we will be attracted to their bad habits as well. This is the reason behind why it is appropriate to settle on an appropriate decision with regards to making friends.

Genuine friendship is truly a gift delighted in by a couple. The individuals who have it ought to express gratitude toward God for having genuine pearls in their lives and the individuals who don’t have a couple of good friends ought to always take a stab at better approaches to anchor great friends. No organization is superior to having a friend close by in the midst of need. You will stay cheerful in your one-room flat on the off chance that you are surrounded by your friends; then again, you can’t discover satisfaction even in your estate in the event that you are far away from others.

Types of Friends:

There is variety everywhere, so why not in friends. We can see different types of friends during our journey of life. For instance, your best friend at school is someone with whom you just get along the most. That friend, especially in the case of girls, may just get annoyed even if you talk to another of your friend more than her. Such is the childish nature of such friendships that at times it is difficult for others to identify whether you are best friends or competitors.

Then there is another category of your siblings. No matter how much you deny, but your siblings or your elder brother and sisters are those friends of yours who stay on with you for your entire life. You have a different set of friendship with them as you find yourself fighting with them most of the times. However, in times of need, you shall see that they are first ones standing behind you, supporting you.

There is another category of friends called professional friends. You come across such friends only when you grow up and choose a profession for yourself. These friends are usually from the same organisation and prove to be helpful during your settling years. Some of them tend to stay on with you even when you change companies.

Friendship Examples from History:

History has always taught us a lot. Examples of true friendship are not far behind. We have some famous example from history which makes us realise the true value of friendship. The topmost of them are the Krishna and Sudama friendship. We all must have read or heard as to how after becoming a king when Krishna met Sudama, his childhood friend, he treated him with honour even though Sudama was a poor person. It teaches us the friendship need not be between equals. It has to be between likeminded people. Next example is of Karna and Duryodhana, again from the Mahabharat era.

Despite knowing the fact that the Pandavas were his brothers, Karna went on to fight alongside Duryodhan as he is his best friend and even laid down his life for him. What more example of true friendship can one find? Again from the same era, Krishna and Arjun are also referred to as the best of the friends. Bhagavad Gita is an example of how a true friend can guide you towards positivity in life and make you follow the path of Dharma. Similarly, there are numerous examples from history which teach us the values of true friendship and the need to nourish such for own good.

Whether you accept or deny it, a friend plays an important role in your life. In fact, it is very important to have a friend. However, at the same time, it is extremely important to choose the friends wisely as they are the ones who can build you or destroy you. Nonetheless, a friend’s company is something which one enjoys all through life and friends should be treated as the best treasure a man can have.

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Friendship is one of the greatest bonds anyone can ever wish for. Lucky are those who have friends they can trust. Friendship is a devoted relationship between two individuals. They both feel immense care and love for each other. Usually, a friendship is shared by two people who have similar interests and feelings.

You meet many along the way of life but only some stay with you forever. Those are your real friends who stay by your side through thick and thin. Friendship is the most beautiful gift you can present to anyone. It is one which stays with a person forever.

True Friendship

A person is acquainted with many persons in their life. However, the closest ones become our friends. You may have a large friend circle in school or college , but you know you can only count on one or two people with whom you share true friendship.

There are essentially two types of friends, one is good friends the other are true friends or best friends. They’re the ones with whom we have a special bond of love and affection. In other words, having a true friend makes our lives easier and full of happiness.

Most importantly, true friendship stands for a relationship free of any judgments. In a true friendship, a person can be themselves completely without the fear of being judged. It makes you feel loved and accepted. This kind of freedom is what every human strives to have in their lives.

In short, true friendship is what gives us reason to stay strong in life. Having a loving family and all is okay but you also need true friendship to be completely happy. Some people don’t even have families but they have friends who’re like their family only. Thus, we see having true friends means a lot to everyone.

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Importance of Friendship

Friendship is important in life because it teaches us a great deal about life. We learn so many lessons from friendship which we won’t find anywhere else. You learn to love someone other than your family. You know how to be yourself in front of friends.

Friendship never leaves us in bad times. You learn how to understand people and trust others. Your real friends will always motivate you and cheer for you. They will take you on the right path and save you from any evil.

Similarly, friendship also teaches you a lot about loyalty. It helps us to become loyal and get loyalty in return. There is no greater feeling in the world than having a friend who is loyal to you.

Moreover, friendship makes us stronger. It tests us and helps us grow. For instance, we see how we fight with our friends yet come back together after setting aside our differences. This is what makes us strong and teaches us patience.

Therefore, there is no doubt that best friends help us in our difficulties and bad times of life. They always try to save us in our dangers as well as offer timely advice. True friends are like the best assets of our life because they share our sorrow, sooth our pain and make us feel happy.

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Assigned with an essay about friendship? Congrats! It’s one of the best tasks you could get. Digging through your memories and finding strong arguments for this paper can be an enjoyable experience.

I bet you will cope with this task effortlessly as we can help you with the assignment. Just use the essay topics on friendship and tips described below.

• 🖊️ Writing Guide
• 💡 50 Essay Topics
• 💬 10 Witty Quotes

1. 🖊️ Friendship Essay: Writing Guide

If you’ve been given to write an essay about friendship, then you have accepted one of the best tasks. It can be challenging as it requires recollecting the memories associated with the friend. Also, it requires following a particular guideline.

• Choose a topic

To start writing an essay on friendship, you need to choose a good topic. There are several things you need to keep in mind:

• When writing an essay about friendship, make sure the topic you choose corresponds to the type of the paper (e.g., opinion or narrative essay );
• The topic you choose needs to be enough to develop it in the essay. If your idea is too broad, you will not describe it sufficiently. If it’s too narrow, you will not have enough information to write about.
• Find evidence

Research your topic. Use the available sources for searching for information, such as books, dictionaries, and internet sources. Find enough data to support your argument. Also, think about life experiences that can be used under this topic. An essay on friendship usually requires using personal examples as evidence.

• Outline your essay

Think about the information you will include in different parts of the essay. Usually, such papers consist of an introduction, body paragraphs, and conclusion.

Introduction : A paragraph that includes any necessary background information and a thesis statement .

Body Paragraphs : Generally, essays include three separate body paragraphs. They present arguments and additional support individually.

Conclusion : The last paragraph that summarizes major points and restates the thesis statement.

• Write and proofread

As you have your topic and outline ready, start writing your friendship essay. When you finish, carefully proofread. Double-check your spelling, the accuracy of the information, and grammar. Make sure to format your essay according to the guidelines.

Ask someone to help you revise the text: a person might notice mistakes you didn’t see. Another great way to revise your paper is by checking friendship essay examples to get inspired and see what you can improve in your writing.

2. ⛔ Essay on Friendship: 5 No-Nos

Writing an essay about friendship can seem less challenging than composing a paper on some uncommon topic. Yet, there are still mistakes that a student can make.

Check the following five taboos that you should avoid:

• Avoid complaining. Some students use this task as their chance to complain about someone having betrayed them. Bad things happen. Move on and find better ideas to include in your friendship essay.
• Avoid flattering. Another extreme to be avoided is singing the praises to someone. Even if you badly want to include something like ‘I was blessed to meet Tom who was my best friend ever,’ try to refrain from writing just that and add more exciting details instead to create some context and let your readers know exactly why and how was Tom such a great friend to you.
• Don’t add too much drama. Focusing on how you can’t imagine your life without your friends from school you left is a bad idea.
• Don’t be too negative. Sure, you are free to defend any position in this paper. Yet, teachers would like it better if your essay is optimistic (and you might be happier writing it too).
• Don’t forget to include examples. Examples from your personal life and books will make your paper more sincere and persuasive.

3. 💡 50 Essay Topics on Friendship

Any excellent essay starts with an idea that you can explore in detail. We’ve prepared 50 writing prompts and topics to help you pick the perfect theme for your paper:

• Three kinds of friendships, according to Aristotle . The philosopher pointed out that there are three different types of friendship: the friendship of utility, the friendship of pleasure, and virtuous friendship. Which one resonates with you? Why?
• Qualities of a true friend. People like seeing such character traits as loyalty, trustworthiness, and honesty in a best friend. But do all good friends have these qualities? Think of what makes a good friend. Describe the characteristics you like seeing in a person.
• Is friendship relatable to love and vice versa? It’s suggested that any bond can develop into a romantic relationship . But, can romantic relationships transform into friendship? Write your opinion on the topic.
• The similarity of interests vs. compatibility of temperaments . Both are equally important in any relationship, and you can discuss this. Do you think that any of the factors play a more influential role in friendship? Why?
• A friend to everyone is a friend to no one. How do you understand that phrase? Can such people be true friends?
• The power of friendship. Having a genuine friendship is believed to reduce stress and anxiety and improve our self-esteem . Are there any other possible effects of this attachment? Describe them. Mention the effects of friendship on your life.
• Should you mix business and friendship? Working with your friends can be a pleasure or a liability. Do you think working with friends can positively influence your career? Why or why not? Or, maybe you believe that friends at a workplace can create a toxic situation?
• Can you find good friends online ? Sometimes you may want to expand your social circle. One way to do so is to find a friend online. Share your opinion on whether it is possible to form true friendship online.
• The need to have a friend. Having friends is an essential part of our lives. They motivate us to change and lift our spirits. What are other reasons to have a friend? Provide a personal example, if possible.
• The most significant aspects of a friendship. Some people appreciate confidentiality or respect the most in a company. Name and describe the elements you appreciate in friendship.
• An unexpected friendship. We all know that one person we didn’t like from the start but later became best friends. How did you meet them? What was your first impression ? Are you still best friends?
• Friendship is a treasure. Do you think every person needs a true friend? Can friends be compared to treasures? Are real friends as hard to find as gold?
• My best friend . Describe your best friend and their qualities. Reflect on your relationship. What impact did this friendship leave on your life?
• Friendship with your parents. Some people suggest that being friends with their parents is wonderful. Others think it is nearly impossible. What’s your opinion on such a relationship with parents? Are you friends with them?
• The psychological effect of a bad friendship. Friendship and social support are linked to the mental and physical well-being of people. But what about toxic friendship? What are its effects on a human’s health? Have you ever encountered it? How did you deal with it?
• Friendship in the age of social media. 
• Explain the destructive effect of jealousy on friendships and romantic relationships.
• The importance of freedom in a relationship between friends.
• Three main views on the term “friend.”  
• Friendship concept in different cultures .
• How friendly relationships improve employees’ performance.
• Describe the positive impact of computer communication on people’s relationships.
• Can friendship be destroyed by the lack of communication?
• Why is friendship important?
• Explain how you understand the statement that friendship is a two-way process .
• Is friendship between students necessary for a positive classroom atmosphere?
• Discuss if children’s friendship is a necessary part of their healthy development.
• Resolving issues in friendship through interpersonal communication .
• Why any form of abuse can destroy friendly relationships.
• Explore the theme of friendship in Recitatif by Toni Morrison .
• Describe the concepts of friendship according to St. Augustine .
• Is generosity important for a strong friendship?  
• Discuss the importance of friendly and loving relationships for a person’s mental health.  
• Compare Boethius and Dante’s ideas of friendship .
• Which type of friendship do you value the most?
• Examine the friendship of Gilgamesh and Enkidu in the ancient Mesopotamian poem, The Epic of Gilgamesh .
• How is the idea of friendship described in literary works?
• The role of childhood friendship in your life.
• Describe how your notion of friendship changed in a lifespan.
• Discuss the ways social media platforms put additional pressure on teens’ friendship.
• Analyze the descriptions of friendship in poetry.
• What aspects do you consider when accepting a friend in Facebook?
• Is social media to blame for the absence of close friends?
• Explain why you like or dislike the idea of traveling with friends .
• Describe the ways you communicate with your friends .
• Can money cause issues in relationships between friends?
• The importance of friendship in Sherman Alexie’s The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian .
• Discuss the importance of behavior in relationships with friends and loved ones.
• Give advice how to keep healthy relationships with your friends.
• Describe problems that can ruin your relationships with friends and the ways to avoid them.

We hope that you won’t find the task troubling with our friendship essay topics and tips.

4. 💬 Essay on Friendship: 10 Witty Quotes

• “A friend in need is a friend indeed.”(Proverb)
• “A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.” (Elbert Hubbard)
• “I don’t need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod; my shadow does that much better.” (Plutarch)
• “The only way to have a friend is to be one.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
• “It is more shameful to distrust our friends than to be deceived by them.” (Confucius)
• “It is not so much our friends’ help that helps us, as the confidence of their help.” (Epicurus )
• “Be slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing.” (Benjamin Franklin)
• “Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another: “What! You too? I thought I was the only one.” ( C.S. Lewis)
• “You can’t stay in your corner of the Forest waiting for others to come to you. You have to go to them sometimes.” (A.A. Milne)
• “Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend’s success.” ( Oscar Wilde)

Now, with these tips and ideas, you won’t have any difficulties with your friendship essays. Don’t hesitate to drop us a line in the section below if you have any questions or suggestions.

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6 Ways to Write about Unexpected Friendships

by Laura Hedgecock | Jan 13, 2014 | How-to , Memories , Writing and Sharing Memories | 2 comments

Unexpected friendships can result when opposites attract. Photo credit flickr.com

It’s not just love that we find in the most unexpected places—it’s also friendship. The “when” and “how” of unexpected friendships make great stories.

Unexpected friendships despite first impressions

Particularly when we figure out how wrong they were, our first impressions stay with us. This topic resonates with me, because I’m a pretty lousy judge of character. My my first impression of one of my dearest and oldest friends wasn’t good at all. When I first met her, I mentally dismissed her as potential friend material. I’m so thankful that my first impression wasn’t a lasting one.

Write about unexpected friendships that emerged from negative mental images. Was your initial judgment wrong or was it just incomplete? What caused you to give this person a second chance? Did your friend also have a negative impression of you?

Difference in temperaments

Did you ever have a friendship that grew out of a dislike? It’s not just the stuff of Harlequin romances. Clashing personalities can develop in close relationships.

Most of us have grown to like—even cherish—someone that we initially disliked. These stories of unexpected friendships make great stories! (Think about Felix and Oscar in The Odd Couple or the misanthrope Melvin and his neighbor Simon in the movie As Good as It Gets. )

Unexpected friendships despite differences in race

Sadly, there was a time when such friendships were uncommon.

Slowly—very slowly—race relations in our society are progressing. But, for those who grew up in earlier decades (i.e. older folks), personal relationships between races was often a rocky road to navigate. Depending on our age and situation, we’ve had to overcome barriers of history, prejudice, and hurt to form close bonds. We’ve had to forgive and seek forgiveness.

How did (or do) you and your friend negotiate issues of race? How big of an elephant is race in the ‘room’ of your relationship? What did you learn from each other on the way?

When did this happen? Don’t forget to include historical context as you tell the story of your friendship. What was going on in the world, country or regions at the same time?

Issues of class

Class differences often present obstacles to friendships. Income, education, background, and position status separate us.

One of my family’s favorite stories is about a dinner thrown in honor a new fiancé. Looking over the beautiful table setting, the little brother of the host fingered the silver butter knife. All pretensions had to be dropped when he inquired, “What’s this? I’ve never seen it before.”

When you write about unexpected friendships, include what role issues of class played. Was there awkwardness or pretensions? Did you—or your friend—feel apologetic for their lack of education or position? How did you and your friend resolve those feelings? Again, be sure to provide historical information to provide texture to your story.

Write about why how it matters

All friendships matter. The question here, I guess, is how a particular friendship matters to you. Why is it significant? Did it notch a mark in your personal development?

Why should it matter to future generations? Did it come with a lesson—not to assume, presume, or pre-judge? Why was it unexpected at the time? Would it still be considered an unusual or unexpected friendship today?

When did you find an unexpected friendship? How would you write about it?

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Unexpected Friendship Narrative Essay

As much as humans like to control their own lives, there are many aspects that are outside of our control. For example, we do not choose the families into which we are born or the places where we grow up. The same is sometimes true of friendships. Some friends we choose because we identify them as people who are similar to us and because they offer us something we want. Occasionally, however, we make unexpected friends. For example, a young person bumps into someone at the library who is crying because she has lost an important paper she was writing for school. As a result, the two become friends and learn that helping people through tough times is at the core of strong relationships.

Assignment Tell the story of a time you made an “unexpected” friend and learned something important from that friend. In your response, be sure to explain how the friendship came about and the ways in which this friendship taught you something.

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There I was, walking down the hall to the principal’s office again, for the third time this week. Only this time is a little different then the last two. I was proud. In fact, I was smiling! there was a group of six or seven kids following suit behind me. And they had every right to be proud as well.. We certainly showed that substitute teacher… trying to command us 7th graders to where we HAD to sit, even though our normal teacher had clearly stated we could sit wherever we felt comfortable. It was an outrage, and a good portion of the class had felt the same way that I did. Therefore, in my young mind, it was justified.

Seeing that I was a “frequent flyer” for odyssey’s to meet the principal, I entered the main office first, propping open the door with my foot to allow everyone else to file in. The office ladies did not seem to surprised to have me enter, though the crowd of children did pique their attention. when asked why we were there, everyone at once started chattering about the dictator down the hallway. I stood back for a moment, trying to hide my uncontrollable joy for my peers, masking it with an outraged expression stained across my face. The lovely office assistance had directed us to a room located in the back while they “sorted things out”. It was here we all gathered for a far more unique situation to happen.

As we settled in, claiming chairs around a circular table, everyone remained silent. After a few minutes passed noiselessly, I took the courageous step to break the ice, telling everyone about how glad I was to not be alone in this revolution, thanking them for helping me out. I recognized all the faces around me, one of which I did not enjoy seeing; Cody. Cody was a guy that I didn’t quite consider a friend. Obnoxious, constantly negative, always calling for attention, ceaselessly instigating fights whenever he can. But, to my surprise, there sat Cody… silent. “Odd” was the constant thought running through my mind, but enough curiosity over it, I had a troop morale to keep afloat. In order to do so I’d ask dumb questions to people, giving little quips to people hoping to get everyone giggling.

Though my plan was a success at first, everyone was smiling at my last impressions of our “doggy poo-poo headed substitute”, our room’s door had opened up and one of our office ladies had walked in. Without a word she walked to the back of the room, grabbed to separate, one-gallon containers of water and made her way back towards the exit, everyone remained silent. Right before she finished closing the door, I decided to continue the jokes by stupidly uttering “nice jugs”, in hopes that the door would have already closed.

My hopes were completely wrong. The door fired back open, Office lady furious, yelling at us “Who said that!?? Who said that!!” Right as I started to raise my hand, a small, timid voice said out loud “It was me”…. And Cody stood up, staring at his toes. I couldn’t believe it! I was stunned to the point of silence, even as Cody marched out of the room with the assistant. Everyone stared wide-eyed at me. I was unsure of what to say, or do, or even think. Cody, the guy who I disliked, had taken a three-day suspension from school, on order to cover my stupidity. Since that day, sparked a friendship that I will never forget. Because nobody would take such a blame, and not be considered a friend.

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Narrative Essay on Friendship

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Friendship is a powerful bond that connects people in a unique and profound way. It is a relationship built on trust, understanding, and mutual respect. Friends are those rare individuals who accept us for who we are, support us through our highs and lows, and stand by us, unwaveringly. This narrative essay explores the essence of friendship through a personal journey, illustrating its impact and significance in one’s life.

The Beginning of a Lifelong Friendship

My understanding of friendship was transformed the year I met Sam. We were both new to Middle School, each carrying the typical anxieties of facing a new environment. Our initial encounter was as mundane as any could be – a shared desk in the back of a crowded math class. However, it was in that simplicity that the seeds of our friendship were sown. As days turned to weeks, our casual conversations evolved into a deep connection. We shared our dreams, fears, and laughed over trivial jokes, finding solace in each other’s company.

The Bond Strengthens

Friendship, I learned, is not just about the good times. It’s about standing together when the world seems to be against you. This lesson came to life when I faced one of my darkest periods. My family was going through a tough time, and the emotional toll was heavy. It was Sam who noticed the change in me. Without probing, he offered his presence – a gesture of silent support that I desperately needed. We would spend hours in silence, sometimes talking, but most importantly, just being there for each other. It was during this time that our friendship solidified, transforming into a bond akin to brotherhood.

Challenges and Overcoming Them Together

As with any relationship, friendship is not without its challenges. Sam and I had our share of disagreements and conflicts. Our perspectives and opinions clashed, leading to heated arguments that tested our bond. However, it was through these challenges that we learned the importance of communication, respect, and forgiveness. Each disagreement was an opportunity to understand each other better and to strengthen our friendship. We realized that at the core of our relationship was a mutual desire to see the other succeed and be happy.

The Joy of Shared Experiences

One of the most beautiful aspects of friendship is the shared experiences. Sam and I embarked on numerous adventures, from spontaneous road trips to participating in community services. Each experience was a chapter in our growing narrative, filled with laughter, learning, and sometimes, even tears. These moments were not just about the fun or the challenges we faced; they were about growing together, learning about life, and understanding the world around us. Our shared experiences enriched our friendship, giving it depth and meaning.

The Impact of Friendship

Reflecting on my friendship with Sam, I realize the profound impact it has had on my life. It taught me the value of empathy, the strength found in vulnerability, and the power of unconditional support. Friendship is a mirror that reflects our true selves, encouraging us to be better, to dream bigger, and to love more deeply. It is a source of strength, a haven of comfort, and a beacon of hope. In the darkest of times, it is the light that guides us, reminding us that we are not alone.

Friendship is one of life’s greatest treasures. It is a journey of joy, growth, and understanding that enriches our lives in countless ways. My friendship with Sam is a testament to the beauty of this bond. It has shaped me into the person I am today, teaching me lessons that extend far beyond the confines of our shared experiences. As I move forward in life, I carry with me the essence of our friendship – a reminder of the power of connection, the importance of compassion, and the endless possibilities that arise when we open our hearts to others. In the end, friendship is not just about having someone to share your path with; it’s about being part of something greater than yourself, a union of souls that stands the test of time.

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We've all had friendships that started from either work or school and it just made since to befriend these people because they were part of our everyday lives. But if you're lucky enough, you have made a few unexpected friendships throughout your life. I have made some very unexpected friendships in my life and these are friendships that will last a lifetime. By unexpected, I mean people who walk into your life without you going to "look" for them. My time in college has brought about a few of these friendships.

These types of friendships are probably the best ones because they come when you least expect them. Some of my hardest times, when I really needed someone, I was comforted by friends that I never thought would be there for me. It's crazy to think how close you can become with someone in such little time, in the least expected way.

I think getting close with someone who you would have never expected to get close with is one of the best things to happen. You realize more about yourself as a person and it really challenges you to step out of your comfort zone and be more accepting of different types of people.

I have learned many life lessons from unexpected friendships, like anyone can seriously come into your life and change it for the better. Don't ever count anyone out of a friendship because they may not be just like you or someone you could ever imagine being friends with because you honestly don't know what can come out of it.

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25 beatles lyrics: your go-to guide for every situation, the best lines from the fab four.

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make

The End- Abbey Road, 1969

The sun is up, the sky is blue, it's beautiful and so are you

Dear Prudence- The White Album, 1968

Love is old, love is new, love is all, love is you

Because- Abbey Road, 1969

There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be

All You Need Is Love, 1967

Life is very short, and there's no time for fussing and fighting, my friend

We Can Work It Out- Rubber Soul, 1965

He say, "I know you, you know me", One thing I can tell you is you got to be free

Come Together- Abbey Road, 1969

Oh please, say to me, You'll let me be your man. And please say to me, You'll let me hold your hand

I Wanna Hold Your Hand- Meet The Beatles!, 1964

It was twenty years ago today, Sgt. Pepper taught the band to play. They've been going in and out of style, but they're guaranteed to raise a smile

Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band-1967

Living is easy with eyes closed, misunderstanding all you see

Strawberry Fields Forever- Magical Mystery Tour, 1967

Can you hear me? When it rains and shine, it's just a state of mind

Rain- Paperback Writer "B" side, 1966

Little darling, it's been long cold lonely winter. Little darling, it feels like years since it' s been here. Here comes the sun, Here comes the sun, and I say it's alright

Here Comes The Sun- Abbey Road, 1969

We danced through the night and we held each other tight, and before too long I fell in love with her. Now, I'll never dance with another when I saw her standing there

Saw Her Standing There- Please Please Me, 1963

I love you, I love you, I love you, that's all I want to say

Michelle- Rubber Soul, 1965

You say you want a revolution. Well you know, we all want to change the world

Revolution- The Beatles, 1968

All the lonely people, where do they all come from. All the lonely people, where do they all belong

Eleanor Rigby- Revolver, 1966

Oh, I get by with a little help from my friends

With A Little Help From My Friends- Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band, 1967

Hey Jude, don't make it bad. Take a sad song and make it better

Hey Jude, 1968

Yesterday, all my troubles seemed so far away. Now it looks as though they're here to stay. Oh, I believe in yesterday

Yesterday- Help!, 1965

And when the brokenhearted people, living in the world agree, there will be an answer, let it be.

Let It Be- Let It Be, 1970

And anytime you feel the pain, Hey Jude, refrain. Don't carry the world upon your shoulders

I'll give you all i got to give if you say you'll love me too. i may not have a lot to give but what i got i'll give to you. i don't care too much for money. money can't buy me love.

Can't Buy Me Love- A Hard Day's Night, 1964

All you need is love, love is all you need

All You Need Is Love- Magical Mystery Tour, 1967

Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

Blackbird singing in the dead of night, take these broken wings and learn to fly. all your life, you were only waiting for this moment to arise.

Blackbird- The White Album, 1968

Though I know I'll never lose affection, for people and things that went before. I know I'll often stop and think about them. In my life, I love you more

In My Life- Rubber Soul, 1965

While these are my 25 favorites, there are quite literally 1000s that could have been included. The Beatles' body of work is massive and there is something for everyone. If you have been living under a rock and haven't discovered the Fab Four, you have to get musically educated. Stream them on Spotify, find them on iTunes or even buy a CD or record (Yes, those still exist!). I would suggest starting with 1, which is a collection of most of their #1 songs, or the 1968 White Album. Give them chance and you'll never look back.

14 Invisible Activities: Unleash Your Inner Ghost!

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The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

1. "Haunt" your friends.

Follow them into their house and cause a ruckus.

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3. Sneak into the pantry and grab a snack without judgment.

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4. Reenact "Hollow Man" and play Kevin Bacon.

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5. Wear a mask and pretend to be a floating head.

Just another way to spook your friends in case you wanted to.

6. Hold objects so they'll "float."

"Oh no! A floating jar of peanut butter."

7. Win every game of hide-and-seek.

Just stand out in the open and you'll win.

8. Eat some food as people will watch it disappear.

Even everyday activities can be funny.

9. Go around pantsing your friends.

Even pranks can be done; not everything can be good.

10. Not have perfect attendance.

You'll say here, but they won't see you...

11. Avoid anyone you don't want to see.

Whether it's an ex or someone you hate, just use your invisibility to slip out of the situation.

12. Avoid responsibilities.

Chores? Invisible. People asking about social life? Invisible. Family being rude? Boom, invisible.

13. Be an expert on ding-dong-ditch.

Never get caught and have the adrenaline rush? I'm down.

14. Brag about being invisible.

Be the envy of the town.

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19 Lessons I'll Never Forget from Growing Up In a Small Town

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Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

1. The importance of traditions.

Sometimes traditions seem like a silly thing, but the fact of it is that it's part of who you are. You grew up this way and, more than likely, so did your parents. It is something that is part of your family history and that is more important than anything.

2. How to be thankful for family and friends.

No matter how many times they get on your nerves or make you mad, they are the ones who will always be there and you should never take that for granted.

3. How to give back.

When tragedy strikes in a small town, everyone feels obligated to help out because, whether directly or indirectly, it affects you too. It is easy in a bigger city to be able to disconnect from certain problems. But in a small town those problems affect everyone.

4. What the word "community" really means.

Along the same lines as #3, everyone is always ready and willing to lend a helping hand when you need one in a small town and to me that is the true meaning of community. It's working together to build a better atmosphere, being there to raise each other up, build each other up, and pick each other up when someone is in need. A small town community is full of endless support whether it be after a tragedy or at a hometown sports game. Everyone shows up to show their support.

5. That it isn't about the destination, but the journey.

People say this to others all the time, but it takes on a whole new meaning in a small town. It is true that life is about the journey, but when you're from a small town, you know it's about the journey because the journey probably takes longer than you spend at the destination. Everything is so far away that it is totally normal to spend a couple hours in the car on your way to some form of entertainment. And most of the time, you're gonna have as many, if not more, memories and laughs on the journey than at the destination.

6. The consequences of making bad choices.

Word travels fast in a small town, so don't think you're gonna get away with anything. In fact, your parents probably know what you did before you even have a chance to get home and tell them. And forget about being scared of what your teacher, principle, or other authority figure is going to do, you're more afraid of what your parents are gonna do when you get home.

7. To trust people, until you have a reason not to.

Everyone deserves a chance. Most people don't have ill-intentions and you can't live your life guarding against every one else just because a few people in your life have betrayed your trust.

8. To be welcoming and accepting of everyone.

While small towns are not always extremely diverse, they do contain people with a lot of different stories, struggle, and backgrounds. In a small town, it is pretty hard to exclude anyone because of who they are or what they come from because there aren't many people to choose from. A small town teaches you that just because someone isn't the same as you, doesn't mean you can't be great friends.

9. How to be my own, individual person.

In a small town, you learn that it's okay to be who you are and do your own thing. You learn that confidence isn't how beautiful you are or how much money you have, it's who you are on the inside.

10. How to work for what I want.

Nothing comes easy in life. They always say "gardens don't grow overnight" and if you're from a small town you know this both figuratively and literally. You certainly know gardens don't grow overnight because you've worked in a garden or two. But you also know that to get to the place you want to be in life it takes work and effort. It doesn't just happen because you want it to.

11. How to be great at giving directions.

If you're from a small town, you know that you will probably only meet a handful of people in your life who ACTUALLY know where your town is. And forget about the people who accidentally enter into your town because of google maps. You've gotten really good at giving them directions right back to the interstate.

12. How to be humble .

My small town has definitely taught me how to be humble. It isn't always about you, and anyone who grows up in a small town knows that. Everyone gets their moment in the spotlight, and since there's so few of us, we're probably best friends with everyone so we are as excited when they get their moment of fame as we are when we get ours.

13. To be well-rounded.

Going to a small town high school definitely made me well-rounded. There isn't enough kids in the school to fill up all the clubs and sports teams individually so be ready to be a part of them all.

14. How to be great at conflict resolution.

In a small town, good luck holding a grudge. In a bigger city you can just avoid a person you don't like or who you've had problems with. But not in a small town. You better resolve the issue fast because you're bound to see them at least 5 times a week.

15. The beauty of getting outside and exploring.

One of my favorite things about growing up in a rural area was being able to go outside and go exploring and not have to worry about being in danger. There is nothing more exciting then finding a new place somewhere in town or in the woods and just spending time there enjoying the natural beauty around you.

16. To be prepared for anything.

You never know what may happen. If you get a flat tire, you better know how to change it yourself because you never know if you will be able to get ahold of someone else to come fix it. Mechanics might be too busy , or more than likely you won't even have enough cell service to call one.

17. That you don't always have to do it alone.

It's okay to ask for help. One thing I realized when I moved away from my town for college, was how much my town has taught me that I could ask for help is I needed it. I got into a couple situations outside of my town where I couldn't find anyone to help me and found myself thinking, if I was in my town there would be tons of people ready to help me. And even though I couldn't find anyone to help, you better believe I wasn't afraid to ask.

18. How to be creative.

When you're at least an hour away from normal forms of entertainment such as movie theaters and malls, you learn to get real creative in entertaining yourself. Whether it be a night looking at the stars in the bed of a pickup truck or having a movie marathon in a blanket fort at home, you know how to make your own good time.

19. To brush off gossip.

It's all about knowing the person you are and not letting others influence your opinion of yourself. In small towns, there is plenty of gossip. But as long as you know who you really are, it will always blow over.

Grateful Beyond Words: A Letter to My Inspiration

I have never been so thankful to know you..

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

You have taught me that you don't always have to strong. You are allowed to break down as long as you pick yourself back up and keep moving forward. When life had you at your worst moments, you allowed your friends to be there for you and to help you. You let them in and they helped pick you up. Even in your darkest hour you showed so much strength. I know that you don't believe in yourself as much as you should but you are unbelievably strong and capable of anything you set your mind to.

Your passion to make a difference in the world is unbelievable. You put your heart and soul into your endeavors and surpass any personal goal you could have set. Watching you do what you love and watching you make a difference in the lives of others is an incredible experience. The way your face lights up when you finally realize what you have accomplished is breathtaking and I hope that one day I can have just as much passion you have.

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The love you have for your family is outstanding. Watching you interact with loved ones just makes me smile . You are so comfortable and you are yourself. I see the way you smile when you are around family and I wish I could see you smile like this everyday. You love with all your heart and this quality is something I wished I possessed.

You inspire me to be the best version of myself. I look up to you. I feel that more people should strive to have the strength and passion that you exemplify in everyday life.You may be stubborn at points but when you really need help you let others in, which shows strength in itself. I have never been more proud to know someone and to call someone my role model. You have taught me so many things and I want to thank you. Thank you for inspiring me in life. Thank you for making me want to be a better person.

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life..

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Don't freak out

This is a rule you should continue to follow no matter what you do in life, but is especially helpful in this situation.

Email the professor

Around this time, professors are getting flooded with requests from students wanting to get into full classes. This doesn't mean you shouldn't burden them with your email; it means they are expecting interested students to email them. Send a short, concise message telling them that you are interested in the class and ask if there would be any chance for you to get in.

Attend the first class

Often, the advice professors will give you when they reply to your email is to attend the first class. The first class isn't the most important class in terms of what will be taught. However, attending the first class means you are serious about taking the course and aren't going to give up on it.

Keep attending class

Every student is in the same position as you are. They registered for more classes than they want to take and are "shopping." For the first couple of weeks, you can drop or add classes as you please, which means that classes that were once full will have spaces. If you keep attending class and keep up with assignments, odds are that you will have priority. Professors give preference to people who need the class for a major and then from higher to lower class year (senior to freshman).

Have a backup plan

For two weeks, or until I find out whether I get into my waitlisted class, I will be attending more than the usual number of classes. This is so that if I don't get into my waitlisted class, I won't have a credit shortage and I won't have to fall back in my backup class. Chances are that enough people will drop the class, especially if it is very difficult like computer science, and you will have a chance. In popular classes like art and psychology, odds are you probably won't get in, so prepare for that.

Remember that everything works out at the end

Life is full of surprises. So what if you didn't get into the class you wanted? Your life obviously has something else in store for you. It's your job to make sure you make the best out of what you have.

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There's a time in life when one feels alone. A fragile time when it seems like the world is an enemy in itself and nothing, better yet, no one, is there. The pain is almost indescribable. Numb, cold, and empty feelings overwhelm the body. I too am not subject from this feeling. Luckily, someone did the unexpected and helped me find my way out of this slump, and literally help me become who I am today. Coming into middle school I was an outsider. A new kid shoved into a judgmental world known as junior high. Cliques and groups surrounded me but I belonged to none.

No one knew who I was; a crack in the sidewalk that goes unnoticed. Due to my social status few to none knew about my situa

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When Daniel, one of Dublin’s top chefs, faces accusations of sexual assault, Hannah’s mind returns to the summer she spent waitressing at his high-end restaurant — the excitement of the glamorous dining room, the pressures of the kitchen and the wild parties after hours, where something sinister happened that changed her life. Meanwhile, Daniel’s wife, Julie, is hiding from the paparazzi and trying to understand the allegations against the man she loves. In alternating chapters, Gilmartin gives voice to Daniel, Hannah and Julie, perceptively delving into issues of silence, complicity and the aftermath of violence. (Pushkin Press, June 4)

‘The Throne,’ by Franco Bernini, translated by Oonagh Stransky

The first in a planned trilogy, Bernini’s engrossing historical novel follows Machiavelli’s trajectory through the corridors of power in 16th-century Italy. Sent by the Florentine Republic to spy on the plotting Cesare Borgia, Machiavelli shrewdly accepts a proposal to chronicle Borgia’s life story. As the relationship between the biographer and his subject evolves, each man relies on the other to achieve his political ambitions, yet only one will succeed. (Europa, June 11)

‘The Final Act of Juliette Willoughby,’ by Ellery Lloyd

Lloyd’s engaging historical mystery moves swiftly between pre-World War II Parisian art studios, the elite academic corridors of early 1990s Cambridge University and present-day Dubai, where a controversial masterpiece by British heiress and surrealist artist Juliette Willoughby appears on display after it was presumed lost in the fire that claimed her life. Art history scholars had been suspicious about the truth behind the painting’s loss, and the continuing investigation — with possible ties to a murder — uncovers scandalous secrets that someone might go to great lengths to keep quiet. (Harper, June 11)

‘Moonbound,’ by Robin Sloan

The author of “Mr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Bookstore” returns with a far-flung sci-fi adventure that begins 11,000 years in the future, when animals can talk and genetic manipulators called wizards rule. After 12-year-old Ariel fails to comply with a wizard’s directive to remove a sword from a stone, he is forced to flee the only place he has ever known in the company of a sentient ancient artifact whose purpose is to contain all the knowledge of human history. Ariel and his companion set out on a quest to save his home from the vindictive wizard, encountering danger and finding new friendships along the way. (MCD, June 11)

‘God Bless You, Otis Spunkmeyer,’ by Joseph Earl Thomas

Joseph Thomas — not the author but the novel’s similarly-named protagonist — is many things: an Iraq Army veteran; a single father; an emergency room technician at a North Philadelphia hospital; an Ivy-league student of medicine; and a Black man trying to find his place in a country that often judges him unfairly. Struggling to maintain balance between the incessant obligations of work, school and fatherhood, his everyday encounters are a continuous reminder of the difficulties he has faced while trying to build a life for himself. Joseph’s travails, told in a forceful stream of consciousness, expose the daily rhythms, obstacles and joys of one man’s life. (Grand Central, June 18)

‘Hombrecito,’ by Santiago Jose Sanchez

Sanchez’s powerful first novel follows a young boy from Colombia to the United States and back again as he struggles with abandonment issues, acclimating to a new homeland and grappling with his own queer sexual awakening. With a “father-shaped hole” in his heart, he pushes away from his single mother in a raucous attempt to define his own life. But accompanying her back to Colombia as an adult allows him to reconsider the childhood images he had of his parents — and perhaps find grace and acceptance. (Riverhead, June 25)

‘Husbands and Lovers,’ by Beatriz Williams

Single mother Mallory Dunne has just sent her 10-year-old son, Sam, off to summer camp when she gets an alarming call — her son has consumed a poisonous death cap mushroom. With Sam needing a new kidney that she can’t provide, Mallory’s only options are to contact Sam’s father, whom she hasn’t seen in more than a decade, or to locate her mother’s recently discovered birth family. In another timeline, Hannah Ainsworth, a traumatized World War II survivor married to a British diplomat in 1950s Egypt, finds comfort in the arms of the manager of one of the grandest hotels in Cairo, reawakening a part of her she thought was lost. The experiences of these women as mothers in two different times and places link them together in surprising ways. (Ballantine, June 25)

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9: Release date and time, where to watch, and more

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9 has been scheduled for release on June 2, 2024, at 11:45 pm JST . Fans in Japan can catch it on TV Tokyo, among other channels. International audiences can watch the upcoming episode on Hulu.

Blue Archive The Animation episode 8 featured an exciting trip to the aquarium that turned out to be more than just fun and frolic. The day turned intriguing as Shiroko started to wonder about her friend Hoshino's secretive actions, why the latter seemed so different, and what secret was she harboring? This episode delves deeper into their friendship, revealing more about the characters and laying the groundwork for what's next.

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9 release date and time

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9 will grace the screen on June 2, 2024. The full release timings are given below:

Where to watch Blue Archive The Animation episode 9

For those wondering where they can catch Blue Archive The Animation episode 9, the anime continues to air on TV Tokyo. For international viewers, Hulu remains the go-to platform, streaming the episodes globally.

Besides, platforms like Amazon Prime Video, dAnime Store, U-Next, Google Play, and YouTube may also offer the episode depending on your location. It is recommended that fans check these platforms' availability in their region to ensure they do not miss out on the episode when it is released.

Blue Archive The Animation episode 8 recap

In Blue Archive The Animation episode 8, the characters spend the day at the aquarium, which becomes more than just a fun outing. Shiroko, noticing that her friend Hoshino is acting a bit unusual, starts to grow suspicious. Despite the enjoyable environment, filled with interesting marine life and playful interactions, Shiroko can't shake off her concerns about Hoshino's secretive behavior.

Throughout their day, the tension builds as Shiroko confronts Hoshino about her actions, suspecting there's something big Hoshino isn't sharing. The situation escalates when Shiroko spots what looks like transfer papers in Hoshino's belongings, hinting that the latter might leave the school.

This discovery strains their friendship, bringing in a mix of confusion and betrayal to what was meant to be a light-hearted day. By the end of the episode, it's clear that there are deeper issues affecting their relationships, setting the stage for future episodes.

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9: What to expect

Blue Archive The Animation episode 9 is expected to pick up right where the previous episode left off. The story has been greatly building up, with each episode revealing more about the different plots and how they're all intertwined. Episode 8 had a thrilling premise with unexpected developments, and now, Episode 9 is speculated to dive deeper into these storylines.

Viewers can anticipate unraveling more mysteries, facing new conflicts, and perhaps finding unexpected allies along the way. The dynamics between the characters, especially with the hints of deeper backstories being explored, are something to look forward to.

As fans eagerly await the release of Blue Archive The Animation episode 9, it's clear that the story set in the world of Kivotos is gearing up for yet another exciting chapter that promises to deliver a mix of promising developments, danger, and unexpected twists. The excitement among fans across the globe is palpable, showcasing the strong attraction to this engaging storyline.

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The best new books to read in June 2024

From mind-bending mysteries to sweeping family sagas, here are all the new releases to enjoy this month.

Fiction Pick

Sandwich by catherine newman.

If you are after a book to pack on your next holiday , look no further. Here is a novel which will go down as easily as a chilled poolside drink. The book is narrated by a menopausal Rocky on her family’s annual summer trip to Cape Cod. Sandwiched between her nearly-adult children and ageing parents, all of whom have descended on the coastal apartment for the week, her whole life feels as though it is in flux. Sandwich has such poignant things to say about family, marriage and parenting, while also casting a gorgeous light on those golden holiday days (even if you do spend most of the trip dragging sand around or looking for parking). A hilarious tonic of a book.

(Doubleday, £16.99)

Nonfiction pick

Broken threads by mishal husain.

In the summer of 1947, millions of lives were affected by the Partition of India . Among them were the grandparents of BBC presenter Mishal Husain, who has turned to letters, diaries and tapes in order to piece together fragments of her family history. On her father’s side were Mumtaz, a Muslim doctor, and Mary, a Catholic from an Anglo-Indian family, who fell in love in Lahore. Her maternal grandparents, Tahirah and Shahid, meanwhile, watched the events leading up to Partition unfold from Delhi. Broken Threads is a triumph of a book: at once a moving family memoir and a clear-eyed interrogation into the legacy of empire.

(4th Estate, £18.99)

Best of the rest

Parade by rachel cusk.

In the latest experimental novel from the acclaimed, Booker-nominated author of the Outline trilogy, a quartet of stories explore themes of gender and art. Featuring a man who begins to paint upside down and a woman who sculpts black spiders, Parade is a strange, brooding book.

(Faber, £16.99)

The Heart in Winter by Kevin Barry

In 1891 Montana, an Irish poet named Tom pays the bills by composing letters to the prospective brides of men who can’t write. When he falls for one of these women, Polly, a forbidden love affair – and epic journey fleeing on stolen horseback – make up this unforgettable read.

(Canongate, £16,99)

Scripted by Fearne Cotton

In Cotton’s high-concept debut novel, Jade is unnerved to keep finding scripts for conversations which later play out in real life. But what is most confronting is that these scripts reveal just how much she lets everyone in her life walk all over her. Can she finally be inspired to change?

(Michael Joseph, £18.99)

The Midnight Feast by Lucy Foley

From the author of bestselling The Hunting Party comes another mystery with an immersive setting, this time in a Dorset woodland manor house during midsummer. Here, the unearthing of a 15-year-old secret among old friends ends in murder.

(HarperCollins, £18.99)

Going Home by Tom Lamont

When his childhood friend dies, Teo finds himself attempting to raise the two-year-old son she left behind – with only his difficult father and unreliable friend Ben to help. Going Home is an affecting debut about fatherhood and male friendship.

(Sceptre, £16.99)

Welcome to Glorious Tuga by Francesca Segal

Charlotte Walker is a zoooligist who has taken up a fellowship on the tiny island of Tuga, ostensibly to study an endangered species of tortoises, but in reality solve a secret mystery of her own. This warm and completely addictive novel is escapism at its finest.

(Chatto & Windus, £18.99)

Eruption by James Patterson and Michael Crichton

A collaboration between the bestselling thriller author and the creator of Jurassic Park , Eruption is a blockbuster novel about a volcanic eruption which might end the world – and a decades-old military secret which is about to make the situation a lot worse.

(Century, £22)

Godwin by Joseph O’Neill

From the Booker Prize-longlisted author of Netherland , a compelling novel about football, family and migration. It’s an odyssey of two brothers, who travel in search of a prodigy who they are convinced is the next Lionel Messi.

(4th Estate, £16.99)

Private Rites by Julia Armfield

In a world where there is constant rain and buildings are lapsing into flooding water, three sisters are drawn back together when their estranged father dies. Private Rites is a hauntingly good book about family , faith and the climate crisis.

(Fourth Estate, £16.99)

Scaffolding by Lauren Elkin

In 2019, Anna is a psychoanalyst living in Paris who embarks on an affair with the boyfriend of her downstairs neighbour. In the same apartment in 1972, Florence begins an affair with her psychology teacher. Scaffolding is a multi-layered, intelligent novel.

(Chatto & Windus, £16.99)

One of Our Kind by Nicola Yoon

Pregnant with their second child, Jasmyn and King decide to move to Liberty, California , where their family can feel at home in a majority-Black environment. But in the world of this taut, simmering read, all is not as it seems.

(Trapeze, £20)

This is Why We Lied by Karin Slaughter

In a luxury lodge perched on a secluded mountain, Mercy had been about to expose secrets when she wound up dead. Investigator Will Trent happens to be there on his honeymoon , and now it’s a race to find the killer before they strike again.

(HarperCollins, £22)

The Suspect by Rob Rinder

The follow up to number-one bestseller The Trail, The Suspect sees a breakfast TV presenter die live on air – and it quickly transpires it wasn’t an accident. All suspicions may have landed on the celebrity chef Sebastian, but junior barrister Adam Green isn’t so sure.

(Century, £20)

The End of Summer by Charlotte Philby

How well do any of us really know the people we love? When journalists turn up on Francesca’s doorstep making awful claims about her mother, she realises that perhaps it is not so well at all. The End of Summer is a literary thriller that is as page-turning as it is elegantly written.

(Borough Press, £16.99)

Only Here, Only Now by Tom Newlands

Cora is a young neurodivergent girl growing up on a council estate in 1990s Scotland, hoping for a bright future against all odds. This coming-of-age tale is exquisitely written and comes with endorsements from Michael Sheen and Roddy Doyle.

(Phoenix, £18.99)

The Witness by Alexandra Wilson

When a young black man is arrested for murder, his barrister knows something isn’t right – yet she would never have expected the secret which she stumbles upon while digging around his case. A twisty courtroom thriller that is destined to become a TV drama.

(Sphere, £16.99)

Spoilt Creatures by Amy Twigg

Newly single and stuck in a job she hates, it is no wonder that when Iris comes across a women’s commune on a remote Kent farm, she quickly becomes obsessed. But just as she is drawn into this world, a group of men arrive on the farm and the freedom she yearned for is threatened.

(Tinder, £18.99)

The Architecture of Modern Empire by Arundhati Roy

Before she was the Booker Prize winning writer of The God of Small Things , Arundhati Roy trained as an architect. In this collection of interviews with American broadcaster David Barsamian, Roy examines the hidden structures of modern empire with her incisive interrogation of nationalism, war, neoliberalism and technology.

(Penguin, £10.99)

We Will Not Be Saved by Nemonte Nenquimo

Born into the Waorani tribe of Ecuador’s Amazon rainforest, Nemonte grew up in a culture of foraging, storytelling and shamanism. 20 years later, she has emerged as one of our most important climate activists and indigenous voices. We Will Not Be Saved is her astonishing story.

(Wildfire, £20)

Looked After by Ashley John-Baptise

Growing up in the care system, John-Baptiste’s childhood was spent living with five different families. Now a husband, father, and successful broadcaster, he recounts these tumultuous experiences for the first time in this compelling, important memoir .

(Hodder & Stoughton, £18.99)

Challenger by Adam Higginbotham

On 28 January 1986, the Space Shuttle Challenger took off from a Florida launchpad; 73 seconds later, it was engulfed in flames, and all seven on board were killed instantly. With scrupulous detail, Higginbotham charts the series of fatal errors that led up to the tragedy.

(Viking, £25)

Under a Rock by Chris Stein

Stein’s memoir of his career in Blondie – and relationship with Debbie Harry – is so evocative that it almost vibrates with music from the era. It is also surprisingly funny and candid, and a tender love letter to his lifelong partner and friend.

(Corsair, £25)

The Secret Public by Jon Savage

This overdue history of the LGBTQ influence on popular culture takes key moments in the music and industry – from Little Richard in the 1950s through to David Bowie – to explore how gay culture went mainstream and altered pop forever.

(Faber, £22)

Off the Beat by Nusrit Mehtab

When Nusrit Mehtab first joined the Metropolitan Police, she encountered racism and misogyny at almost every turn – and as she rose through the ranks, it got worse, not better. This memoir is her startling, no-holds-barred account.

(Torva, £20)

These Foolish Things by Dylan Jones

As the former editor of GQ, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that the cast of characters which appear in Dylan Jones’s memoir include everyone from David Bowie to Rihanna. These Foolish Things is the glittering chronicles of his adventures in media, music, politics and fashion.

(Constable, £25)

MILF by Paloma Faith

The Brit Award winning singer deep-dives into motherhood, identity and the expectations still placed on women today. From her experiences with IVF and heartbreak, through to her relationship with her own mum, MILF is raw and readable.

(Ebury Spotlight, £22)

‘Writing helped me put the joy back into my life’ Kevin Kwan wrote ‘Crazy Rich Asians’ when he was at a low point (Photo: Raen Badua) When Kevin Kwan was writing the novel that would eventually change his life, he had a post-it note with the word “joy” on it stuck to his computer screen. “I began writing my first novel Crazy Rich Asians at a particularly sad moment in my life,” he explains. “I had just lost my father, and I was trying to write my way out of grief. The post-it note was there to remind myself why I was writing, and it really worked. Telling those stories helped to channel joy back to my life.” In turn, this romcom set in the upper echelons of Singapore society brought joy to a vast number of other people. Published in 2013, the novel sold more than five million copies worldwide and since has been translated into over 40 languages. A Broadway musical is in development, while the 2018 film adaptation was the first major Hollywood film since 1993’s The Joy Luck Club to feature a majority Asian cast. “When I told the director Jon Chu what I did, he too decided to put post-it notes with the word ‘joy’ on every camera while filming,” Kwan says. “He even hid the word throughout the movie—it shows up on taxis, on balloons, in the most unexpected places.” Whether or not the original post-it note has survived the decade, Kwan has certainly not forgotten to continue to channel the joy into his books. His latest novel, Lies and Weddings , is a gorgeous, funny tale in which Rufus, after running into debt, is heavily encouraged by his former supermodel mother to find a rich woman to marry. “I took my love for classic novels by the likes of Jane Austen and Anthony Trollope, and shows like Bridgerton and Downton Abbey , and gave them a 21st century twist,” he says. “I wanted to take the traditional narrative about how a woman must marry a rich husband and turn it on its head.” He wrote it in 2021 while staying at a friend’s house in Hawaii. “I had been suffering from writer’s block, but a few days into the visit words started spilling onto the page and I was writing a chapter a day,” he recalls. “It turns out all I needed was a live volcano churning underneath my feet to start the flow of creativity.” He has learned a lot about writing since publishing his debut, which he says didn’t so much change his life as cause it to “explode”. “I never thought I could make a career out of writing, and I feel incredibly fortunate that I’m able to,” he says. “But I’ve also learnt that fame and success doesn’t necessarily bring happiness. The joy really comes from the act of creating, and the wonderful unexpected friendships that have come about as a result of my books.” Lies and Weddings by Kevin Kwan (Hutchinson Heinemann, £18.99) is published on 20 June

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3 Sultry, Summery New Thrillers

If your idea of a beach read involves murder, we’ve got you covered.

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By Sarah Lyall

This month’s thrillers are full of women grappling with misdeeds — in some cases their own, but mostly those of men.

We start in Dublin, where Lou Manson, a college professor, is trying as hard as she can to forget the awful thing that happened more than 30 years ago. But when a figure from the past suddenly emerges, it all comes flooding back. “It only takes a second for the terror and guilt to find me,” she says.

Fiona McPhillips’s tense and unsettling WHEN WE WERE SILENT (Flatiron, 307 pp., $28.99), is about sexual predators and the wall of silence that often protects them, particularly in a place in thrall to the all-powerful Catholic Church. It’s also about how hard it can be for victims to find peace.

Alternating between the present and the past, when Lou was 18 years old and a wrong-side-of-the-tracks scholarship student at Highfield Manor, a snooty all-girls school in Dublin, the story presents a compelling portrait of a society animated more by what is concealed than what is disclosed. Back then, Lou’s efforts to expose the sexual abuses of the school’s P.E. teacher — while dealing with her alcoholic mother and her illicit passion for a girl in her class, Shauna — ended in tragedy.

Years later, a new allegation at Highfield, against a different teacher, stirs up painful memories. It also sends Lou on a hunt for her long-lost friend, whose life took its own sharp turn decades earlier and who has since mysteriously dropped out of sight. “Only Shauna ever knew the truth about that night,” Lou says. The book doesn’t come to a boil until the end, but the reality is even more shocking than we imagined.

Manako Kajii — or Kajimana, as the papers call her — is in a Tokyo prison, having been convicted of killing three of her lovers after cooking them fabulous meals, but all anyone wants to talk about is her weight. “I bet Kajimana eats an absolute ton!” declares one of the clueless men in Asako Yuzuki’s BUTTER (Ecco, 452 pp., $30). “It’s a miracle that someone that fat could con so many people into wanting to marry her!”

A best seller in Japan and now deftly translated into English by Polly Barton, “Butter” is based on the real case of the so-called Konkatsu Killer, who was convicted of killing three would-be husbands and is currently on death row in Japan. Yuzuki has turned it into not just a fascinating psychological puzzle but also a damning indictment of Japanese misogyny and fatphobia. It has the side effect of making the reader very hungry.

Sent to talk to Kajii in prison, Rika Machida — a female journalist at a male-dominated magazine — is repelled and fascinated by her bossiness and lack of remorse. Kajii orders Rika to eat some delicious food, starting with rice with butter and soy sauce, and describe it to her as a condition of a proper interview.

“Superior-quality butter should be eaten when it’s still cold and hard, to truly luxuriate in its texture and aroma,” Kajii says. “It will begin to melt almost immediately with the heat of the rice, but I want you to eat it before it melts fully. Cool butter and warm rice.”

Rika’s investigation is unexpected and exciting, and allows her to enjoy food — and to gain weight without guilt — for the first time.

“She put a hand to her stomach, and tried to listen calmly to her own desires, to what her body wanted,” Yuzuki writes. And then she eats.

For a novel with such a high body count, L.M. Chilton’s SWIPED (Scout Press, 294 pp., $27.99) is remarkably lighthearted. It begins in the hellscape of a “hen party,” as bachelorette parties are known in Britain, where the participants are drunkenly playing X-rated party games and the maid of honor, Gwen Turner, is hiding in the bathroom, trawling for dates on her phone.

“As you can see from the excellent selection of photos, he really enjoys laughing in various pubs with two to three different mates,” she remarks of one of the men who pop up.

By the low standards of the dating app world, he seems promising. But then he sends her an unsettling piece of news: A man she went on one bad date with recently is dead, and it looks like murder.

He’s just the first. The men from her last bunch of matches on the app — including Rob, “the handsy guy who wasn’t over his ex”; Freddie, who recounted in great detail the plot of a TV show that Gwen had already seen; and Josh, who accused her of being hormonal and declared, “No wonder you’re single!” — are all dead, too.

The book riffs amusingly not just on life as a singleton but also on cryptocurrency, algorithms, the pluses and minuses of female friendship and pre-wedding angst. The mystery in this “Bridget Jones”-lite novel is almost secondary. But it’s also urgent, because it becomes clear that Gwen is being framed for the murders, and she has to unveil the killer before it’s too late.

Sarah Lyall is a writer at large for The Times, writing news, features and analysis across a wide range of sections. More about Sarah Lyall