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We hope our funeral speech examples will inspire you to write a heartfelt eulogy to honour your loved one.

Delivering a funeral speech can be a daunting task.  Quite apart from the challenge of speaking in front of people while in a highly charged emotional state, the task of actually writing the funeral speech can be overwhelming. 

We are here to help you tackle this important job especially if you are in a state of shock from the grief of losing your loved one.

Further down the page there are links to example eulogies for all loved ones, friends or colleagues to give you inspiration.

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First of all, we have put together the following simple guidelines to help you to think of things to say: 

  • Speak from the heart and say how you feel about the person
  • Describe the person's qualities
  • Talk about their career, jobs, hobbies and passions
  • Talk about their relationships with family, friends and colleagues
  • Mention things that you inherited or learned from them
  • Perhaps mention some people who will be at the funeral
  • Mention a couple of funny stories if appropriate
  • Keep it real and don't be afraid of mentioning their less good points - you don't have to put them on a pedestal
  • Thank people for coming to the funeral and for their support

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Eulogy Sample Speeches

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Eulogies are pieces of writing or funeral speeches that are typically shared at a funeral or gathering for someone who has passed away. The speeches often contain a description of the person who passed away, the kind of person they were and personal memories that the person delivering the eulogy finds meaningful to share. That being said, eulogies can be fully customized to fit your writing style and needs and can come in all types of formats. Somber eulogies, eulogies filled with stories, short eulogies, and funny eulogies are all common. The best eulogy speeches are those that are written from the heart.

How to write a eulogy

Outstanding eulogies posted on ever loved, example eulogy templates, eulogy examples for a friend, eulogy examples for a father, eulogy examples for a mother, eulogy examples for a grandmother or grandfather, eulogy examples for a son, eulogy examples for a brother or sister, eulogy examples for a grandson or granddaughter, eulogy example for an infant, eulogy examples for a parent, eulogy examples for a wife, eulogy examples for a coworker, eulogy examples for various professions.

Not sure where to start? Don’t know how to write a eulogy for a mother? Friend? Sister? Grandfather? Try to relax and remember that many people don’t know how to write a eulogy, especially for someone important in their life. To start, the main parts to include in a standard eulogy are as follows:

Introduction

A brief introduction usually looks like “Thank you all for being here” or “Thank you all for coming”. You’re acknowledging the audience and thanking them for sharing this time with you and yours.

Short story

Including a short story about your loved one is customary and is usually a story that really shows their personality or what about them made them special. If you’re interested in a lighter eulogy, consider sharing a funny story. For more somber atmospheres, stories about lessons taught by the individual or a story about their achievements is a great alternative. Other popular story topics include major accomplishments, life events, the impact the person had on others, childhood memories and years, stories about traveling, marriage, family, children, or other important stories.

Favorite memories

Similar to the story, it’s not unusual to see eulogies include one or two favorite memories the person had with the deceased. These memories can be of simple or complex moments; this is up to you and what feels right.

Important quote

If your loved one had a favorite passage, verse, quote, or poem, you can include it in the eulogy itself. Alternatively, if you have a passage or quote that you feel is relevant and important to share, you can include that as well.

You can end the eulogy by summarizing the impact this person had on the lives of others and by acknowledging the family and those who chose to attend the services again. It may also feel fitting to end the eulogy with a treasured quote or passage.

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If you're looking for examples of real eulogies that have been written and read by folks on Ever Loved, here are some outstanding examples. Reading through example eulogies can help inspire you and guide you when it comes time for you to prepare a eulogy.

Shannon McMasters' eulogy

Written by Stephen McMasters Shannon McMasters' eulogy, written and read by her brother, Stephen, is a beautiful testament to a woman who Stephen describes as a "shining star that burned out too soon". Shannon's life was far from easy, but reading about her perseverance, determination, and strength and hearing her brother recount meaningful moments in their life and the impact she had on him and those around her is powerful. Shannon's eulogy is an example for those who are looking to honor the struggles and difficulties their loved one dealt with while remembering other important aspects of their life. Visit Shannon's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Shannon's full eulogy below:

Shannon had such a big life and touched so many people, it’s hard to know where to begin. Other than our mother, Shannon was the closest person to me growing up. I was basically raised by my mom and sister. Many of my earliest memories are of the two of us, singing Disney songs together, watching The Breakfast Club on rerun, and of course, fights in the backseat of the car. Later in life, she was the cool big sister. And I wanted to be just like her. I have so many fond memories with Shannon, from the University of Florida to moving cross-country to Los Angeles and on to Atlanta. I would not have done many of these things if not for her. Shannon was my best friend. We laughed at everything together, our sense of humor was nearly identical. We bonded over music sharing two of our top three favorite bands. People even said we look alike, which I was never sure was a compliment or not. The bulk of my life was spent with Shannon; it’s hard to believe she’s gone. She was a shining star that burned out too soon. I don’t know too many people that met Shannon and didn’t have something wonderful to say about her. She truly had a gift to connect to people, understand them, make them feel special and like they mattered. I believe she got this gift from our mother who also had a knack with people. Everyone’s life was brighter having known my sister, especially mine. People think Shannon was lucky to have me, but I was lucky to have her. I know I would not be the person I am today without her. She was always positive and believed in me when I didn’t believe in myself. Because of her, my dreams were bigger, my achievements were bigger, my life was bigger. Shannon was fearless in her pursuits; she accomplished so much in her short life. She graduated from UF, double-majoring in Political Science and Theatre. She then graduated from UCLA Law. She obtained degrees from both institutions while enduring bone marrow transplants. Later she went to cosmetology school at the Aveda Institute in Atlanta. I think it’s fair to say Shannon was dealt a rough hand from the start. In 1997, and again in 2004, she was diagnosed with Aplastic Anemia, an extremely rare disease in which the bone marrow quits producing red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets. Even with a donor, chances of survival are still not 100%. Fortunately, I was a match. I was Bone Marrow Boy as Shannon liked to call me. Throughout both transplants, she had to undergo chemotherapy, hospital isolation, and months of recovery before returning to her normal life. Her oncologist declared her in remission in 2012, but she suffered from graft versus host disease, which caused numerous side effects both internally and externally. For years she took cancer-causing immunosuppressant drugs to suppress her immune system so her body would not reject my marrow. Not only did Aplastic Anemia do tremendous damage to her body, it wreaked havoc on her mind. Doctors told Shannon she would not live passed 40 and would likely be barren. I can’t imagine hearing this as an 18 year-old. Living more than half of her life with a terminal illness resulted in clinical depression and PTSD. She was also told she may develop mental disorders later in life due to her extraordinary illness. As a young adult, her way of dealing with the condition was to not be emotional or vulnerable. She dealt with her illness by pushing it aside and pursuing her academic and career goals, leading many of us to forget that she was ever sick at all. Music, painting, and dancing also played significant roles in my sister’s healing. Shannon viewed dance as therapy. In 2014, she was a research participant in one of my school projects. She tied her connection to music and dancing directly to her illness. She stated, quote, “It’s where problems don’t exist. When you’re not thinking of everything else going on in your life, therefore your anxiety is reduced. Moving and dancing to music makes you happy. You’re not feeling depressed. It’s all about the whole getting lost in the moment. That’s a lot of what Buddhist practice is, staying in the present.” My sister seemed to have found peace in those moments of presence on the dance floor. She also found peace through painting, which she spent a lot time doing the last five years. I think that’s one of the many reasons we all loved Shannon, she made us feel special every moment we were with her. We were present because we felt her presence. In the summer of 2015, Shannon had her first psychotic break. Later that year, she was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder borderline Schizoaffective Disorder. Mental illness would prove to be the battle of Shannon’s life. She really struggled those last few years. During this time, her mind was changing and she was helpless to stop or reverse it. She lost many of her close connections, not because she OR we didn’t want them, but because she was trying to navigate her new reality that included mania, paranoia, and delusions. Losing our mother in 2021 and her dogs Osa and Kiki back-to-back was just too much to handle. She was hurting and trying to survive the only way she knew how, but I know she did not want to hurt herself and what happened was an accident. She told me not too long ago that she knew she was never going to be the same again, and she hated her illness and what it had done to her. It just isn’t fair what happened to Shannon. In the end, I think she felt misunderstood and no longer accepted, and that’s what hurts the most. I think she felt alone, like she didn’t have anyone. That’s the tragedy of mental illness, not just because of what she went through, but it’s hard for us to understand and even when we try to help, relationships suffer. Unfortunately there were no easy answers or quick fixes, and I underestimated her ability to cope with her illness. The transplants may have saved her life before, I just wish I could’ve saved it again. Sometimes I feel I didn’t do enough and maybe I’ll always feel guilt for that. Shannon recently told me she prayed to God frequently to take her. I think she was ready to go. I think she has been ready for a while. She felt she had a bigger purpose beyond this place. She came into our lives briefly, laughed with us, cried with us, danced with us, made us smile, made us feel special, then left as quickly as she arrived. Maybe that was her purpose here, to have a positive impact on all of us by leaving us better than she found us. I suppose death is what makes life beautiful, knowing that our time here is finite, to make the most of it and remember what is important. Shannon reminded us of that. When she died, a part of me died too, but a part of her and our mother will always live on in me because they make up so much of who I am. While my heart is broken that she is gone and I will never see my sister again in this life, a part of me feels that she is no longer suffering and is at peace with our mother in God’s kingdom. Some birds simply aren’t meant for this world, their feathers are too bright. That’s how I’ll always remember Shannon, and God called her home to be with our mother.

Juanita Pearce's eulogy

Written by Christopher Cost Juanita Pearce's eulogy, written with love and forethought by her grandson Christopher, is a wonderful example for those who are looking for a unique way to deliver a eulogy for a loved one. Christopher gives beautiful insight into Juanita's life by describing one of his earliest memories, describing how she was throughout her life, and what kind of emotional impact she had on all those she knew. Her dedication to her family and willingness to sacrifice for the good of others is detailed throughout his tribute. Additionally, Christopher takes the time to address members of the family, a beautiful departure from the standard eulogy format that makes Juanita's eulogy incredibly heartwarming and unique. Visit Juanita's memorial website to learn more about her life.

Read Juanita's full eulogy below:

Good morning. I am Christopher, Juanita’s grandson from her daughter, Debbie. My nearly 42- year life is right about the length of the job she retired from. She made it to her 89th birthday and then some. From her birth in 1933 to her retirement was just around 60 years. I still have 18 years to get to that point. A lot can happen within that time span. Memory and Truth are funny things. My memory tells me that of all the family, I feel I may have spent the most time with her. The truth is that of all the people that have been in my life, my grandma is the one that has been the most present and participatory. One of my earliest memories of time with my grandma, which is a bit fuzzy at this point in my life, is going to work with her during a summer I was staying with her. She was a manager at Southwestern Bell and visitors had to wear a special badge. What I remember is that I was playing with the alligator clip on the badge and managed to pinch and hurt my finger. I remember my grandma and many other grandmas running to my rescue. I remember my grandma taking me to see these giant catfish that were bigger than me at the time. I remember that I was being a dumb kid and fell and hurt my wrist and she found a way to get me patched up. I still have the scar. My earlier memories may be fuzzy and even failing me, but the truth isn’t: my grandma was always there for me, no matter what. For many of you, perhaps family most of all, that knew grandma before our car accident in 2004, there may be memories of a woman with strong beliefs. You may have memories of her sharing her opinion, and perhaps even memories of some strong judgments and prejudices. For those of us that were especially close to her, we likely also have memories of her always learning and growing into a person that overcame her prejudices. What I remember is she became a woman that even with her opinions, and attitudes, and judgements, never let that get in the way of doing the right thing and rendering aide and support when it was needed. The truth is I’ve only collected two-thirds the memories that my mother and uncle can recall. Her elder sister and only surviving sibling Helen may be able to recall my grandmother’s entire lifetime as memories. The truth is memories are but glimpses and moments and no singular memory or even the collection of memories from a single person will ever adequately define an individual. A lot of you may be blessed by only the last few years of my grandma’s life. I dare say they may be some of the richest blessings you may receive. Truth be told, for as long as I have memories of her, they are made up of sacrifice and offering, one after another. Be it driving to Texas to take care of her grandchildren when my uncle and aunt had to go on a trip or an overnight drive into the mountains of Arkansas to help my mom care for me and my sisters. Or middle of the night runs to the emergency room when one of my sisters or myself had an emergency and mom needed support. No matter the reason, no matter what she was doing, my memories are of a woman who was always there for her family. These last 18 years of my grandma’s life were some of her most challenging. Yet, while she always brought her ornery and cantankerous personality, she also brought every bit of survival fight and strength of character to fill my memories with a woman who scaled an ever-increasing mountain of health and physical and mental challenges. For the 8- and one-half years I directly cared for my grandma following the accident, we tackled daily physical and occupational therapy at my parents’ house and then at the clinic until she could finally return to her own home. We later battled through a relocation to find her and me a new home that was better suited for her ongoing needs and care, to only then face breast cancer before getting into thyroid surgeries. My mother then took over for a few years on daily care before my sister Rebecca took over principal care and support in 2020, just as the pandemic hit. Most of you have your own memories of these last two or three years that I ask for you to recall as I share what I believe of the last few years of my grandma’s life. I believe the truth is that our individual and collective memories tell of a woman that continued to be there no matter what the situation was. They tell of her being a person of support, care, and growth both personally and as an example for everyone around her. And I believe that she will continue to be that person in spirit through the end of each of our lives and the lives of each life we touch. I would like now to speak directly to a some of our family that have been part of Grandma’s daily life and were crucial in the ongoing fight my grandma put up these last 18 years. Kylie, You may never understand how important you were to Grandma Juanita. You were born just ahead of our car accident that changed her life forever. By the time she came to your grandma’s and grandpa’s house for her recovery, you were a source of ongoing reason for her to keep going. I hope that you will from time to time calm your mind and heart to just let her example of love and value for family guide you as you enter your adulthood. RyLee and Lora, She didn’t play favorites often--I should know because I did spend so much time with her--but she does have a special connection with each of you. Ava, Your video calls lighted your Grandma Juanita’s day and gave her a bright smile. To Owen, You don’t understand this today, but Grandma Juanita will always be with you. You were her source of strength and inspiration to keep fighting when her life was turned upside down going from living alone to living with you, your two big sisters and brother, your mom and dad, and the dogs. It was not an easy adjustment for her, but she was able to make that transition because of you. And as your Grandma Debbie and mommy will remind you in the years to come, your partner-in-crime will always be with you, even if you cannot remember her. And, to Kaison and Gavin, the twins, You brought her fresh spirit when her life was yet again shaken with a relocation and then her stroke earlier this year. To my dad, David, Despite your own health, you found the energy to help grandma with her laundry and as always, the two of you continued to keep each other on your toes in conversation. To my brother-in-law Matthew, you helped to clean up messes and did a lot of the heavy lifting with RyLee to relocate her lifetime of things to the new house and storage. To her sister Helen, I know that having a close relationship with you, and your brothers Dillard and Dalford when they were still with us, was very important to her. And, to all of grandma’s family and friends with whom she spoke or saw, there have been so many “cooks in the kitchen,” but she was always grateful for each of you. You each played a role greater than you may know in her ability to continue bringing us blessings and love for 89 years. To my sister Rebecca, who possesses a soul of infinite compassion and caregiving, I want to thank you for the life you were able to let our grandma keep. I may have taken care of her first, but you stepped up and took care of her when she needed support and assistance that allowed her to retain her dignity and privacy in a way a grandson couldn’t provide. And, finally, to her daughter, my mother, You’ve been here as a coordinator and source of medical knowledge and wisdom that completed out and has been no less important than the direct care Rebecca and I provided. Life has thrown you one personal or family health challenge after another, and you have continuing challenges in front of you. Always remember that you too can always calm your mind and heart to allow your mom’s strength and guidance to pick you up when you’re in doubt or facing uncertainty. Death is not the end! It is merely another step we must all take. For those of faith and spirituality that believe Juanita is in Heaven with God, death on Earth is but her means to move to that eternal life. And, for all of us, her death is merely a transition to an ongoing presence on Earth for as long as we each continue to keep her memory within us and grow from her and for as long as you each keep her as part of your truth. In a few hours, some of us will go on a bit of drive to Anadarko to inter her body with her parents and two of her brothers. For as far back as I can remember, this was an annual pilgrimage over Memorial Day weekend. Each year, I can recall the same story as we would pass by Sonic on the highway. Grandma would always remind us that she grew up in a house behind that Sonic. I don’t think that specific Sonic is still there. But for any of you that join us for the burial this afternoon, as you enter Anadarko and see what looks like an old Sonic on your right, let it be a reminder of how precious memories are. For me, I will always remember my grandmother as the woman that took me to the store to get hamburger meat, go home and cook spaghetti and Ragu, spread towels on the floor in front of the TV, and watch movies while we ate on those towels. No matter what memory of her beliefs, opinions, and judgments, I will always know the truth is Grandma loved me, her family, and her friends. The truth is she wasn’t only present, she was actively participating when present. It is in great part through her example and pruning that I am the person I am today. I thank you, Grandma, for every gift and lesson and moment you gave me, and there are nearly 42 years of them to draw on. I love you and carry you with me always!

Barbara Burton Kleinert's eulogy

Written by Christine Maszkiewicz This beautiful eulogy is a wonderful example of how to interweave testament to someone's personality and character with the core occassions of their life. Barbara's eulogy is able to paint a thorough picture of what she enjoyed, what she was passionate about, how she was as a mother, her educational and career choices, and so much more. It's clear that anyone who had the privilege to listen to this eulogy (or to read it in its written form) was given a wonderful opportunity to learn deeply about who Barbara was as a mother, partner, friend, and person. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

Read Barbara's full eulogy below:

Hello everyone, I am Christie Maszkiewicz, Barbara’s daughter. Today we come to honor and remember the life of Barbara Kleinert. My mother passed away four months exactly from the day my father passed away this year. We sit here in the same spot where we held his memorial back in February. It’s surreal. My family is still dealing with raw heartache from his death and now we are all feeling the pain from hers as well. They both left a void in our hearts. My brother and I are now without our dear parents. My nephews have lost both grandparents on their father’s side. It’s been a tough year so far so I want to thank you all for coming out to remember Barbara and to support this family once again while we are all trying to come to terms with such a great loss. I know many people could not make the trip to Colorado for health reasons or travel reasons. Barbara’s sister Laurie, brother Dave and niece Jenny all are here in spirit and watching online from the east coast and beyond. They wish they could be here today. They joined my brother and I and our spouses in the days leading up to my mother’s passing. We sat around her bed and talked with mom and reminisced about our time with Mom. At times I know for sure that Mom heard and reacted to what we were saying. She was surrounded with family and love in her last days and to me that is the most important thing. Love you Laurie, Dave and Jenny. Thank you, guys, for being there and for being here virtually today. My mom, Barbara was a sincere and warm person. She was a daughter, a grandchild, a niece and then a big sister. She was a close friend, a parishioner, a nurse and a teacher. She was a wife, a sister-in-law, an aunt, and a grandma. To many in her life she was a listener, a singer and a hand to hold. To me she was my mom. My mom loved to care for others throughout her life. My aunt Laurie told me one of her earliest memories was Mom, known as Barbie to Laurie, picking her up out of her crib when she was upset one night, holding and comforting her. During my mom’s childhood she grew up feeling unseen and unheard; she felt she didn’t really fit in or live up to her mother’s expectations. Her heart though was full of love, she turned those feelings of hurt into good. She reached out and helped others to make them feel seen, to make them feel heard. Her passion growing up was very much the church and music. She learned piano but found the guitar to be her instrument of choice and she used it throughout her life to bring song into a youth group or on a mission trip. When she was older, she went to nursing school to help others. Giving of herself was her calling. In her mother’s last year’s my mom was by her side and took care of her and the two eventually made peace. My mother was persistent about peace and understanding between those she loved. Mom was always involved in hobbies that helped others; she even met my dad through her volunteering activities. They met at the U.S.O. in New Jersey where she volunteered. Through her giving spirit she and my dad saw each other through some rough early years. Mom worked nights so dad could work and go to school. She juggled raising a young son while working long hours and supporting her husband. Eventually when a second child came along, she stopped working to be a stay-at-home mother and continue supporting her husband as he continued working and pursuing a Master’s Degree. My brother and I don’t have early memories of daycare, we have memories of being home with mom. Memories of being loved and cared for by her. That was a sacrifice she made, family was very important to her and I know we both appreciate the fact that our parents made that choice. When she went back into the workforce, she had to volunteer to get experience, since a Nursing degree wasn’t enough apparently. She volunteered and eventually worked in the school district with severely handicapped children. The passion she had for helping others became a lifelong career. Mom was always devoted to helping others, through her church St. Michaels in Colorado Springs, she joined the prison Ministry Kairos. I remember as a child answering the phone on weekends when mom was away on a Kairos Retreat. I very politely told the caller that mom was not here right now, she was in prison, could I take a message? My parents always got a chuckle out of that. As a child I connected with my mom’s fun spirit. She was childlike in the sense that she found wonder and beauty in the world where ever she went. She loved animals and nature. As child she had a bunny named Thumper that she adored. Later when she married my dad they acquired a pet skunk named Flower….I think we can figure out what name a pet deer may have acquired. Growing up we couldn’t have a dog or a cat since dad was allergic. With two kids and a wife wanting a critter he and mom figured out a way to make a guinea pig work with dad’s allergies. We had a spotted female named Cutie for a time and then we brought home Skeezics, a red spiky haired guinea pig. My mother had so much fun with him. We’d let him run around the living room and race down the hallway of the house. Many times mom had to help dad dismantle the huge sleeper sofa to get the guinea pig out from underneath where he was hiding. My mom would also sing various songs to the guinea pig, especially at treat time. That little pig would squeak so loudly when he heard the song….”What Shall we get for the Pig” since he knew he was getting a tasty treat. When we moved from CO to VA it was very hard on our family. Mom made sure to help us kids adjust and get involved in activities. As a horse crazy 8-year-old I wanted my own pony. The next best thing, riding lessons. My mom was at every single riding lesson camera in hand. She stood at the fence cheering me on as I learned new things like cantering or jumping. When I had my first fall she rushed to my side and as the old adage tells you, encouraged me to get back on. I’m sure as a mother that goes against many instincts to encourage a child to continue something that injured them. That next week she got me up early every morning so I could soak in a warm bath to ease my pain. In VA my mother continued with Kairos Prison missions but also got involved in Therapeutic riding for special needs children. I joined her a few times at the farm helping with the horses. She loved working with the children. They would come alive up on horseback, it relaxed them and they responded to the games mom and other volunteers played to engage the children. The smiles were just as bright on her face as they were on the children’s. My mother continued to love critters even after our family didn’t have any more pets. Our deck in the back of the house was not our deck. We didn’t have patio furniture or a hot tub out there. Nope, we had birds and squirrels lined up on every single railing eating the seeds and peanuts placed out there by mom. At night we ended up having raccoons at times. One evening there must have been 12 raccoons eating the seeds and other goodies mom fed to the critters. A special guest was Petey, a Virginia Opossum. This little critter loved noodles with BBQ sauce a specialty my mother whipped up for for her culinary delight. Mom spent hours taking photos of this sweet little creature. One day the opossum was still there in the morning and we watched her run off the deck to the underside of the front porch. She came back out with 10 babies clinging to her back and headed off into the woods. Mom made sure we all there to see it and she took pictures of the spectacle. Growing up loving animals just like my mother I didn’t have to look far to find a fuzzy or feathery friend to enjoy. My mother would often take in the birds that flew head first into the window. She would let them rest in a darkened aquarium until they came out of shock and then released them back to the woods. One such incident occurred with a little Tufted Titmouse, aptly named Tufty. He hit the window and needed help. When mom went to catch him, the little guy flew into the house and into the powder room that I was just exiting. My mom and I spent 15 minutes trying to catch that little bird to get him back outside. As I got older and moved on to college and beyond, I acquired the pets I didn’t have growing up, the fuzzy allergy triggering ones. My mother and father loved their grand-dog Spencer. He was a silly little Jack Russell Terrier. Mom never begrudged the fact that I didn’t want children of my own she accepted her four legged grandchildren. Every time I brought Spencer over you would hear the shrill voice of mom bellowing “Grand-Dog! Grand-dog”. He certainly was a spoiled grandchild. When I finally got my pony, my mother was there to meet her, happy as a clam to see me with Daenerys and to share the moment. My mother was constantly documenting our lives with photos. This was before digital photos which now everyone takes pictures of EVERYTHING. My mom invented that; out would come the camera and us kids would groan. Now we have boxes and boxes of memories to sort through that I know we will cherish as we walk down memory lane and thank her for being the shutterbug she was. Kodak stayed in business for a long time because of mom! My mother was the ever-present cheerleader and moral compass of our family. She brought a light to our lives, she often instigated fun but was also patient when we stepped out of line. Surviving my teenage years is a testament to the patience and love my mother had for her family. One hard part I’ve learned about losing someone is having to go through their belongings. Though I will state this act can shed light on memories that will warm the heart. So honestly this burden is one my brother and I are happy to take on. While looking through some books I came across a note mom wrote. She made many notes and comments in nearly every book she read. This particular note though was about parenting. She wrote that parents will make many mistakes. These mistakes shouldn’t really matter if the child knew they were loved. And mom, yes….we knew we were loved. Very much so. This year has been a hard year but with all the tragedy and difficult times we’ve had to endure, this year has been a year full of love, last moments and memories. I cherish these memories and they bring me comfort that there was so much love. I hope each of us can reflect on the memories we have of my Mom, Barbara….and that those feelings can bring us all comfort. We will love you forever Mom. We will love you forever.

Barbara Fritsche Olmanson's eulogy

Written by Leif Olmanson Written in the form of detailed descriptions of different memories Leif had with his mother, Barbara's eulogy is a perfect example of the how the accumulation of small moments woven together end up creating a beautiful landscape of a life well lived. Leif's description of each memory that he cherished with his mom is a perfect way for the reader to gain an understanding of the type of woman Barbara was and the effect she had on those around her. For those looking to share a eulogy that's built on memories, Leif's eulogy is a wonderful place to gain inspiration. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website .

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Remembrances of Mom: When she was ten years old our mother was baptized at St. Peter’s Episcopal Church in New Ulm, but I think one reason she chose the Church of the Holy Communion for our family was because of the beauty of the church and its history. I recall being told that the ceiling was designed to look like an upside-down ship—basically a vessel to bring the parishioners to heaven. And that the stained-glass windows came from England by sailing ships and overland by ox cart. The Dodd family grave in the back of the church evokes pioneer history. Mom had a keen interest in local history, and this Episcopal Church building is a living reminder of that history. The obituary focuses on Mom’s love of travel, especially their long trip to Burma and their service to a disadvantaged part of the world under difficult conditions. I think this was a formative experience for them—at times a trial by fire. In some ways, they must have been different people by the time they returned to resume their life in St. Peter. It was a few months after they returned to St. Peter that I (Leif) was born, and my little sister Lori followed shortly. With six kids you would think that the adventures would stop, but that was not the case. Although sometimes they traveled without the kids, often they brought all of us or some of us along. There were memorable trips to the Boundary Waters, Canada, the Black Hills, Florida, Yucatan, and the Cayman Islands. These trips instilled a sense of travel in all of us. Long after we all left home, when Mom was 70 and my sister Trudi was 40, she decided to fulfill her bucket list. It started with Trudi and Thor traveling with my parents to Ecuador and the Galapagos Islands. Other adventures included Peru - Machu Picchu and Lake Titicaca, Panama (with Trudi and Eric), Norway and Germany (with Trudi and Eric), and Trinidad and Tobago (with Trudi, Leif, and grandkids Britta and Anders) where I made the mistake of calling my parents elderly when we were inquiring about a boat trip. I was set straight by Mom right away but had reason to be concerned since the docks were in bad shape and the captain had to time the waves to get them on and offboard. There were also several trips to Mexico with each of her children and several grandchildren joining them. The most memorable trip was for Mom’s 80th Birthday where Trudi and I were with them for the entire 21-day trip and all but one of the other siblings and Anders joined for a week. We started in Puerto Morales (a great discovery and location we returned to many times for easier traveling as our parents aged) and then went to Tulum. From there we headed to Xcalak (which was one mile from Belize) and ended up staying at a scuba diver training facility which was cool since they had students from around the world and for the diving trips, we were outnumbered by diving instructors. Mom and Dad enjoyed the snorkeling and bird-watching trip. For such a small fishing village they had some great restaurants with some interesting locally sourced gourmet dishes. We were having a great time and I was using my iPod to text my brother Thor to tell him to come to Xcalak. He misunderstood my messaging and indicated he would meet us in Punta Allen. When Mom heard that we were off to meet Thor in Punta Allen. The travel books said the road from Tulum to Punta Allen was anywhere from 1 to 4 hours depending on road conditions. Well from Xcalak we had a 4-hour drive to Tulum and what turned out to be another 4 hours to Punta Allen. (This long drive was the first time I noticed signs of Alzheimer’s in my dad.) Amazing how well my mom and dad were able to cover it from us. So back to the story. It had been raining so the roads were more like small lakes than a road. With mud puddles covering most of the road and as it turns out it was the route for the adventure Jeep tours you would see if you would go on a cruise or to a big resort. So, there we are in our Jetta size car with luggage and five passengers, Anders on the hump in the back seat. Since the few people that lived on this route did not like the jeeps ripping up the road, they would put in Jeep size road bumps to slow them down. So, every time we came upon one, I would stop and have everyone get out of the car to make it over the bump. After we finally got to Punta Allen the streets were not any better since they were also flooded. We met up with Thor and his girlfriend at the time and had a wonderful time with some great food and company. The adventure continued with Schelli, and Lori joining us Back in Puerto Morelos and trips to Chichen itza to recreate childhood photographs and Ek Balam. A great and memorable trip. Other memorable occasions: Dad and Amby were working on the Ford Model As that were being used for Schelli and Amby’s Wedding parade. Right before the ceremony, Mom saw Amby and took him into the bathroom of the church and said no man would marry her daughter with greasy hands, so she helped him scrub the grease off. When she was babysitting Marty when he was 3, he helped her pick berries and make jam. When Schelli picked him up, he had dark red around his mouth, and she said “the jam must have been good”. Mom gave her a funny look and brought a washcloth over and said, I think he got into a Woodtick that fell off the dog. Picking Morel mushrooms, canoeing, her amazing cooking inspired by traveling including braunschweiger dip, kawswe, elderberry Kiekle, Burmese curry, homemade sauerkraut, and her conch ceviche Mom was always willing to go, whether it was dancing, fishing, going to the lake and tubing behind the boat, and paddle boarding at 80, and they really enjoyed garage sales. Mom was an anchor for our family. She took care of us when we were sick, fed us, taught us about nature and history, and encouraged our interests. She was the keeper of holiday traditions, adapting her more German Christmas traditions by adventurously adding her husband’s annual Norwegian delicacy: LUTEFISK. Regular Christmas guests were: Violet, Charles, and Pauline Kinson (Violet’s shrimp paste), Bernie Bornhagen (black mustard for the lutefisk), and other friends we adopted along the way. One Christmas when we all arrived Mom said they had noticed an awful smell in the house. They remembered their Springer Spaniel dog (Spike) had a dead squirrel in the yard. Sure, that she must have brought the carcass into the house they did a thorough search of the house and to their surprise, they discovered a piece of lutefisk under a chair. The dog must have grabbed it out of the bucket it was soaking in. Dad told us that he rinsed it off and put it back in the bucket. We were pretty sure he was joking. Lots of great memories and we will miss her greatly!

Juliann Therese Weimholt's eulogy

Written and read by Josef Weimholt In Juliann's eulogy, Josef does an excellent job at delivering many of the details you'd find in a eulogy in a loving, descriptive, and beautiful way. In addition to thanking the community, describing his mother's impact on those around her and her character, Josef includes a beautiful and creative tribute to his mother with additional context and pledges for what he aims to do in the future to honor his mother. To learn more about Juliann's life, visit her memorial website .

Good morning. Before I begin, I want to take the opportunity, on behalf of our entire family, to thank all of you for being here today—in person, in this beautiful, old church that our mom loved so much, or virtually—to help us celebrate our mom’s life. We’d like to thank everyone who travelled from out of state to be here today, including those on our dad’s side of the family who traveled from as far away as California. Let that sink in for a second—there are people here today who flew from warm, sunny California. To Chicago. In February. To attend the funeral of an in-law, essentially. Now, I know they came in part to support our dad in his time of grief, but I think it really speaks to the impact our mom had on people. And that’s been evident as well in the flood of messages we’ve received since Mom passed, which have come not just from close friends and family, as you’d expect, but from those who worked with her briefly decades ago, those who met her only recently—including members of the Breakers community in Edgewater, where our parents have lived the past couple of years—from friends (and friends of friends) of my sisters and mine who may have met her only once at one of our weddings years ago. So many have reached out with a kind note, a memory, a heartfelt message about how our mom affected them. As everyone here can attest, to meet Mom was to know instantly what a beautiful person she was, inside and out; a kind, caring soul; sharp, funny, and fun to be around; someone who brightened the lives of all those around her. I heard it said recently that grief is simply unexpressed love. The moral, I think, is that grief isn’t something we should avoid or try to overcome, but something we should embrace. If grief really is just a reflection of the love we feel for the person we lost, then we should hope to always feel some measure of grief for our departed loved ones. I like that sentiment; I think there’s some wisdom there, and perhaps some solace for those of us who are grieving our mom’s loss so deeply still. But it got me thinking about that notion of "unexpressed love." Unexpressed love: that was a foreign concept to Mom. Like our dad, she never missed an opportunity to tell my sisters and I how much she loved us, how proud she was of us, how happy we made her, how lucky she was to be our mom. And we always reciprocated—in person, on the phone, over text (including, in recent years, through liberal use of heart emojis in any text with Mom). Now, I don’t know whether that has lessened our grief any, but I do know that I speak for my sisters, our dad, our Aunt Mary Kay, and everyone who was on the other end of those exchanges with Mom, when I say that we are incredibly grateful for each of those moments, each of those expressions of love that my mom would simply not let go unexpressed. It was in that spirit that I set out some time ago to put down in writing exactly what my mom meant to me—an impossible task, to be sure. I regret deeply that I didn’t finish it before she passed, but I’m grateful I can share it here today with her and with all of you. I initially intended for it to be a poem, as that’s the language that she loved best, but I’m afraid I didn’t inherit her poetic voice (or talents). So I ended up with something else, I’m not sure what exactly. But I call it, “My Mother’s Son.” My Mother’s Son I knew it was coming, every time I would visit Mom at work—usually to ask for money for the movies or to pick up the car to meet friends or for some other equally important reason—never just to say hi, or ask about her day, or tell her how much I loved her. (There would always be time for that later, right?) “You must be Julie’s son!” It was probably my nose or the shape of my face; perhaps the hazel eyes or brown, curly hair. At first, I was annoyed. I didn’t want to resemble a short, middle-aged woman—beautiful though she was—and rued the fact that I didn’t inherit a chiseled jawline or muscular physique instead. So I usually just smiled sheepishly. But beyond an amusement at the resemblance, there was something else evident in their tone. “You must be Julie’s son!” The front desk staff, her fellow nurses, the doctors and residents, the custodial workers—they always made sure to tell me how much they loved working with Mom—how kind and skilled she was with patients, how supportive and generous she was with colleagues. They were quick with an anecdote or an expression of admiration. Eventually, I came to embrace the comparisons—proudly wrapping my arm around her (and sometimes giving her a playful pat on top of her head, which by then came up only to my chest) whenever a new friend, colleague, or stranger remarked on the resemblance. In her later years, as her health declined and the Parkinson’s loomed like a storm cloud growing nearer and more ominous by the day, I would reflect often on the connection I shared with my mom, on what it meant to be her son. Apart from any physical traits she may have passed down, I knew she would be leaving for her children and grandchildren something truly precious and rare. Something that couldn’t be simply inherited, but would need to be earned—brought to fruition through the countless small acts and daily decisions that make up a person’s life. Now that she has passed, and I think about the man I strive to be for my own family—for my wife, Sarah, and our daughter, Tessa, who will grow up without having truly known her Ama—I find in my mom’s legacy a clarion call, a beacon guiding my way, a pledge I must continually renew: I will be kind to friends and strangers alike—especially the less fortunate, the marginalized, and the forgotten among us. I will be generous with my time, energy, and resources, and will commit to causes greater than myself. I will laugh, loud and often. My patience will know no bounds. I will smile constantly and exude warmth so that others are uplifted even when I’m down. I will be selfless and unfailingly loyal. I will not swoon at the sight of blood, but will swoon over a mariachi band (or really any live music). I will create. I will nurture. I will dance with enthusiasm. I will be open to all things, and constantly seek out new adventures, foods, cultures, and people. I will find happiness in the simple things, and peace in nature. When my health fails me or curveballs inevitably come my way, I will put on a brave face to spare my loved ones their worry, and will fight with a strength and tenacity that will make them proud. I will laugh some more, through everything. I will be grateful for all that I have been given. I will love, and be loved, and the world will be a richer, better place for my having been here. I will, I pray, truly and forever be my mother’s son.

Richard "Dick" Floyd Messalle's memorial speech

Written and read by Renee Messalle In this memorial speech, there are plenty references to memories, passions, hobbies, and delights that Richard took part in during his time. These references help paint a loving and broad picture of what Richard's life was like and the kind of person he was. In addition to the personal stories shared, Renee also includes a beautiful poem at the start which kicks off the metaphor of the Train of Life for the rest of the memorial speech. To learn more about Richard's life, visit his memorial website .

Welcome everyone. Thank you so much for coming today. Carl and I wanted to share a few memories about our Dad before the service started. I wanted to start off by reading this lovely poem that I saw recently. Train of Life At birth, we boarded the train of life and met our parents, and we believed that they would always travel by our side. However, at some station, our parents would step down from the train, leaving us on life's journey alone. As time goes by, some significant people will board the train: siblings, other children, friends, and even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed that we won't realize that they vacated their seats! This train ride has been a mixture of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. A successful journey consists of having a good relationship with all passengers, requiring that we give the best of ourselves. The mystery that prevails is that we do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. Thus, we must try to travel along the track of life in the best possible way -- loving, forgiving, giving, and sharing. When the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty -- we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who continue to travel on the train of life. And let’s remember to thank our God for giving us life to participate in this wonderful train ride. I am so glad that I was on my Dad’s train for 51 years. And thanks to those that joined the train at one time or another. His stop and his step down was so very unexpected for us – but he left so many great memories, and we are so grateful he stepped off on a high note! We have all loved hearing what others thought of my Dad – and am so happy that it was what we knew of him. The prevailing theme – he was such a kind and gentle and smart person. And several people said he was a “Renaissance Man”. And I totally agree – he loved to learn and knew a lot about everything. He was so happy in his recent move to Greenspring where he had a big office surrounded by at least 1,000 of his books, all in one room. And most importantly my Dad loved math and data. He had a bachelor and master’s degree in Math. He worked for the Navy using his math skills. And in going through things in his office – we saw that my Dad doodled math everywhere. And he did at least a sudoku a day. I have great memories of him helping us as kids with homework, which he enthusiastically did, and especially of course with math. My high school friends even fondly remember his tutoring us in math. After retirement, he even spent many years tutoring various students – even his grandsons. Just recently he helped Brandon and me with some math homework and sent us detailed descriptions and steps to help us. And he was still the volunteer Treasurer for the Four Corners neighborhood association, which he had been doing for many years. After grad school with his advanced degree in Mathematics, he met my Mom on their first day of work at US Navy, David Taylor Model Basin as they were both trying to find the math lab! My Mom worked there until I was born. And then, when I was looking for a summer job in college, I decided to apply where my Dad worked. This turned out to be the start of my government career as well, and I eventually worked in the same Directorate with my Dad for the summers and then for 7 years after college. It was a great chance for us to know and see each other in different ways, learn what my Dad did at work, have similar co-workers, etc. After my Dad retired, he had so much fun taking liberal art classes at the community college. He also loved going to see plays with my Mom, so they both ushered at various local theaters for over 30 years. And he even directed and acted in some community theater plays. Despite my Dad’s quiet demeanor – he definitely had had a wild and adventurous side …. He loved rollercoasters. Even as recent as about 5- 10 years ago, he was still going on roller coasters and rides at Disney and Universal with my husband and niece and Brandon, and even on the water slides at the water parks. When we were younger, he took us on a hot air balloon ride. He loved to bike – biked to work, biked with friends, biked long distance rides of 100 miles, and biked as a family. He did Hang gliding for a while – and even bought one. I remember playing in fields while my Dad would hang glide off of small hills. He even bought a Unicycle. He also loved science fiction, and he introduced us to Star Wars as kids. And I was able to take my parents to the new Disney Star Wars theme park in February, right before Covid. And I just took him to the movie theater at Thanksgiving to see the new Dune movie, which he loved. My Dad was always around and involved when we were younger. We always had family dinners, he made breakfast every Sunday (where I was introduced to and then loved scrapple), he washed the dishes every night for my Mom, and was always willing and around to assist us with our school and homework. And then he continued to be present and involved in my life as a grandfather to Brandon, especially since we lived somewhat close by. He set such a great example for me of what a father and what a spouse should be. And I am so happy that he met the love of his life, and that he and my Mom had such a wonderful marriage of 53 years – best friends - truly soul mates. In summary, my Dad had a fun life on that train for 79 years, sharing 55 of those years (70% of his life) with my Mom! He left many great memories for me and for others. Thanks Dad – I love you and you will be missed.

Following you will find some eulogy examples, with most of them being short eulogy examples. Shorter eulogies can become longer simply by adding in stories and memories that you hold dear or different aspects of your loved one’s life you’d like to share.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with [Name]’s friends, family, and others in remembering [his/her] life.

I met [Name] [number] years ago at [description of meeting location]. I immediately liked [Name]’s [sense of humor / personality / presence] and knew we would make fast friends. Once, when we were [description of memory], [Name] turned to me and said “[Quote]”.

[Longer description of memory]

After we met, I [description of life after meeting person] and [he/she] went on to [description of what they did]. When [Name] met [spouse], everything changed. [He/she] became [description] and was one of the best [husbands/wives/fathers/mothers] a family could ask for.

I know I’ll always miss my best friend and that no one can replace [him/her]. With that, I’d like to leave you all with one of [Name]’s favorite quotes, by [author]: “[quote]”. Thank you.

[Name] was my best friend, confidante, partner in crime, and one of the best people I’ve ever had the honor to know. I first met [Name] in [location] and we quickly became fast friends. We shared a love of [hobby] and a desire to [description], something that very few others connected with me on.

[Name] taught me a lot about [description], something I will never take for granted. Our other friends refer to [Name] and describe [him/her] as [description]. What I know for certain is that anyone who knew [Name], knew how [brave/special/funny/kind/unique] they were. You don’t meet someone like that every day.

One of my most cherished memories with [Name] was the time we [description]. If not that, then it’s definitely the time we [description].

I want to thank you all for gathering today in honor of [Name], I know it would’ve meant the world to [him/her]. Let’s honor [his/her] memory by continuing to spread love in this world and to try our best each and every day. Thank you.

For those who don't know me, [Name] and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. We grow up in [town] together, lived down the street from one another, and went to the same schools from elementary to high school. We planned on going to the same college together (but [Name] was smarter than I and got into some schools I didn't). We weren't just friends, we were [brothers/sisters].

When I was younger, [Name] used to take me to [area]. We'd play [game] and sit out in the field, talking about [subject] for hours on end. [Name] was there for my life's most important events. [He/she] was there for [list out important life events] and always remembered my birthday and other important anniversaries. [He/she] was beyond thoughtful -- [he/she] was one of the kindest and most compassionate people I've ever met and will ever meet.

Losing [Name] is akin to losing a family member. [He/she] is irreplaceable and their loss is felt deeply, more than words can ever describe. At the same time, I know [Name] would hate it if they saw me up here crying, talking only about their loss and ignoring all the wonderful things [he/she] did with their precious time here on Earth. So, I'd like to take this time, to thank [Name] for everything [he/she] taught me: [list out lessons or important takeaways]

Let's honor [Name's] memory today (and all days) by being kind to one another and remembering the struggles that we all have to face during our time here.

Joie and I met before we were born -- our mothers were in the same prenatal group and bonded over their hatred of the lack of sushi in their lives. We were born only a few days apart, spent our first years of life held by each other's moms and had almost no chance in not becoming great friends. Little did our moms know -- they'd given us more than friendship when they became friends. They'd made us family -- sisters.

Both of our families had decided to only have one child, so Joie and I filled the void that every only-child experiences. She was my sister, through and through. I was there for every one of her life's major accomplishments (and letdowns). She returned the favor in kind. Joie was my support through my first relationship, my first heartbreak, my first degree, my first marriage (and second!) and my first child. I was there for so many of her firsts, seconds, and thirds in life. That's the kind of person Joie was. Supportive. Constant. Foundational. She was my rock and the rock for so many people around her.

Even in death, Joie knew we'd be lost without her support. Her husband, Robbie, is constantly finding small notes that Joie left behind, just little reminders that she still cares for him and is supporting him, despite this complication we call existence. Two days after Joie was diagnosed with cancer, she gave me a call. She told me to sit down and to get ready for the "shit to hit the fan". I thought it was just another rant about her job or some stupid thing she saw at the store or a 30 minute monologue on the downfall of American reality TV.

When she told me she had cancer, I nearly passed out. But she explained to me that now, more than ever, she needed me to be the strong one. Not just for her, but for her husband, for her family, and for myself. She told me not to embarass her in this eulogy, so I'll restrain myself from doing that by going over the top. Please just know, if you're here today, you meant something to Joie. If you're here today, you matter and are important. If you're here today, please honor Joie's memory by being the rock for someone else in your life.

Joie, I love you so, so much. I can't wait to see you again.

Thank you all for being here today. I’m honored to share this time with our friends, family and community and join in remembering [Name]'s life and ongoing legacy.

I met [Name] at [location] around [number] years ago and instantly knew we'd become lifelong friends.

We spent all our time during that summer [description of activities] and the following years were spent periodically visiting [location] and inviting friends out for our annual [description of trip].

[Name] was the kind of person who you never forget. [He/she] was [describe personality]. [He/she] instantly made people feel like [description]. [He/she] was endlessly [selfless, loving, caring, etc.].

I know this loss is one that runs deep for many of us gathered here today, but I also know that [Name] wouldn't want us to sit around mourning [his/her] loss and instead would want us to look towards the future and think on what we can do to make this world a better place.

In [his/her] memory, let's try our best.

For those who don't know me, [Name] was my childhood best friend. We met when we were [age] and instantly connected. We bonded over [subjects], we spent summers at [location] and I could almost always be found at [his/her] house on the weekends. I spent so much time at [Name]'s house that I was known as [his/her] [brother/sister], even by [his/her] parents own admission.

A lifelong friendship is incredibly hard to find and even harder to live without once you've experienced it. To say that this loss is hard is an understatement. [Name] was one of the [describe personality] people I've ever met. [He/she] was unique. [He/she] was hilarious. [He/she] was irreplaceable.

For all those that are gathered with me today, I ask that you join me in honoring [Name]'s life by practicing the values they held so dear. Be kind, be loving, enjoy life, and live life slowly.

Before I get started, I wanted to thank each and every one of you for showing up to honor and remember the incredible life of [Name]. If you knew [Name] (which, if you didn't, why are you here?), you know how magnetic they truly were. Standing up here with only a few minutes to speak on how amazing they were and what they meant to me feels impossible. How can I describe [Name] in a way that's accurate? How can I sum up the impact they had on me, on those around them, on the field of [career field], on the world? It's a near impossible task, so I decided to list out the top 10 things I appreciated most about [Name]. I plan on integrating these top 10 things into the way I treat others as a way of honoring their memory.

Things I learned from [Name]:

Thank you for joining me and listening to me today. I hope you take some of these values and ways of being with you.

Memories of [Name]

Instead of a standard eulogy, I wanted to use this time to share some of my most cherished memories of [Name]. These are ones I've picked out intentionally as I feel they best represent the type of person [Name] was, at least to me. While not all of these memories are ""positive"", they are the ones that have stuck with me the most.

[List memories]

We are gathered here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable young man, who was taken from us far too soon. [Name] was a 25-year-old Marine, who loved hunting, woodworking, and theater. He had a stoic, but kind personality that drew people to him, and he had a deep passion for nature, exploration, and family.

[Name] was a skilled hunter, who spent many hours in the woods, quietly observing the world around him. He had a deep respect for nature and all of its creatures, and he loved nothing more than being out in the wilderness, breathing in the fresh air, and feeling the sun on his face.

In addition to his love for hunting, [Name] was also a talented woodworker, who enjoyed creating beautiful objects out of wood. He had an eye for detail and a steady hand, and his creations were always stunningly beautiful.

But perhaps most of all, [Name] loved theater. He was a gifted actor, who had a way of bringing his characters to life, and he had a deep appreciation for the art of storytelling. He loved nothing more than being on stage, basking in the spotlight, and entertaining his audience.

Throughout all of his endeavors, [Name] was guided by his dedication to his family. He was a loyal son, a devoted brother, and a loving friend, who always put the needs of others before his own. He had a heart of gold, and he never hesitated to lend a helping hand or a listening ear to those in need.

[Name] was a remarkable young man, who touched the lives of all those who knew him. He will be deeply missed, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those he loved. Rest in peace, [Name]. You will always be remembered.

First, I want to thank everyone here for showing up today. It means a lot.

Losing my dad is one of the most difficult hardships I’ve ever had to go through. That being said, this process has made me realize just how lucky I was to have a father like [Name]. Without his example, encouragement, advice, and love, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I am eternally grateful for his life as an example for how I should live my own.

My dad was difficult to sum up in a few words, but some that come to mind are: [hardworking/gentle/loving/caring/strong/hilarious/funny/serious/crafty/intelligent]. When I was younger, we’d spend time [description of memory]. That’s where I first learned to [description of skill].

I remember once when I was younger, we [description of memory].

Dad, you will never be forgotten. Our family is eternally lucky to have had you as the head of our family. We will honor your memory by [way you’re going to honor memory].

Thank you all for coming today.

Growing up, my father was always [description of attitude / personality]. My friends would always say that he was [description of friends’ thoughts]. His coworkers would describe him as [description]. But to me, he was just my dad.

One of my favorite memories with him is when we [memory description].

Another time, we went to [memory description].

Those are the times that I keep in mind whenever I think of my dad, some of the best times of my life. It’s impossible to describe the amount of love I hold in my heart for my father, so I’ll leave it to someone else to describe for me. In the words of [author name], “[Quote]”.

Hello, everyone. Before I get started, I just wanted to acknowledge everyone's presence today. It means so much to me and to my family that you decided to be here with us today to remember my father's life. I know he's smiling on us from above and is absolutely thrilled that so many of you showed up today to remember him.

My dad is impossible to sum up -- we'd be here all day if I had the opportunity to share with you all all the wonderful things he did, taught, and accomplished in his life. To spare you all from that (and to shield you from watching me cry for a few hours) I've decided to restrict this to a short list of some of my favorite qualities of my dad. Without further ado, here's the things that made my dad the man he was:

  • My dad taught me and my brothers the meaning of what is was to be a man.
  • He was compassionate and kind, funny yet stoic, bubbly yet reserved, and quietly bonded our family together through difficult storms and joyful moments.
  • He was the BEST on the grill and 5 year winner of the Best Chili award at our annual chili cookoff.
  • He hated the Patriots, with a passion.
  • He'd sneak out in the middle of the night when we were younger to take us to midnight premiers of our favorite movies -- much to Mom's dismay.
  • He once drove over 500 miles to help me move out from an ex's apartment -- again, in the middle of the night.
  • He was known by my entire group of friends as "The Cool Dad".
  • Even during his last months, he was ensuring me and my brothers knew what to expect, knew what was coming, and what our responsibilities to each other were.
  • His family was the most important thing in his life.
  • My mom was the love of his life and never failed to put a twinkle in his eye.

My dad is the reason I am the person I am today. He was endlessly encouraging, loving, caring, and intelligent. To lose him is to lose a piece of who I am, though I know he's with me in spirit. Thank you once again for showing up to support our family and remember this great man.

[Author] once said, "[Inspirational quote]". Little did he know, this quote would go on to be the foundation of my father's life.

While most knew my dad as a [descriptor] person, those closest to him knew him for his [kindness, bravery, love, caring, tenderness, softness, etc]. A man of few words and many talents, my father spent much of his life in [work / career description] and caring for [his children/family/wife/etc.]. His greatest love in life was [Name] and his favorite pasttime was [pasttime]. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him and not a day goes by that I'm certain the world is worse off without him in it. Losing my dad has taught me two things: [list lessons]

Thank you all for joining me, please tell your parents how much they mean to you and please do kindness, wherever you can.

My father was not an easy man. He was someone who hated the idea of small talk, celebrated people who worked hard (but knew when to take a break), and would be more than happy if no one talked to him for months, leaving him to read through his favorite detective novels.

His life could also not be described as easy. My father grew up poor, he lost his own father at the young age of 8 and had a mother who could be described as absent (at best). His youth was spent attempting to make ends meet through illegal jobs he held while attending school. He ended up dropping out of highschool in order to pursue a job as a dishwasher and support himself.

It was at this point that he met my mother, who seemed to be one of the only people on the planet who could charm my dad. He described her as "The first sense of relief I felt on this earth." and would refer to her as the love of his life for the rest of his life. He did his best to shield me and my brothers from the harsh upbringing he endured. He pushed us to attend college, he pushed us to stay in school, and he pushed us to cherish those in our family -- something he never had.

He worked hard to get to where he was and without a doubt, could be described as a successful man. My father was resilient, generous, and reserved. Though he was a man of few words, he made sure that my brother and I knew we were important, were loved, and were cherished.

I love you Dad and I hope you rest easy. You did a wonderful job.

Lessons from [Name]

Instead of delivering a 20 minute eulogy on my father, that I know he would've hated, I've instead decided to share some of the lessons he taught that could go on to help others. These are lessons that have helped me navigate this life and are lessons I'll cling to now that he's gone. If they resonate with you, please feel free to take them for your own. I love you, Dad.

[List lessons]

My father laid the foundation for my life as a man. He took the lessons his father taught him (rather harshly), picked them up, brushed them off, and buffed them, turning them into the lessons he shared with me (much less harshly than his father did). He was patient. He was kind. He was handy. He was incredibly intelligent and well-spoken, yet preferred to let others speak. If there was a party, you'd often find him on the balcony, in the backyard, or in a corner somewhere, people watching and smiling kindly at anyone who wandered near him. He preferred learning above all else and would most often be seen in his study, with ten different books at varying stages of being read. I owe my father everything and I credit my success in life to the way he raised me, each and every day. To lose him, means to lose a piece of myself. Dad, I love you.

To say my dad meant the world to me is an understatement. A man of few words, and even fewer faults -- he was the stoic figure in my life, the foundation that stayed true no matter what was thrown at him, and the reason I became the woman I am today. I learned to let things go, to love people who loved me back, to befriend those without, and to stay close to those who mattered. My dad meant everything to me, and more. Rest in peace, Dad.

We all dream of having a mother who is kind, loving, and genuine. [Name] was exactly that type of mother. She guided us through years and years and years of hardship, difficulty, joy, and achievement. Our mother was the foundation of our family and without her, it’s difficult to know what to do or what comes next.

I’ll miss her [laugh/smile/generosity/humor/jokes/other descriptor], but am lost without her [guidance/thoughts/advice/other descriptor]. I know we’ll all miss her [insert personality trait or something she was known for].

One of my absolute favorite moments was when my mom [description of memory].

Another one of our family's favorite memories with [Name] was when she [description of memory].

Thank you all for showing up today to honor my mother’s memory and legacy. I know it would’ve warmed her heart to see you all here and I appreciate it greatly. In the words of my mother, “[quote]”

It is an impossible feat to sum up the importance that one’s mother has in one’s life, so I’d like to instead, share some of my favorite memories that I had with my mother. Before I start, let me give you a breakdown of the type of woman my mom was. [Name] was [hardworking/intelligent/ferocious/hilarious/kind/gentle/etc.]. She was always [description] and she never [description]. Her top three favorite things were: [name three things]. One of my favorite memories with my mom was the time we [description]. This is followed closely by the time we [description]. Her [smile/laugh/voice] would light up a room and bring joy to those around her. Her presence was deeply felt and her loss is almost too much to bear. So thank you to everyone who decided to come here today, it means the world to me. One of my mom’s favorite quotes is from [name of author]. It reads, “[quote]”. I’d like to leave you with that today as we celebrate my mother. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today as I navigate the impossible task of summing up the life of someone incredible, in only a few minutes.

I guess I'll start by sharing one of my favorite moments with [Name]. I was [age] and had just [descriptor]. My mom took me to [location], one of my favorite spots. We had just gone to [location] the previous year, so this was a nice change. We spent the day [descriptor], working on [descriptor] and eating [food]. At night, we [description] and met with [people you met with].

Nights like this weren't uncommon with Mom -- she constantly made sure we had the most fun possible whenever we could. Her free time was spent supporting us, cheerleading for us, driving us to various activities, picking us up, hosting sleepovers, paying for our (many) mistakes, and being known to all as "the best Mom". My friends have all insisted I was blessed with her as my mom, and I know this to be true.

Today, I want us to join together to remember that. To remember the kind of woman she was and the kind of person she taught me and everyone who knew her to be. A woman of joy, light, kindness and warmth. A woman of love and positivity and a ray of sunshine that will be so desperately missed from this world. Mom -- I love you.

To my mother,

I miss you so much. You were the glue that held our family together. You were always there for me when I needed you. I am so grateful to have had you in my life.

You were an amazing woman and an even better mother. I will never forget all the things you taught me. I will never forget your unconditional love and support.

I know you are in a better place now, but I still wish you were here with us. I know that we will see each other again one day, but until then, I will cherish all of our memories together.

I love you, mom.

My mother was the most incredible woman I have ever known. She always supported me in everything that I did, and she was my biggest cheerleader. I know that she is up there looking down on me now, watching over me and guiding me as I navigate through life without her by my side.

Although my mother is no longer with us in this life, I know that she lives on in the memories that I have of her, and the love and support that she gave me throughout my life. She was strong, kind, and warmhearted, and I will always treasure the time we spent together.

I know that it is difficult to lose someone so important to you, but my mother's memory will live on forever in my heart. In her honor, I plan to spend the rest of my days living a life full of kindness and compassion, just as she did. She will never be forgotten.

I am so grateful to have had such an amazing mom, and I know that I will never be able to forget all of the wonderful things she taught me throughout my life. We will cherish all of the amazing memories we have of her until we meet again someday.

Hello all. Before I get started, I want to take this opportunity to thank everyone who has decided to join us today (and even those who reached out and mentioned they couldn't make it). We're gathered in this beautiful location to celebrate my mom's life. For all of those who decided to travel long distances, who reached out to us during our time of need, and who took the time to help us get this set up -- you have no idea how much this has meant to our family.

What's been most clear to me during this difficult time is simply the staggering amount of people my mom influenced, cared for, and loved. So many folks, even those she hasn't seen in over a decade, have written in and let us know the impact she had on their lives. To say she made you feel loved, seen, and appreciated at all times was an understatement. She was the pillar of our family, a pillar of her community, and would take each and every opportunity available to her to make those around her feel supported and seen.

This has been one of the hardest times our family has gone through and I'm so warmed to know all these bright and smiling faces here today. Thanks for coming to honor my mom.

To lose a mother is to lose a piece of your soul. My mother was no exception. Some would say our relationship was too close and my father used to warn me against "relying" on her too much, since he was trying to protect me from this exact day. My mom was the center of my life and without her, I feel lost. I'm angry, I'm confused, and I miss her so, so, very much. I want to ask each and everyone one of you visiting today, who took the time out of your busy schedules to show your support to my family -- please huge your parents. Please resolve any unresolved issues you currently have, if you love them -- none of it matters. Once you don't have the opportunity to make amends, it feels like everything was so silly. Mom, I miss you, I love you, and I'm lost without you.

Friends and family, today we gather to remember and honor the remarkable life of a woman who truly made a difference in this world. She was a devoted mother, a compassionate humanitarian, and an inspiration to all who knew her.

As we heard from her obituary, this incredible woman faced immense tragedy at a young age, losing her husband in a tragic accident. But instead of giving up, she channeled her grief into a powerful force for good. She joined the Peace Corps, dedicating her life to helping those in need in underdeveloped countries around the world. Her commitment to service was unwavering, and she spent years traveling the world, spreading love and kindness wherever she went.

But she was not only a humanitarian. She was a devoted mother to her son, who was her greatest joy in life. She instilled in him the values of kindness and compassion, and he is a testament to her incredible parenting.

Though we mourn her loss, we can take comfort in knowing that her legacy lives on. She touched so many lives with her kindness, generosity, and unwavering dedication to making the world a better place. She will be deeply missed, but her memory will always be a source of inspiration for us all. Rest in peace, dear friend.

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Chef Kimmino, a beloved chef who has left us too soon. Chef Kimmino was a true culinary artist, whose passion and creativity inspired all who had the pleasure of experiencing their dishes.

Sadly, Chef Kimmino's battle with breast cancer came to an end at the age of 45. But let us not mourn their passing. Instead, let us celebrate the life they lived and the joy they brought to countless individuals through their delicious and unforgettable meals.

Chef Kimmino was a true master of their craft, always experimenting with new flavors and techniques to create dishes that were both innovative and mouth-watering. Their culinary creations were a reflection of their adventurous spirit, and they were never afraid to push the boundaries of traditional cooking.

But Chef Kimmino's impact went beyond their culinary talents. They were a mentor and inspiration to many aspiring chefs, always encouraging them to pursue their passion and follow their dreams. They were also a philanthropist, using their talents to give back to the community by donating their time and resources to various charities and organizations.

Chef Kimmino's passing is a great loss to the culinary world and to all who knew and loved them. But we can take comfort in knowing that their legacy will live on through the countless lives they touched with their passion and generosity.

So let us honor Chef Kimmino's memory by continuing to share their love of food and cooking with others. Let us keep their spirit alive by embracing their adventurous approach to life and always striving for excellence in all that we do.

Rest in peace, Chef Kimmino. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

We’ve all heard the heartwarming stories many have about just how great their [grandmother/grandfather] was, but I’m here to tell you today that mine was the best. Our [grandma/grandpa], [Name] was such a classic [grandma/grandpa] that it’s almost too difficult to believe. [She/He] was the best at [baking/cooking/fixing things/trips/parties/crafts/giving advice/etc]. [She/He] made the most amazing [food/hobby]. [She/He] also was a part of many clubs, including [list of clubs]. Loved by everyone around [him/her], [name] was the star of the show from the very beginning. When [she/he] was young, [she/he] participated in [activity]. As [she/he] grew older, [she/he] became a fan of [description of hobby/interest]. As [her/his] grandchildren, we were lucky enough to spend time with [him/her] doing [description of time spent]. Now that [she’s/he’s] gone, a hole is left in our hearts and in our souls, but we know we will see [her/him] again soon. One of [name]’s favorite passages was, “[passage]”. I think that sums up who [she/he] was quite well. Thank you all for being here today and I know that [Name] would’ve been in tears just seeing all of you who loved and cared for [her/him] show up for [her/him] today.

My [grandmother/grandfather] was one of those women who [description]. [She’s/He’s] incredibly difficult to sum up in just a few words so I’ll do my best. To start with, my [grandmother/grandfather] was most known for [his/her] [description of something they were known for]. Every single person who came into contact with [her/him] would tell me stories about how [he/she] would [story] and [story].

My favorite memory with [her/him] was the time we went to [description of memory].

I’ll always remember [her/him] as a [loving/caring/kind/gentle/wise/intelligent/hilarious] soul who would try [her/his] best each and every day to put a smile on the faces of others.

For those of you who knew my [grandmother/grandfather], you knew just how special and important [she/he] was to our family. I thank you all for spending time with us here today in honor of [her/him] and the person [she/he] was.

My grandmother was an amazing woman. She was always so kind and loving, and I will never forget all of the wonderful moments we shared together. I am so grateful to have had her in my life, and I know that she will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

She was a strong and independent woman, who always put others first. She was always there for me when I needed her, and she was such an important part of my life. I know that she is now at peace, and I take comfort in knowing that she will always be with me in spirit.

Those who knew her, knew how much she loved her family, and she was always so proud of us. She was the heart of our family, and we will never be the same without her. We will cherish all of the memories we have of her, and keep her in our hearts always.

Thank you for everything, Grandma. I love you so much.

My grandmother was one of the most influential people in my life and the lives of so many others. Never one to back down from a fight, she spent almost her entire life dedicated to trying to improve our system, to the best of her ability.

Whether this was through community service, time spent volunteering, or simply being a listening ear to those who needed one, her time spent on this planet was time spent caring for others.

I want to honor my grandmother's legacy by continuing in her footsteps and ask all here to do the same. Be kind to each other. Find ways to help those who cannot help themselves. Figure out how to invite joy into your life and how to cultivate it in the lives of those around you.

Grandma, thank you so much for being the bright soul that you so were. I adore you always and forever.

Before I get started, I wanted to say thank you to every single one of you who has shown up today to honor the life of my grandmother, [Name]. Each and every one of you meant something to her and I know that you know that, without a doubt.

Now, to the hard part -- summing up the life of such an accomplished, loving, and special woman. [Name] -- you were one of the most unique and special souls that has ever graced this earth. Everyone who encountered you immediately felt like one of your best friends. You held that special talent of conversing easily with strangers, of making newcomers feel like oldtimers, and of holding space for anyone and everyone that needed it. I have run into so many people that have said to me, "I'm so sorry for your loss, [Name] was one of my best friends." I've heard this phrase so often it's astounded me -- how did [Name] have so many best friends?! It's because she was special and she knew how to make others feel just as special.

To say the loss we've suffered is great is an understatement -- there is no way to describe the hole that is left by her passing. That being said, I aim to honor her life and legacy by attempting to make others feel just as loved, held, and cared for as she made them feel. I invite everyone here, to do just the same. Thank you.

I know my grandmother would be rolling in her grave if she could see me up here giving her even the slightest bit of praise. Always one to tut at any kind of recognition of her good deeds, she'd absolutely hate that we were all gathered here today to do just that. I can say, without a doubt, that my grandmother was the love of my life. She was the first person to make me feel like I had a home and a place in this world. She encouraged me to pursue my passions, no matter what they were. She was the first person I called when I decided to switch majors at college. She was the first person I called when I needed relationship advice, or advice on how to fix my toilet, or instructions on how to change a tire. She was endlessly crafty, knowledgeable, loving, and hilarious. She hated sad movies and loved a good horror film. Her church group referred to her as "The Old Commander" because she was so stringent in getting them to submit their projects on time. It didn't matter if it was for a church potluck or a wedding reception, she kept people in line and kept all of us in her orbit. Grandma, I love you endlessly and have no idea how I'm to navigate this scary world without you by my side. But I know you're out there, somewhere, looking over me. I love you.

Ladies and Gentlemen, friends and family, we gather here today to celebrate the life of a remarkable man, a loving grandfather, and a proud veteran - [Grandfather's Name]. He lived a full and fulfilling life, filled with joy, laughter, and countless precious memories that will be cherished by all who knew him.

[Grandfather's Name] was born in San Francisco and spent his early years exploring the city and all that it had to offer. He was an adventurous spirit, always eager to try new things and see new places. When he was called to serve in World War 2, he answered the call with bravery and honor, defending our country and our way of life. His service to our nation was a testament to his character, and it was a source of great pride for him throughout his life.

When [Grandfather's Name] returned home from the war, he began a new chapter in his life, one filled with family, friends, and all the things he loved. He was blessed with five grandchildren, and he cherished each and every one of them, spending countless hours camping, fishing, and exploring the great outdoors with them. His love of nature was second only to his love of his family, and he always took time to share his knowledge and appreciation of the natural world with those he loved.

[Grandfather's Name] was also a talented artist and woodworker. He spent many hours in his workshop, creating beautiful pieces of art and furniture that will be cherished by his family for generations to come. His passion for creating was matched only by his love of giving, and every year he donned a Santa Claus suit to bring joy to children in his community.

In the end, [Grandfather's Name] passed away peacefully in Florida at the age of 82, surrounded by the love of his family. He left behind a legacy of love, kindness, and generosity that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. Today, we say goodbye to a beloved grandfather, a proud veteran, and a true friend. May he rest in peace and may his memory live on in our hearts forever.

Today, we gather to honor and remember the life of Louis Pereira, a Senior Program Manager and passionate writer. Louis had a love for writing, a passion that he was able to pursue in his final years, penning over six short novels that were close to his heart.

Though Louis may be gone, his legacy lives on through his family, particularly his two beloved grandchildren. His kindness, wisdom, and love will continue to guide them throughout their lives.

Louis's dedication to his work and his commitment to his passions serve as an inspiration to all of us. He was a beloved member of the community, known for his compassion and his willingness to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

As we say goodbye to Louis, we take comfort in the memories he has left behind and the impact he has had on our lives. May he rest in peace, knowing that his spirit and his legacy will live on through his family and his writing.

You were always determined to be the best – on the field, on the court, in the classroom. You set your sights high and worked hard to achieve your goals.

I am so proud of everything you have accomplished in your short life. You were an amazing son, brother, and friend and you will be deeply missed.

You had a passion for sports and a natural talent for competition. You were always driven to win and I know that you would have gone far in your chosen field, no matter what that ended up being.

I will miss watching you play and excel at what you loved so much. You brought joy to everyone around you and I am grateful to have been a part of your life.

Rest in peace, my son. You will be forever in my heart.

First, let me take this moment to thank each and every one of you who showed up today (and to those who are joining us online). It means so much to our family to have this support system in place after the sudden passing of our beloved son, [Name].

I'm not a person of many words, but at this point in time it feels almost like there aren't enough words in the English language to describe how I feel or the impact my boy had on those he met throughout his short life. From the day he was born, I knew he was something special. It was in the glint of his eyes when he couldn't figure out a problem, in the sound of his laughter as it reverberated through our home, in the shine of his smile whenever he came home from school. He was special. I know every parent feels that way about their kid, but it's true -- [Name] was unique.

Losing him is the hardest thing I've ever dealt with and I know the spot left behind by him is irreplaceable -- I will deal with that for the rest of my days. At the same time, my son was absolutely not the kind of person who would want his friends, his family, and his loved ones to stand by and let grief consume him. He would want his memory to be celebrated and honored through love, laughter, adventure, and a deep appreciation of everything our lives have to offer.

In honor of my son, please hug your children a little tighter today. Please take a few minutes to appreciate what this planet has to offer. And please, most of all, be kind to one another.

I knew from the second I held you in my arms for the first time, how special, unique, and incredible you were going to be. And I was right.

My heart was overflowing with love and joy each and every time I saw your sweet face. Every time you said "Mom!", even if it was said in anger or frustration. I knew how much you loved me, our family, and life itself. Our talks were some of the most special moments of my life -- whether they lasted 2 minutes or were one of our infamous "loving debates" that lasted hours.

Your mind was brilliant, your passion for justice was admirable, and you were everything I wish I could've been at your age. I love you so very much son and to say this loss is unimaginable is simply an understatement.

I will follow your trajectory through life and attempt to celebrate your spirit in everything that I do. You are my sweet boy and I cannot wait until I get to see your sweet face and hold you in my arms once again.

I love you, son.

[Name] was my [youngest/oldest] [brother/sister] and one of the most important people in my life. I know [he/she] would’ve been amazed to see all of you who have come out today in support of [him/her] and us as a family. For those who don’t know me, I’m [Name]. From the very beginning, [Name] and I were inseparable. I loved having [Name] as a [brother/sister] more than anything else in my life. I’ve tried to protect [him/her] as though [she/he] was my own [son/daughter] throughout our lives and it is incredibly painful to be here letting [him/her] go today.

Even though [Name] was taken from us too soon, I know that I will see [him/her] again soon. [He/she] lived a full and happy life, one that touched the lives of so many people. I take comfort in knowing that [his/her] legacy will live on through the lives of others.

I’d like to leave you with one of my favorite quotes that I feel sums up [Name] perfectly: “[quote]”

Thank you all again for coming.

Today we’re gathered in memory of [Name], my [brother/sister] and biggest supporter. I’m [name], [Name] [oldest/youngest/older/younger] [brother/sister]. When we were younger, [Name] & I had a difficult relationship. Lots of fights, screaming, yelling; things that siblings tend to do. As we got older, I started to realize how important [Name] was to me and how much of a supporter [he/she] was to me as an individual.

A couple years ago, we went to [location] for [reason]. We [description of memory]. Another moment that I’ll always remember is the time we went to [description of memory].

[Name] was nothing but [generous/kind/loving/helpful/hilarious/determined/accomplished] and was the pride of our family. [He/she] was my best friend, my partner in crime, and someone I knew I could always rely on. Our family is not the same with their loss, but we will press on and live our best lives as a way of honoring [his/her] memory.

Thank you all for joining me and for allowing [Name] to have a space in your heart and in your life.

Every day, after school, my brother would wait (sometimes over an hour) for me to get out of my last class. He would stand at the bus stop, a huge smile on his face every time he heard the bell ring and saw me running towards him. This tradition continued all the way from when I was around 6 to my very last year of high school.

He was one of the most protective, kind, smart, annoying, hilarious, and goofy individuals I've ever known and will surely, ever meet. Going out of his way to stand at a bus stop just to make sure I had some consistency in my life, a friendly face at the end of the day, and a safe way to get back home was the kind of person he continued to be throughout my life (and throughout the lives of his own family).

Everyone who knew him knew what it meant to him to protect those around him, and that kind of protection was one he enacted until the day he passed away. Without my brother here, I feel a piece of me has shuttered itself away. At the same time, his loss has sparked a desire in me to be better. For him, for his family, for my family, and for myself. His impact on others was incalculable and immeasurable; his life is equally difficult to sum up in just a few words in just a few minutes. I don't doubt I'll be sharing small stories from his life for the rest of my own, but I do want to make sure I make one thing extremely clear.

My brother was the best of us and this world is less bright now that he has passed. Please, keep him in your memory and in your thoughts. Honor his memory by being kind and trying your absolute best. Thank you for coming and for joining my family in remembering my brother.

If I were to say that my sister was the most important person in my life, it might be a bit of a life. (Technically, my mom is the most important person in my life.) I didn't consider my sister as a separate individual -- she was part of me. We were two parts of a whole. Together, we were a full being. Without her, I feel as though half of me is gone.

When we were young, we would stay up until way past our bedtime, whispering down the hallway to each other as we slept in separate beds. We would share our dreams, our fears, our anger, and our joy for a few hours each night. I learned about her dream to be a veterinarian and she celebrated my desire to be a janitor. (We were young!)

Each summer we would go to summer camp together (which we hated), prompted by our parents' need to get some much needed alone time. We were fused at the hip and made almost no friends during summer camps (much to our joy and delight). When we'd get home, our parents would ask if we made new friends and had a great time, we'd lie and make up names for the friends we never made.

When we graduated from college (we both attended [name of college]), she was right behind me on the stage, clasping her degree in [subject] while I held mine in [subject] -- far from our dreams as children.

Throughout our 20's we played around with moving apart and traveling but would ultimately reunite in our hometown every two years or so. When we lost [name], we lived only 20 minutes from each other and would see each other nearly every other day. She was the first person I called when I needed someone to hear me out, someone to listen to me rant, someone to comfort me as I cried, and someone to advocate for me when I wasn't kind to myself.

Losing my sister is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I will never feel whole again. At the same time, I know she would want me to remember her in a bright light and know that I carry her with me at all times. I truly aim to do this. In her memory, please give your loved ones a hug today and let them know how much they mean to you.

Many of you attending today know my sister through her immensely successful career as a nurse, some of you know her through her brief stint as a filmographer, and many of you know her because she made a deep impression on you at some point during our childhood. To say she was a lifelong friend to many wouldn't be doing her justice. My sister was the kind of person who somehow found the stragglers, the outcasts, the nerds, the misfits, and the people who didn't feel like they had a community -- and gave them one. She opened up her home to those in need, rented out (and sometimes just lended out) her extra rooms, constantly helped people find jobs, resources, and connections when they were new to the city. She was everything to so many and I'm so blessed to see you all here today. Please try your best to fill your life with generosity and gratitude as a testament to her and her life. Thank you.

Thank you for joining me today in honoring my sister's memory. From a young age, I knew my sister was special. She would pick me up each and every day from school. When I went to college, she was there to drive me to the dorms. When I graduated, she drove me across the country. Without her constant and unrelenting support, I wouldn't have made it through the last 40 years of my life. She showed me how to be a better sister, a better person, and a wonderful mom. I owe everything to her and don't know how to navigate life without her.

My grandson, [Full Name] was an amazing young man. He made his family immensely proud of him every single day he lived. A teacher, an educator, a passionate writer, and a talented artist, his multifaceted personality and talent arsenal impressed everyone he met.

He was a strong and independent man, who always put others before himself. Even when he was younger, he'd be the first of my grandkids to ask how he could help. If I was fixing the car, he'd want to watch. If I was working in the garden, he'd want to help. If the lawn needed to be mowed, he'd be up on a Saturday morning taking care of it. When his grandmother, my wife, had hip surgery, he was the one to run and grab us groceries every week. All of this without complaint and without making us feel as though we were burdens.

I am so proud of the man that he had become and only wish he had the opportunity to live out the rest of his days. A rare and special soul, he will be missed so very much.

Thank you for everything, [first name]. I love you and miss you so much.

To my beautiful granddaughter,

You were the light in my life – always happy, always smiling. You lit up a room every time you entered it and I will miss that light so very much.

I am so proud of the woman you were becoming and I know that you would have accomplished great things in your life. You had such a bright future ahead of you and I am heartbroken that it has been cut so short.

I will cherish all the memories we have together – from your first steps, to your first day of school, to your high school graduation. You were always my pride and joy and I will miss you more than words can say.

Rest in peace, my sweet granddaughter. You will be forever in my heart.

Example # 3

Those of you who know me, know how much my grandson meant to me, our family, and our community. [Name] was a rare individual -- someone that, in today's day and age, is becoming increasingly more rare. He thrived on connecting with others and building up his community in any way he could. Countless hours were spent volunteering with the food bank, the humane society, setting up various cancer walks and runs and trying his hardest to do good in this world and to provide a sense of togetherness with the few precious years he had on this planet. His loss is deeply felt by everyone in our family and of course, many of those who are not (but according to him, would be called family). Please consider honoring [Name]'s memory by volunteering your time in any way that you find meaningful. Maybe that means setting up a walk or run (or any other fun activity) for a charity that you hold dear. Maybe that means picking up trash on the road. Maybe that means spending time in the community garden. In any case, know that any time spent building up the lives of others is time spent remembering and honoring the life of [Name] -- and for that, we are forever grateful.

When I gave birth to [Name], my life was permanently changed. I'd heard how this can happen from friends and family, stories about how having a child changes your life. I'd known this would happen but no amount of warning could've prepared me for how rapidly and totally my world was consumed by my baby. When I held her in my arms for the first time, I knew. I knew my life's purpose. I understood the unspeakable bond that tethers a mother to her child. I was hesitant to release her, to let anyone else but me hold her, even her father. I was obsessed.

With each day, she grew into the bright, confident, and cheerful little girl she ended up being. Every flower was a burst of laughter, interactions with puppies and dogs was a cause for joy, she cried incessantly and wouldn't let me sleep for over 2 months -- but it was so worth it. Seeing her bright, chubby cheeks light up as I turned the corner into her room made it so very worth it.

My daughter was my world and I have no idea how I am to cope with her loss. No parent should undergo the rage and grief that accompanies picking out a casket for your small child. Her life was tragically taken from her and I'll never get to know what kind of person she would've been -- though I have theories. I know she loved every day she got to spend on this earth and I know she felt loved for each and every day.

What I learned from her was to embrace joy, to find a spark of happiness in each and every day, and to cry it out when you have to. [Name], sweet girl, you are so loved and so very missed.

Thank you for joining me and my family today to celebrate, remember, and honor the life of [Full Name]. [Name] was a [man/woman] of [describe characteristics] with a penchant for [description] that always showed itself whenever [he/she] would [description]. A [man/woman] of many talents, [Name] showed us that it was never too late to start [hobby/career].

My [father/mother/sister/brother/relation] was, without a doubt, my best friend, my biggest cheerleader, and my constant supporter. When I was interested in [hobby], [she/he] showed up to all the events. When I decided I was obsessed with [hobby], [he/she] went out and purchased [item]. When I decided to [description], [she/he] was the first person to [description].

My [mom/dad/relation] was an unforgettable and truly remarkable human being. I endeavor, with all my heart, to follow in [his/her] footsteps for the rest of my life. I will honor [his/her] time on Earth and [his/her] contributions to our society by [describe how you'll honor their life]. I ask that everyone here today join me in this endeavour as we aim to honor the life of [full name]. Thank you.

To my wife,

You were my best friend and my partner in life. We shared everything – our hopes, our dreams, our lives. You were the love of my life and I will miss you forever.

We had so many happy years together and I am grateful for every moment we shared. You brought joy to my life and I will cherish our time together always.

I am so proud of the woman you were and I know that you touched the lives of everyone around you. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

Rest in peace, my love. You will be forever in my heart.

Choosing a favorite moment from my life spent with my wife is impossible. Was it the time that we went to Lake Minetonka and passed out on the shores after sharing a box full of wine? Was it when she surprised me with tickets to see The Black Crowes in concert, only two months after I'd mentioned it to her? When I'd wake up in the morning to a hot cup of coffee and a brief rant on the political state of the world? The way she mothered our children effortlessly and still took the time to ask me about specific relationships at work? My life has been full of these warm memories -- I can't land on one. What I do know is that my wife emanated love each and every day. Every single day I felt loved, supported, and known. It made me want to make sure she was taken care of in each and every way. I did my best. I tried to give her the life she so deserved, but even if I could give her the life of a queen, it wouldn't have been enough for what she deserved. My wife was everything and is the center of my joy. I miss her each and every day and I know I will see her again.

Ever since I was a little girl, I wanted to be married. I was obsessed with any and all films of prince charmings, beautiful and big weddings, and women being swept off their feet. I was convinced that my time would come by the time I was 20 (how naive!). I went through college and by the time I was 32 realized I'd never had a boyfriend. I'd never been courted. I wasn't even sure I liked men. My desire to be swept off my feet dwindled and I became secure in myself.

Until I met [Name].

Immediately, within the first 20 minutes of meeting [Name], I was absolutely smitten. I thought of almost nothing else when we were apart -- and we hated each other! She was competing with me for the same promotion at work and we were both tenacious and fierce women. She was stubborn, confident, and sure of what she wanted -- much like myself.

After she got the promotion I so desperately wanted, she invited me out for a conciliatory drink -- a move I never would've made. She would go on to refer to this as our first date, though I considered it the first brick towards building a bridge away from dislike and towards camaraderie.

I was swept off my feet, in a completely unexpected way. During our first years of dating, I found myself wanting to provide for her, take care of her, make her smile at all possible moments. When she ranted about work, I wanted to defend her. When she managed to burn chicken each and every time, you wouldn't hear a peep from me. When she suggested we get married, I wanted her to be the star of the show. I wanted to show her off to every important person in my life. She'd lovingly refer to me as her ""Princess Charming"" -- a role I happily inhabited.

My wife brought joy, kindness, love, courage, strength, and purpose into my life. Without her by my side, I feel an unhealable void. At the same time, in her way, she prepared me as best she could. I ask those gathered here today, in her memory, to help me keep her presence alive. Please spread joy in all the ways you can. Tell people how you feel. Advocate for yourself. Be free.

My life's greatest years were spent with [Name], the love of my life. She loved everything about life, even the downsides -- she embraced it all. Life was hard, but it was also worth it for her. From the moment I met her, I knw my life would be different and that I'd found the one.

[Name] made such a massive difference in the community around her, especially after becoming president of the charity she worked for. Her favorite things in life were witnessing others transform their lives for the better, helping people access community resources wherever possible, and advocating for those less fortunate. Go out today and try your best to emulate everything she did, and more.

I am so saddened by the loss of [Name]. We didn't always see eye to eye, but I always respected [him/her] as a hard worker and a great person. [She/He] was always so kind and helpful, and I will never forget all of the times [she/he] went out of [him/her] way to help me. [She/He] will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing [him/her].

When we first met at [company], [name] was one of the first people to make me feel welcome. I’ll never forget how [she/he] took the time to get to know me and helped me feel like I belonged there.

I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to work with [him/her], and I know that [she/he] has left a lasting impression on everyone [she/he] met. [She/He] was an amazing person, and I know that [she/he] will be deeply missed. Thank you for everything, [name].

May you rest in peace.

Throughout my career, I've met plenty of personalities, characters, and people -- but none as special as [Name]. When [Name] first entered the front doors to our building, I immediately knew we would get on. [Name] was the type of person you'd easily become friends with. People who met [him/her/them] would immediately want to work alongside them. As one of my first direct reports, I can't tell you how many people would come to me on the side and request to be paired with or on a team with [Name]. Why? [He/she] was special. People gravitated towards them. People wanted to be in their sphere of influence. People wanted to work alongside them and get to know them.

That's rare. This is the first time I've seen the majority of my company in one room that wasn't our building -- and it's for the funeral of our very special friend and colleague -- [Name]. Thank you to [Name's parents] for raising such an incredible human being. Please know that your [son/daughter/child] changed the lives, every day, of so many people around them. I have never in my 50 years of managing imagined running into someone like [Name] and I am blessed to have known them. Rest well and peacefully, [Name], you did well.

Today we come together to honor the life and legacy of a beloved retired musician, who touched so many lives with his passion for music. He was a kind-hearted man who enjoyed pushing boundaries and exploring new horizons. He was an avid traveler, having visited countries all over the world. He also had a strong connection to animals, particularly cats. His home was often filled with cats of all shapes, sizes and colors.

He had a variety of musical influences, which he blended together to create his own unique sound. He was an incredibly talented musician who could play various instruments including the guitar, piano and flute. He wrote some beautiful melodies that will live on long after him.

He was also a generous soul, always ready to lend a helping hand. He had an open door policy and welcomed people into his home with open arms. More than anything else, he loved sharing stories and swapping ideas with those around him.

Today we celebrate the life of this incredible man who left behind a beautiful legacy of music and of kindness. He will be remembered for all that he has accomplished and the many lives that he touched. May we strive to follow in his footsteps and honor his memory by living our own lives with love, humility and caring. Thank you.

These eulogy examples are for those who would like to focus on a loved one's profession or career choices as their way of honoring their life's work.

Eulogy for a speech pathologist

Dear friends, family, and colleagues,

Today, we gather to honor the life and legacy of Sarah Kwambe, a remarkable woman who touched the lives of so many people during her time with us. Sarah was not only a skilled speech pathologist but also a former professional soccer player who had to leave the sport she loved due to a career-ending injury. However, Sarah didn't let that setback stop her from pursuing her passion for helping others.

Sarah's journey began in South Dakota, where she lived with her beloved cat, Sam. She dedicated her life to making a difference in the lives of young people, particularly middle schoolers, whom she worked with as a speech pathologist. She had a remarkable ability to connect with her students and inspire them to achieve their full potential.

Despite the challenges she faced early on in her life, Sarah never gave up on her dreams. She was an accomplished athlete who excelled in soccer, but when her injury put an end to her career, she channeled her passion and determination into her studies. She pursued a degree in speech pathology, and her dedication to her work was evident in everything she did.

Sarah was a compassionate, caring, and selfless person who always put others first. She was a mentor to many, a friend to all, and a source of inspiration to everyone who knew her. She had a warm smile and a kind heart that could light up a room, and her love for her students was evident in the way she interacted with them.

Although Sarah never had children of her own, she had a deep love for her cat, Sam, who was always by her side. Her commitment to her feline friend was just one of the many examples of her kindness and compassion.

In conclusion, Sarah Kwambe was a truly remarkable person who touched the lives of many people in ways that will never be forgotten. Her legacy will live on through the countless students she helped, the colleagues she inspired, and the friends and family who loved her dearly. She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.

Rest in peace, Sarah Kwambe.

Eulogy example for an environmental activist

Dear friends and family,

Today, we gather to remember and celebrate the life of Rachel Chen, a remarkable woman who dedicated her life to protecting and preserving our environment. Rachel was an accomplished environmental scientist, mother of three children - Irina, Bliss, and Mario, and a loving partner to her husband of many years.

From a young age, Rachel had a deep love and appreciation for nature. Her passion for the environment inspired her to pursue a career in environmental science, and she quickly became a respected expert in her field. She spent many years working tirelessly to protect our national parks, and her dedication to this cause never wavered.

Rachel was also an avid gardener, and she had a remarkable ability to bring beauty to everything she touched. Her love for nature was evident in everything she did, from the way she tended to her garden to the way she spoke about the natural world.

As a mother, Rachel was loving, patient, and kind. She instilled in her children a deep respect for the environment and a desire to make the world a better place. Her children were the light of her life, and she was so proud of the people they had become.

Rachel's passing is a great loss to us all. She was a remarkable person who touched the lives of so many people in countless ways. Her legacy will live on through the countless national parks and natural spaces that she helped to protect, as well as through the love and memories that her family and friends will always carry in their hearts.

Rachel, we will miss you dearly, but we know that your spirit will live on through the beauty of nature that you cherished so deeply. Rest in peace.

Eulogy example for a young adult

Today, we come together to celebrate the life of Zach Peterson. Zach was a talented mechanic, a loving son, and a loyal friend. He passed away far too soon, but his memory will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

Zach had a passion for auto maintenance that was unmatched. He loved nothing more than working on cars, and he was always happy to help a friend in need. His skills were truly remarkable, and he had an uncanny ability to diagnose and fix any issue that came his way.

But Zach was more than just a mechanic. He was a gentle soul who cared deeply about those around him. He had a warm smile that could light up a room, and he was always quick with a joke or a kind word. He had a way of making everyone feel welcome and included, no matter who they were.

Zach's passing has left a void in our lives, but we take comfort in knowing that his memory will live on. We will remember his kind heart, his infectious laughter, and his unwavering loyalty. Zach was a special person who made a lasting impact on the world around him, and we are all better for having known him. Rest in peace, Zach.

Eulogy for an infant

With heavy hearts, we gather here today to mourn the loss of a precious child who has been taken from us too soon. We know that God has a plan for each and every one of us, but it is still difficult to understand why a young life has been cut short.

As we come together to remember this beautiful child, we take comfort in knowing that they are now in the loving embrace of our Lord. Though their time with us was brief, they brought immense joy and love into the world, and we will cherish the memories we have of them forever.

We know that this is a time of deep sorrow, but we can find solace in the fact that this child is now at peace in the arms of our Heavenly Father. May we all find comfort in our faith, and may we hold this precious child close in our hearts as we navigate this difficult time. Rest in peace, little one.

Eulogy for a grandmother

Today we gather to remember a truly remarkable woman - my grandmother. She was a woman of many talents: a masterful cross-stitcher, an incredible fudge-maker, and a loving grandmother to a whole gaggle of grandchildren.

Grandma was the kind of woman who made you feel like you were the only person in the world when she was talking to you. She always had a smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye, and she had a way of making even the most mundane tasks seem like an adventure.

And oh, her fudge! I think we can all agree that Grandma's fudge was a work of art. It was creamy, decadent, and so rich that you could only eat a tiny piece at a time - not that it stopped any of us from trying to eat the whole batch in one sitting!

But beyond her talents and her love of fudge, Grandma will be remembered most of all for the love she had for her family. She was a guiding light for all of us, a source of wisdom and strength when we needed it most.

So, as we say goodbye to this incredible woman, let us not mourn her passing, but celebrate the incredible life she lived. She was one of a kind, and we were all blessed to have known her. Rest in peace, Grandma - we will never forget you.

Eulogy for a farmer

Today we gather to celebrate the life of a man who loved nothing more than working hard under the sun, watching his land grow and thrive. [Name] was not just any farmer - he was a tireless advocate for agricultural reform and change. His passion for sustainable farming practices, conservation, and education knew no bounds.

He was never afraid to get his hands dirty or put in long hours because he believed that every crop mattered; every seed planted had the potential to make a difference. His dedication inspired those around him and helped shape the landscape of our community.

[Name] will be remembered by all as an honest, kind-hearted man who always put others first. I’ll miss his unwavering determination to better this world through agriculture and his infectious smile that brightened up everyone’s day.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when he taught me how to plant corn by hand while sharing stories about his childhood on the farm.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a fundraiser for local farmers affected by droughts and natural disasters.

Thank you all for being here today to honor my friend’s memory and legacy. In [name]’s words “Farming is not just a profession but also an art form”. May we carry on this art form in honor of him.

Eulogy for a teacher

We are gathered here today to say goodbye to someone very special: A teacher who dedicated her life towards social justice inside her classrooms, making sure each student felt valued and respected regardless of their background or ethnicity. She empowered students from underserved communities with access to quality education - she showed them they could achieve anything if they worked hard enough.

[name]'s legacy lives on through every student she touched during her career as an educator, instilling confidence in them whilst fighting against systemic oppression within school walls.

I’ll miss her contagious energy, witty humor, and deep compassion for everyone she met.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she invited me to speak in her class about my personal experiences and background, empowering me to share my story confidently.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when she organized a rally with her students for Black Lives Matter movement that brought people together from all walks of life.

Thank you for being here today, honoring the memory and legacy of someone who dedicated their life towards ensuring social justice inside classrooms. In the words of [name], “Education can change how we view ourselves, other people, and the world”. Let’s carry on this legacy in honor of her.

Eulogy for a foster dad

We gather here today to celebrate the life of a man who was known for his unwavering dedication towards family, golfing and fostering kids - [name]. If there’s one thing that everyone knows about him- it's that he loved nothing more than spending time with those he loved and helping those in need.

[name] had an infectious personality which brought joy to all those around him. He made sure to always put his family first no matter what, while also making time for the sport he was passionate about: Golf.

He would often take foster kids along with him on these trips; providing them a chance at a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

I’ll miss his contagious laughter, generosity, and his commitment to living every day to its fullest potential.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went out golfing together by the lake, enjoying each other’s company over some good shots.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] is when he organized a youth-golf tournament fundraiser raising funds for underprivileged children.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who lived their life so fully dedicated towards their passions - Family, Golfing & Fostering Kids. In the words of [name], “Life is like a round of golf; try your best from tee to green but don't forget to enjoy the moments along the way."

Eulogy for a soldier

Today we come together as friends and family members mourning the loss of someone whose bravery knew no bounds- [name]. A soldier who sacrificed everything including her own life during deployment serving her country valiantly.

Her courage has inspired us all and reminded us that freedom sometimes comes at great cost—she gave up everything she had just so others could have something better tomorrow.

She will be remembered not only as a hero but also as a friend whose selflessness touched countless lives on and off-duty alike. Her positivity knew no bounds even in times where things felt like they couldn’t get any worse.

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unbreakable spirit and her ability to inspire people around her even in the darkest of times.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when we went on a vacation together after she returned from deployment, catching up on life post-duty and just enjoying each other’s company.

Another one of our community's favorite memories of [Name] was when she organized a fundraiser for veterans who had been wounded during active duty.

Thank you all for being here today. We celebrate someone whose profound sacrifice has given us the freedom that we enjoy today- Freedom which comes at great cost. In [name]'s words: "Duty first; self second." Let us never forget this sentiment as we honor those brave men and women who serve their country valiantly.

Eulogy for an animal activist

Today marks the passing away of a woman whose compassion for animals was unmatched - [name]. She served as President at local ASPCA chapter where she inspired others through her dedication towards animal rights advocacy and protection. Her tireless efforts led to increased awareness within our community regarding animal welfare issues such as abuse or neglect.

[name] will be remembered not only as an advocate but also as a friend to all animals; big or small. Her kindness knew no bounds and it extended beyond just domesticated pets like dogs or cats- advocating for wildlife preservation too!

I’ll miss her infectious energy, unwavering passion and her ability to inspire empathy in those around her.

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when she rescued several abandoned kittens outside our office building during lunch breaks.

Another one of our local communities’ favorite memories with [Name] was when she coordinated fundraisers which helped raise funds for medical treatment costs associated with pet care amongst low-income families.

Thank you all for being here today honoring someone who made it their mission to ensure well-being among some oft-forgotten members in society: animals. May we strive each day to extend kindness towards them, carrying on what [name] started so passionately.

Eulogy for a writer

Thank you so much for attending the services today as we gather to say goodbye to Kaleb Morris, an incredibly talented author and journalist. His work delved into the darkest corners of human behavior, shining a light on the most heinous and unthinkable crimes. Kaleb had a gift for telling stories that not only captivated readers but also helped to shed light on important issues that might have otherwise gone unnoticed.

Tragically, Kaleb's life was cut short in a boating accident, leaving behind his child and former wife, Shareece. Though we grieve for the life that has been taken from us too soon, we can also take comfort in the legacy that Kaleb leaves behind.

His writing was not just a means to entertain, but a way to make a difference in the world. Kaleb shone a light on issues that needed to be addressed, and gave a voice to those who had been silenced by violence and tragedy. He was a gifted storyteller, and his impact on the true crime genre will be felt for years to come.

Kaleb will be deeply missed by all who knew him, but his work will live on as a testament to his incredible talent and dedication to his craft. Rest in peace, Kaleb.

Eulogy for a nurse practitioner

We gather to remember and honor Cherish Abrams, a beloved nurse practitioner who touched the lives of countless patients and colleagues during her 25 years of service. Cherish was known for her compassion, dedication, and expertise, and her loss is deeply felt by all who knew her.

Cherish was like a ""grandma"" to the NICU where she worked, comforting and caring for infants and families during their most vulnerable moments. Her gentle touch and kind words provided solace and hope to those in need, and her wisdom and guidance were invaluable to her colleagues.

Cherish's tragic passing is a reminder of how precious life is and how quickly it can be taken away. But even in death, she continues to inspire us with her selflessness, her unwavering dedication to her patients, and her love for her profession.

Cherish's memory will live on in the hearts of those she touched, and her legacy will continue through the lives of the countless patients she cared for and the colleagues she mentored. May she rest in peace, knowing that she made a profound difference in the world and that she will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a community leader

Today we gather to honor and remember the life of Michael Patel, a beloved community leader and philanthropist who dedicated his life to making the world a better place. Michael was a self-made businessman, a devoted family man, and a passionate advocate for those in need.

Throughout his life, Michael demonstrated a deep commitment to his community, supporting countless charitable organizations and causes. His generosity knew no bounds, and his impact on the lives of those he helped will never be forgotten.

Michael's passing is a great loss to us all, but his legacy will continue through the countless lives he touched and the causes he supported. We are grateful for the time we had with him and for the inspiration he provided to us all. Rest in peace, Michael, knowing that your life made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a high school teacher

We gather here today to remember and celebrate the life of Samantha Liu, a beloved high school teacher who passed away far too soon. Samantha was a bright, energetic, and dedicated educator who brought out the best in her students and inspired them to reach for their dreams.

In her 15 years of teaching, Samantha touched the lives of countless students, colleagues, and parents. Her passion for education was infectious, and her positive energy was felt by everyone who crossed her path.

Though we mourn the loss of Samantha, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the impact she has had on our lives. Her legacy lives on in the countless students whose lives she touched, and in the hearts of all those who were fortunate enough to know her. Rest in peace, Samantha, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy for a philanthropist

Eulogy example for loving mother.

We gather here today to celebrate the life of Emily Thompson, a beloved mother and grandmother who passed away peacefully surrounded by her family. Emily was a kind, caring, and nurturing woman who devoted her life to her loved ones.

As a mother of four and a grandmother of nine, Emily's love and devotion knew no bounds. She was the heart and soul of her family, providing comfort, support, and wisdom whenever it was needed.

Though we mourn the loss of Emily, we take comfort in the memories she has left behind and the love she shared with us all. Her legacy lives on through her family and the countless lives she touched during her lifetime. Rest in peace, Emily, knowing that you made a profound difference in the world and that you will be deeply missed.

Eulogy example for teacher

Marcus was a beloved teacher who dedicated his life to helping his students achieve their goals. He had a gift for teaching and his enthusiasm for learning was contagious. Marcus always went above and beyond to help his students, whether it was staying late to help them with homework, or just lending an ear when they needed to talk. He truly believed in the power of education to change lives, and he worked tirelessly to make sure his students had the tools they needed to succeed. Marcus was also a devoted husband and father. He met his wife, Sarah, when they were both in college, and they were inseparable ever since. They had two children together, and Marcus loved nothing more than spending time with his family. He was always there for his kids, whether it was coaching their sports teams or just reading them a bedtime story.

Marcus was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, but he never let it slow him down. He continued teaching, even when he was undergoing chemotherapy, and he always had a positive attitude. Marcus fought his illness with courage and grace, and he never lost his faith in God.

Marcus was a shining example of what it means to be a good person, and he touched the lives of everyone he met. He will be deeply missed by his students, colleagues, and his loving wife and two children.

Eulogy example for a chef

Isabella was a talented chef who had a passion for creating beautiful and delicious food. She was always experimenting with new flavors and ingredients, and her dishes were a work of art. Isabella had a natural talent for cooking, but she also worked hard to hone her skills. She attended culinary school and worked in some of the best restaurants in the city. But Isabella's love for cooking wasn't just about creating amazing dishes. She also loved the way food brought people together. Isabella was always hosting dinner parties and potlucks, and she loved nothing more than seeing people enjoy her food. She had a big heart and loved to share her food with family and friends. Her food was a way for her to show her love for the people in her life.

Isabella was also a devoted partner. She met her girlfriend, Maria, when they were both working in a restaurant, and they were inseparable ever since. They built a life together, and Isabella loved nothing more than spending time with Maria and their two dogs.

Isabella's death was a shock to everyone who knew her. She had so much talent and so much to give to the world. But even in death, Isabella's spirit lives on through her food and the memories she created for those who knew and loved her.

Eulogy for a principal

Today, we honor the life of a great educator who dedicated his life to shaping young minds and transforming our community through educational reform. We celebrate Michael's passion for education and his tireless efforts in ensuring that every child in this school district received quality education. He was not only an excellent principal but also a mentor, friend, and role model to many.

Michael was committed to providing resources necessary for students' success by creating programs that would enable them to have access to books, computers, and other learning materials. His unwavering commitment towards serving disadvantaged communities will forever be remembered.

We'll miss his vision for educational reform but are grateful for the impact he left on us all.

One of my favorite memories with Michael was when he fought tirelessly to get funding from the government so that we could add more classrooms and hire more teachers. His determination inspired me always.

Eulogy for a doctor

It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye today to Dr.[Name], an incredible physician who touched many lives during his medical career. While he loved fast cars, small dogs, and Margaritaville music, his dedication towards helping others never wavered.

Dr.[Name] had a way of putting people at ease whenever they were anxious about their health issues; he made you feel like everything would be okay no matter what happened.

He lived life fully and inspired those around him while doing so - even while battling his own illness—always encouraging others never to give up hope or lose faith in themselves.

I’ll miss his sense of humor but am lost without his guidance on how I should take care of myself better!

Another one of my favorite memories with Dr.[Name] is when he took me out on a ride-along in his sports car after work one day! He loved living life vicariously through little adventures like these!

Eulogy for someone who followed their dream

Today we gather here to honor [Name], who was a brilliant data analyst with a desire to become a potato farmer in Europe. He had an insatiable love for his lineage and dreamt of starting his farm there.

[Name] loved data analysis, but he also believed that there was more to life than crunching numbers. His passion for agriculture inspired him to follow his dream of farming potatoes and reconnecting with his roots.

He will be missed for his gentle nature and quiet strength. Still, we can all take comfort in knowing that he lived life on his terms and pursued what made him happy.

One of my absolute favorite moments was when [Name] shared pictures of the farmland where he hoped to start farming someday—his eyes lit up as he spoke about it so passionately!

Eulogy for a CEO who swapped careers

Today marks the passing away of someone incredibly special- a CEO turned dog trainer specializing in corgis- [Name].

[Name]'s career shift from being a successful CEO reflected how passionate she was about dogs, especially corgis! Her love for them was unmatched, and she spent her later years training them.

She was an inspiration to many who dreamed of following their passion. She showed that it's never too late to start something new, no matter how old you are!

We'll miss her business acumen but are grateful for the legacy she left behind. [Name] lived a life filled with happiness and fulfillment, doing what made her happiest - surrounded by pups!

One of my favorite memories with [Name] is when I visited her training facility and saw all the corgis happily playing under her watchful eye; it was a beautiful sight to see!

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A Guide to Writing a Funeral Speech: 8 Heartfelt Examples

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A Guide to Writing a Funeral Speech: 8 Heartfelt Examples

With the passing of a loved one comes the responsibility of making arrangements for their funeral. This includes deciding who will be saying a funeral speech at the funeral service.

Saying a funeral speech is not something that should be undertaken unprepared. It requires some forethought and planning.

A funeral is an emotional occasion and delivering a speech, unprepared, in front of the congregation is a recipe for disaster = one that will not soon be forgiven.

The ‘Do’s and Don’ts’ of a Funeral Speech

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When you sit down to decide what you’re going to say in your eulogy speech, there are a few factors you need to take into consideration.

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In writing your speech , it’s important to demonstrate the personal relationship you shared with the deceased. It’s necessary that you give the congregation an insight into the person’s life as it related to your own.

If you want to relate a situation or event that occurred in the deceased’s life, do so tastefully.

Your aim is not to deliver a stand-up comedy routine, but rather, a poignant and potentially somewhat humorous view of who the deceased was and what they meant to you.

A funeral speech is difficult to deliver if you’re feeling over-emotional. You cannot afford to break down and cry in the moment.  

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That’s not to say that you cannot show your emotions and grief. But you must be able to get through the speech you have prepared.

Finally, don’t use a funeral speech as an opportunity to settle old scores or tell others about unfinished business between yourself and the deceased.

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Here are some examples of a funeral speech that celebrates the deceased’s life but at the same time expresses the grief of the speaker.

A Eulogy for a Mother

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The last thing I imagined myself doing today was delivering the eulogy at my mother’s funeral.

Despite the fact that she was ill, and we knew her passing was inevitable, it has still come as a shock to us as a family.

My mother was a phenomenal woman who possessed reserves of strength and patience that seemed to be infinite.

We, her children, were her pride and joy; she regarded us as the greatest accomplishment of her life. That doesn’t mean that raising us was easy, nor always enjoyable.

My siblings and I gave her a lot of gray hairs along the way. But, regardless of our misdeeds, she would always find it in her heart to forgive us.

And not only that, she would have enough faith in us to believe that we would not transgress again.

One of my fondest memories of my mother is watching her sit down and relax after a long day. She worked hard at her job and came home to run her household. That meant that she had very little time to herself.

And even with the little ‘me time’ she had, she never used it for herself. She’d always be knitting or sewing or making something that we needed.

What our family lacked in money, my mother more than made up for with love.

My mother was the heart of our home, the center of our universe, and the greatest example of unconditional love we could’ve hoped to have.

A Eulogy for a Father

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My father was a quiet man. He seldom said much. That’s why, when he did have something to say, we listened.

That may make him sound like he was distant, but nothing could be further from the truth.

He was always interested in what was going on in our lives and was extraordinarily proud of our achievements.

Whether it was scoring a home run in a Little League baseball game or getting a bursary for a university, he delighted in our successes.

As a child, one of the places I felt the safest was in the arms of my father. In fact, right now, that’s the place I wish I was more than anything else.

He was a hardworking man who set a great example for my siblings and me. We learned from him that, regardless of the task, it was not worth doing if you didn’t want to do it properly.

My father had an incredibly dry sense of humor. It took us a while to grasp it because, as children, we didn’t get it.

But as we grew up, we began to understand his wit and laugh at the things he said.  

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He presided over family dinners with a quiet dignity that spoke of a patriarch who took that responsibility seriously.

He was the mediator in our disputes as siblings and always took the high road, refusing to take sides.

He’s left a gap in our lives that we can’t even begin to contemplate filling.

A Funeral Speech for a Best Friend

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Jennifer and I met, two gap-toothed first-grader’s, on the first day of school – ever.

Something drew us to each other though. We could never quite figure out what it was, but it’s lasted a lifetime.

As children, we would spend hours with each other without talking that much.

We just understood each other. Even if you put us on either side of a big room full of people, Jennifer and I would always find our way back to each other immediately.

We survived high school together. I’m not sure if either of us would’ve made it without the other. We laughed and cried together so many times.

There were crushes and boyfriends that caused heartache and heartbreak. But, throughout it all, we were always there for each other, no matter what – no matter how many times I needed a shoulder to cry on, Jennifer was there.

We went to different colleges after high school and the careers and lives we pursued after our studies were poles apart. We lived far away from each other and I’ll be honest, we sometimes went for long periods without talking, which I regret.

I’ll be honest, we sometimes went for long periods without talking, which I regret.

But every time we spoke or saw each other though, we picked up where we left off, and it felt like we’d never been apart.

It’s that mutual love and respect that makes me know Jennifer was the best friend I could ever have had.

A Eulogy for a Wife

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I don’t know where to begin to tell you about the enormous gaping hole that Samantha’s passing has left in my life.

It feels like half of me has vanished in an instant, and I’m not sure I’ll ever feel whole again.

Samantha was an amazing woman. She had such an infectious zest for life that she could always find the humor or a silver lining of any situation, regardless of the gravity. Anything seemed possible with her attitude.

The way she attacked the obstacles she encountered with such strength and determination was inspirational.

Samantha and I met quite by accident. I walked into her office in error – and there she was: the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. She seemed to radiate some kind of magnetic attraction.  

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I knew there and then that I would never be able to stay away from her, and that my life would not be complete without her in it. She didn’t make it easy.

I had to ask her out several times before she agreed. But when I look back on the life we’ve shared, it was more than worth it.

Our children were the center of Samantha’s world. She took her role as a mother seriously and did an amazing job of raising them to be the adults they are today.

I wish I’d had more time with her, I really do. But I will treasure the years I had with her in my heart for the rest of my life.

A Funeral Speech for a Husband

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The thing that made me fall in love with Stephen was his sense of humor. He always made me laugh, even when all I wanted to do was cry.

Whenever I’d get angry or upset with him – for whatever reason – I’d always wind up laughing because he could always make me see the funny side of it.

As a husband, Stephen was supportive of everything I did.

Like when I decided that the patio needed to be refurbished. He was right by my side working so hard to help me, even though I’m sure the last thing he felt like doing was revamping the patio.

In fact, I know he would have preferred to spend his weekend resting and relaxing. But he never let me down. Tired or not, he’d help me with all my ‘projects’.

Stephen endeared himself to me even more when we became parents. He was so proud to be a father and a wonderfully hands-on partner.

I couldn’t have asked for a better father for my children. In fact, there were times I had to ask him to be a bit more hands-off so that I could get to my babies!

The lives of our children and their achievements gave Stephen an enormous amount of satisfaction.

He supported them every step of the way. He picked them up when they fell or failed.

He encouraged them to keep going. And he showed them how to be the resilient adults they have become.

My life was better that I could have ever imagined, and fuller that I ever dreamed because of Stephen’s presence by my side.

A Eulogy for a brother

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I’m not going to stand up here and tell you that it was all sunshine and roses between David and myself growing up.

There were times I wished he wasn’t my brother. And I’m sure there were times he wished I wasn’t his sister.

We seemed to have a knack for pushing each other’s buttons, sometimes with some amusing consequences, sometimes not.

From the outset, David stood out as an individual. He did not march to the beat of society’s drum. He had his own internal drumbeat, and he remained committed to it.

One of my favorite memories of David is the one-and-only time my mother asked him to water her indoor plants. True to form, David came up with a plan to make the job easier.

He brought the hose and sprinkler indoors and turned it on. I’ll never forget the look on my mother’s face and the mischievous grin on David’s.

As we grew older, I began to see David for what he truly was. He was a caring brother who’d do anything to protect me.

He let me cry on his shoulder when I went through my first break-up. He was the only one who understood my hurt and confusion when our parents divorced.

David was a loyal and kind person who’d never let you down.

He’d have given anyone the shirt off his back. I’m proud to have called this incredibly special man my brother.

A Funeral Speech for a Sister

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My sister Janet never met a challenge she didn’t conquer.

Even as a baby, she showed an exceptional amount of determination. She would turn her mind to an obstacle and work on it until she’d overcome it.

Of course, she drove me crazy. Having a little sister who wanted to tag along was, at times, infuriating.

She would go through the things in my room and leave a mess. When she was about ten years old, she got into my makeup drawer and went completely overboard.

When I caught her, she had rainbow-colored eyelids, forehead and cheeks. Her lips and teeth were full of lipstick, and there was mascara everywhere. I was furious at the time. When she saw how angry I was, she began to cry.

Anytime she’d open those beautiful big brown eyes of hers, silently reminding me that she was my flesh and blood, I couldn’t stay angry with her.

She’d open those beautiful big brown eyes and remind me that she was my flesh and blood. And I couldn’t stay angry with her.

Janet was an exemplary student. She had an incredible work ethic. If she didn’t understand something, she’d work at it until she did.

Losing my sister is so heartbreaking. She had so much left to offer the world.

But wherever she is, I know that she’s looking down on me now with those gorgeous brown eyes and that beautiful smile.

A Funeral Speech for a Close Acquaintance (e.g., a teacher, boss, coworker)

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I’d like to start by offering John’s family my sincerest condolences.

Your loss is so great. You had a special man in your midst, and I’m can’t imagine the depth of loss you must feel.

John was my high school English teacher, so you might wonder why I refer to him as John and not as Mr. Robinson; it was at his insistence, as soon as I graduated.

When I first called him Mr. Robinson after graduation, he’d turned around and said, “Is my father standing behind me?” When I replied in the negative, he’d said, “Then why are you saying his name?”

John taught me so much more than English. He taught me how to think critically, and not to take things at face value.  

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He showed me the value of questioning that which was placed before me as fact. Thanks to him, I developed analytical skills that I continue to use today.

John’s work ethic influenced me greatly. He would always show us the value of hard work and diligence. I took those lessons to heart.

His passion for teaching English was contagious. I fell in love with the language on a different level thanks to him. He made the written word come alive in class.

He may not have known it, but John fulfilled an important role in my life. He was like a father, an uncle, and a big brother all rolled into one.

He shaped me into the man I am today. There are no words I can use to express my gratitude, which I know would disappoint John. After all, he made sure he taught us a wide vocabulary

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Powerful Eulogy Examples to Help You Write a Eulogy

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Giving a eulogy for a loved one is an important and meaningful task. It’s a joy and a blessing, but can also be a bit intimidating.

So we’ve provided some samples for your inspiration, including short eulogy examples accompanying each.

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But first, we’ll start with some short funeral speech examples.

Short Eulogy Examples

Here are some brief examples of eulogies that are short and to the point. Sometimes, fewer words is best.

Short Eulogy for a Mother

My mother, Lydia Jane Ethridge, had many passions in life. She had a passion for her children, for ensuring that we were well taken care of at all times. She had a passion for teaching art, which she did at her beloved Edwards Christian Academy in Southerfield. And she had a passion for the environment, which she instilled in my sister Valerie and I from an early age.

She was a very hard worker, and I think we can all agree that she was a talented artist. She had a deep love for her husband, Sam, whom she married in this very church on July 7th, 1993. As many of you know, Sam is no longer with us, but the years that he and Mom were able to spend together were the greatest years of her life. It gives me peace in knowing that he and Mom are finally together again.

Each of you was special to Mom in one way or another, and I want to thank you for being here today.

Short Eulogy for a Father

My Papi, Edwin James Garza, was an exceptional man. Coming from a very poor family, with just the shoes on his feet and the shirt on his back, Papi built a solid foundation for his business and for his own family. The cornerstone of this foundation was the deep-rooted pride he had in his heritage and his faith.

My Papi was usually a quiet, gentle man, but he knew how to be loud and proud when he had to be. He loved his grandchildren and instilled in them The Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you… the same Golden Rule he so often repeated to his own children while we were growing up. As an adult, he made the decision to leave Catholicism. However he made it clear that although he was no longer a Catholic, he was still a Christian, and would always be proud of his Catholic heritage.

When my Mama, the love of his life, passed away last year, Papi was not quite the same. My family members and I find peace and solace in the fact that he is now reunited with her in heaven.

Short Eulogy for a Grandmother

My Grandma held many jobs throughout her life, from waitress to cafeteria aide. But of all the jobs she held, she perhaps took her job as “Grandma” most seriously.

I have many wonderful memories of time spent with my grandmother through the years. She was naturally a very friendly and happy person. She was always willing to give you advice if you came to her with a problem. She was instinctively a very helpful and insightful person. She was an excellent listener, and was well-versed on multiple topics. She was very wise, and would always say, “Look forward to tomorrow, Greg, but take life one day at a time. Each day has enough worry in it.”

She loved games and puzzles, especially jigsaw puzzles. I used to watch my Grandma do her jigsaw puzzles with awe. Now as I stand before you all today, I see the bigger picture and the significance of her fitting together and connecting the pieces. It was symbolic of her ability to get through life’s challenges…with enough perseverance and dedication, you can master any challenge life throws your ways, any obstacle, any hardship.

In a world that’s a box full of jumbled pieces, with a little time and effort, you too can create a picture that is fulfillment in life. Laura Lee did – she completed her puzzle and has left us with an extraordinarily beautiful picture.

Short Eulogy for a Grandfather

Thank you all for being here today as we’ve gathered to honor the life and legacy of my grandfather, Robert Alan White. To each of us here, he was either Dad, Papa, Uncle Bob, or simply Bob.

No matter what we called him, he held a special place in each of our hearts that can never be replaced, but will always be remembered with great love.

Papa was born on April 16th, 1939 in the outskirts of Montgomery, Alabama, a place that he held close to his heart. He had fond childhood memories growing up in his small Southern hometown.

When he would recollect these memories, which was often, he would speak of the people who made him who he was: his dad and mother, Ned and Betsy, as well as of his siblings.

He served our country in the United States Air Force for 9 years, and was married to the love of his life, Abby June (better known as Nanny) for 50 years. Papa was a good man. He was a man of few words, but you knew when he was in the room. He had an infectious laugh and a genuine smile. He loved his family deeply and wore his heart on his sleeve.

At the age of 13, Papa accepted Christ as his Lord and Savior. He shared with his family that once when he hit a dark spot in life and his faith was tested, he asked God to help him get through it.

The Lord provided a way. And from then on, his faith never wavered.

For this wonderful reason, even though Papa has passed on from this old life, we can say without a shadow of a doubt, this isn’t so much “Goodbye” as it is, “See you soon.” And while “Twas hard to give thee up, thy will o God be done.”

So before we leave, I’ll say this: we love you Papa, and we’ll see you again soon.

Short Eulogy for an Aunt

I think I had the honor of introducing myself to everyone here earlier, but just in case I missed you, I’m Annie, Faith’s niece.

Aunt Faith raised me from the time I was three until I left home. She was more like mom to me than an aunt, and I’ll be forever grateful for the example of Christ’s love that she provided me during my growing up years.

I wasn’t the easiest kid sometimes, but her love for me was unconditional and forgiving, just like the love of Someone else we know.

My aunt, Faith Eugenia Hamilton, was born September 4th, 1969 to my granddad and nana, John and Susie. She grew up right here in Richmond, went to high school just down the road and later to Selina’s Cosmetology School.

She never married, and for this reason I would sometimes jokingly call her “Aunt Nun.” But to be honest, I was glad that it was just me and her. She was always there for me whenever I needed her, whether I had an issue with a teacher, a friend, a guy, with myself or even her. She was the most non-judgemental person I knew.

She was a prime example of what it means to show grace and forgiveness, what it means to take the narrow way without so much as a complaint. She oversaw many activities in her church and community, and continued her good works until she was no longer able to due to her cancer.

So before I close, I want to remind you all that it was her wish that you should donate to St. Jude’s in lieu of buying flowers for her grave! Or to any charity of your choice, really…it would make her happy knowing that some good is still being carried out on her behalf.

Short Eulogy for an Uncle

Good morning everyone. My name is Jerry. I’m Lonnie’s nephew. I like to say I’m Lonnie’s favorite nephew, but that’s a given really, since I’m actually his only nephew. (If you can’t already tell, I inherited my uncle’s lame sense of humor) .

Leonard Roy Davis was born February 3rd, 1950, in Altus, Oklahoma. As a young man, Lonnie left high school early to join the Army. He enjoyed military life, but he also missed the simplicity of life in his hometown.

When Vietnam ended and he got to go home, the first thing he did was propose to his high school sweetheart, Emily. When Emily was tragically killed in a car accident two years into their marriage, he was never the same.

Uncle Lonnie had always wanted children but knew that he would never have any of his own when Emily died. So when I came around, he was beyond excited. He would watch me, with a little help from Granny, during the evenings back when Mom worked as a nurse.

My own dad was no where to be found back then, so Lonnie became sort of a father figure to me. He taught me how to hunt, how to fish, how to change a tire. How to talk to girls in a way that would get them to actually talk back to you! How to drive when I got older. Needless to say, he was the best.

If there was a cause in this world that Uncle Lonnie cherished the most, it would be the prevention of animal cruelty. So if you could find it in your heart to make a donation in his name, to the ASCPA, PETA, or your local animal shelter, I know that would have really put a smile on his face.

Short Eulogy for a Cousin

It has been the most difficult experience in the world to lose my cousin McKayla. She was so proud to be a “beach girl” through and through. Surfside was home to her, and while it isn’t the beautiful, blue-sea experience you might find elsewhere, she was proud to live here.

McKayla cared deeply about our beaches, the ocean, and the creatures that lived in and around it. She was a member of Brazosport High’s Keep It Clean club, which meets twice a month in the spring and fall to pick up litter along the coast.

Kitty’s Purple Cow Café also held a special place in her heart… looking around I also see several of her co-workers, and I just want to say thank you. Our families were regulars there for many years when we were younger, and it was a dream of hers to one day get to work there. You made that dream come true for her.

My cousin was very outgoing and some would even say extroverted, but she was also just the sweetest girl you ever met. Her best friends since elementary school, Karissa, Alex and Gracie, are here today and can attest to this! Guys, I want you to know that you were McKayla’s world. Each of you gave her so much happiness in her young life, and in return I know that she, with each of you, built memories that will last a lifetime. I want to thank you, Karissa, Alex, and Gracie, for being here today to honor her memory. I know that this is the hardest day ever for you, but the fact that you are here would have meant the world to her.

McKayla was only 16 when God took her back to heaven. She missed her 17 th birthday by just four days. It just doesn’t seem fair, does it? But who are we to question God’s will? They say that He breaks our hearts to prove to us that He only takes the best, and now I believe that with all my heart. McKayla was a beautiful, rare soul that will be forever young and beautiful, and greatly missed.

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Full-Length Eulogy Speech Examples

Read our full-length example eulogies for each person below. These are typically about 1,000 words (700-1200 is ideal) and should take about five minutes to deliver.

Eulogy Example for a Mother

Good morning all.

My name is Steven Lewis and I am Lydia’s son. On behalf of myself and my sister Valerie, I want to thank you all for being here today as we formally say goodbye to our mother. I recognize most of the faces here, but there’s a few I don’t know. I would love to speak with you and shake your hand after today’s memorial service, if you have a few moments before you leave. Each of you was special to Mom in one way or another and I want to recognize that.

My mother was born Lydia Jane Ethridge on February 25 th , 1959 to my grandparents, Lucille and Edgar. She spent her childhood in Oklahoma City, where she made many lifelong friends. At the tender age of seventeen, she met my father, Hank Lewis, who was visiting the area from Kentucky. The two eloped on September 1 st , 1976 and he took her home to Louisville.

Valerie and I were born just one year apart. My parents were still very young when we came around, and were struggling to get by. When our dad was laid off from his job, Mom took it upon herself to help make ends meet. She was a wonderful painter. She was able to create artwork and sell it at school functions, local fairs, and even neighborhood garage and estate sales. Mind you, the internet was not around back then for her to market her work–Mom’s paintings were good enough that word of mouth alone brought her quite a bit of opportunity.

Mom would never say this, but her work was actually compared more than once to that of famous artist Claude Monet… and maybe you knew this or not, but Mom once won a contest for best Monet impressionist.

Mom was also a big giver and often painted her birthday and Christmas gifts for friends and family. I wouldn’t be surprised if many of you here today own one or two of her original pieces!

When my parents separated in 1985, Mom decided to go back to school. She moved us to Lexington to start classes at the University of Kentucky, where she graduated in 1991 with her degree in Art History and Visual Studies. The next year she realized her lifelong dream of becoming an art teacher when she joined Edwards Christian Academy in nearby Southerfield. At Edwards, she met the man who would become the love of her life, Sam Reynolds. The two wed on July 7 th , 1993 in this very church.

I see that many of you here today are teachers and students from Edwards, which sadly closed its doors for good in June of last year, about a year after Mom first started to get sick. I just want to take this time to acknowledge each of you, and to say thank you for welcoming my mother to the school like you did. She loved that school and I think her love for the kids there it was evident in the work she did. The art club that she started in 1996 went strong until the school closed its doors, starting out the first year with just 13 attendees and ending its final year with almost 100 members.

Today I also want to acknowledge my stepfather Sam. As many of you know, Sam Reynolds is no longer with us, but the years that he and Mom were able to spend together were the greatest years of her life. It gives me peace in knowing that he and Mom are finally together again.

Besides her love for painting, for Edwards, for her children and for Sam, Mom had a love for Mother Earth. It drove her mad to see litter on the side of the highway and she would often stop herself to pick it up. She stopped using plastic bags and straws long before it became trendy to do so. She had a compost garden bed and regularly participated in not only the city’s recycling program, but also her neighborhood’s Green Club. This club met once a month to make crafts out of household odds and ends that would otherwise be thrown away. Having lived an eco-friendly lifestyle for as long as we could remember, Mom instilled her passion for caring for the earth in my sister and I, and eventually in Sam, although it took him a little bit longer to adopt her ways!

That passion is actually why Mom’s remains are not here with us today. Several months before she passed, and still feeling relatively okay, Mom began to research her own final disposition. She discovered that, after death, her body could be cremated and placed in a biodegradable pod. She could be “planted” rather than buried or inurned, and her remains could provide nurture to a tree for years and years, possibly centuries, to come…. In other words, as I speak, Mom is caring for the planet in her own special way, even in death.

How wonderful is that?

Before I close, on behalf of myself and my sister, I want to share a special memory of our mother that I think does a really great job at highlighting just how wonderfully bright her heart was. From the time we were tots until probably our mid-teens, Mom thought it was fun to randomly stop whatever she was doing– painting, cooking, laundry, whatever– and yell out at the top of her lungs, “dance party!” And whatever my sister and I were doing– playing, studying, even arguing– we were obligated to stop and dance with our mom for about ten minutes, or however long Mom wanted us all to dance together! Both Valerie and I attribute this little ritual we grew up with as one of the reasons we have always been very close, and there is no else to thank for that but our wonderful mother.

So, thank you all once more for being here today as we say goodbye to our beautiful mother. A very special thank you to Angels Among Us Community Hospice, who took such good care of her in her final days. Also a big thank you to Little Bethel House of Faith for opening their doors to all of us today. Mom was not a member here but it means everything to us that we can send her off today, back to Sam, in the very place where they were united.

Eulogy Example for a Father

Hello everyone. My name is Katherine Hernandez and I am Edwin James Garza’s eldest daughter. On behalf of my family, my brothers Jose, Carlos, and Edwin Jr., and my sister Esme, and all of our children, I want to thank you all for being here today.

Papi was born in Los Angeles on October 2 nd , 1933, and first came to San Leandro as a little boy with his family in 1940. His father and mother, Jose and Cecilia Garza, ran a Mexican grocery store and did not make very much money. To help support his parents and siblings, Papi dropped out of school at the age of sixteen and went to work for a local construction agency, T&T Dynamics. Here, he learned the value of a hard day’s work and also discovered his passion in real estate.

Together with his older brother, my Uncle Victor, Papi established Garza and Co., which he continued even after my uncle’s death in 1997. He flipped houses and also managed several rental properties up until 2005, when he officially retired and sold the last property.

Besides his family, his business was his pride and joy, and my father had a tear in his eye the day Garza & Co. closed its doors for good. His work afforded his own family a comfortable living that he was not able to enjoy growing up. My siblings and I are very grateful for that upbringing, Papi, and I hope that you knew that.

On January 1 st , 1955, he met a beautiful young lady, our mother Rosalind Reynoso, at a dance hall here in San Leandro. They had a relatively quick courtship by today’s standards, and were engaged by that summer. On New Year’s Day 1956, exactly one year after they met, they wed at Holy Spirit Catholic Church. At first, the priest would not agree to marry them, since it was a holiday and also a Sunday. But after some persuasion by my father and his parents, the priest finally agreed to unite them that evening.

In the 1960s, against the wishes of their families, Mama and Papi left the Catholic Church to join a community church, Faith and Friends, which was started at a neighbor’s house down the street from where we grew up. Although his faith label changed, his faith did not. Papi always made it clear that although he was no longer a Catholic, he was still a Christian, and would always be proud of his Catholic heritage. “It’s where I first found the Lord,” he would often say.

If there is anyone here today who did not know my father personally, let me tell you a little bit about who he was as a person. My Papi was usually a quiet, gentle man, but he knew how to be loud and proud when he had to be. He loved his grandchildren and instilled in them The Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you… the same Golden Rule he so often repeated to his own children while we were growing up.

In his old age, and especially after Mama died, his children and his grandchildren were his pride and joy. He had a special relationship by my son Oscar. Oscar has a special love for all things skateboarding, and when he was ten years old, wanted nothing more than to visit the Braille Skateboarding warehouse here in San Leandro. Papi was able to get them tickets to an event Braille was holding that year, and Oscar got to meet Aaron Kyro and other professional skateboarders that he looked up to. Oscar will always have this special memory of getting to do that with his grandfather.

To all of the grandchildren in our family, Oscar, Christina, Alejandro, Caleb, Amy, Jaxon and Adele, Abuelo loved each of you very much. I know that it was so hard for you all to be here today to say goodbye to him, but I wanted you all to know that he was so proud of you and the amazing young people that you are.

Of course I cannot close this eulogy without any mention of the famous Mexican singer Vicente Fernandez! Papi loved him with a passion, to the point that my mother would sometimes say to him, “Why did you marry little old me and not Vicente, Edwin? You love him so much!” This would make him laugh, and then all of us kids laugh. But it was true. Papi loved everything about Vicente Fernandez. He was constantly playing his albums on our old record player, and most of the house, including the master bedroom, displayed Vicente Fernandez memorabilia. It was a joke to everyone but Papi, who took his love for Vicente quite seriously.

When my Mama, the real love of his life, passed away last year, Papi was not quite the same. He was his usual loving self, especially around the grandchildren. But this past year he had become very sad, and was not very good at hiding it. When he died in his sleep last week, my first thought was, what a blessing . I was not expecting the news, but I was not surprised, either. What a long and beautiful life he had led. What an inspiration he was to his children and grandchildren. And there was no pain for him at the end. But there is no question in my mind that he died of a broken heart. My family and I find peace and solace in the fact that he is now reunited with Mama in heaven.

I want to say a special thank-you today to Jaime Rodriguez, the funeral director here at Esperanza & Sons Funeral Home. You have shown such patience in caring for my family this past week. We are a handful, I know, but you never faltered in showing us compassion and grace when we needed it the most. I want to thank each and every one of you for being here today, as well, as we say our final goodbyes to our Papi and Abuelo. Edwin James Garza was 85 years old, he lived a long, beautiful, loved-filled life, and I want all of you to remember that as we lay him to rest today.

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Eulogy Example for a Grandmother

Hi everyone. I think I know most of you here today, but just in case, I better introduce myself. I’m Greg, Laura Lee’s oldest grandson.

We all know that these times we’re living in are a little crazy, to say the least. So before I begin, I want to take just a moment to thank you all for being here today as my family officially says goodbye to my grandmother. It means the world to me, and I know it would have meant the world to her.

My grandmother, Laura Lee Wilson (or Lee Lee, as she was sometimes called by those who knew her best), was born on March 18th, 1929. From a young age she called Frederick County, Maryland, home. In 1949 she married the love of her life, my grandfather Edward Wilson. They enjoyed a classical love story, meeting and falling in love the old-fashioned way. They courted, went steady for awhile, were engaged and finally were married. Grandma described meeting my grandfather as love at first sight. They were married for 60 long and love-filled years, until his death in 2009.

After getting married, they started their family and put down roots in Rochester, New York. They had three beautiful children together: my Uncle Jim, who passed away in ’90, my mom Alicia, and my Aunt Katie. In 1980, they moved once more, this time to Kentucky. Kentucky quickly became home to them and they immensely enjoyed the many years they spent there together.

Grandma held many jobs throughout her life. She worked in a retail store called Frank’s Sales for awhile, was a waitress for a few years, and served as a cafeteria aide for the Horse Trails School District. But of all the jobs she held, she perhaps took her job as “Grandma” most seriously.

Grandma adored her grandchildren. It was a love we could feel a mile away. All of us: myself, Alexandra, Kyle and Sam, and even the next generation of us: Lily, Macie and Kane, all knew how much we were cherished by her.

I have many wonderful memories of time spent with my grandmother through the years. We enjoyed camping trips and fishing together. No matter what we’d catch she cook it up for us to enjoy. After dinner, we’d crack up over a board game or two, or three. There was always joy to be found when you were with Grandma. There was always a board game waiting to be played, always laughter echoing through the house, and always excitement that can only come to you as a grandchild in the presence of your grandmother.

My grandma was naturally a very friendly and happy person. She was always willing to give you advice if you came to her with a problem. She was instinctively a very helpful and insightful person. She was an excellent listener, and was well-versed on multiple topics. She was a very wise person and would always say, “Look forward to tomorrow, Greg, but take life one day at a time. Each day has enough worry in it.”

Now that I’m older I realize just how sound that advice really is. If you think about it, even in the midst of all the crazy news we’re bombarded with every day, if we only take things a day at a time there really isn’t a need to get overwhelmed.

In life, my grandmother was very proud of her children and grandchildren, that we all turned out to be good people and that we all had a touch of her attributes. My grandparents lived by a fairly strict, Biblical way of life. They did not allow foul language or arguing, and they were known to implement curfews. They loved God and were sure to say their prayers at mealtimes. But they still knew how to have a good time, a life skill they passed down to their children and grandchildren.

But Grandma didn’t just talk the talk, she walked the walk, too. Throughout the years she took a helpful role in her community. She served as a volunteer at the Trails Regional Hospital for many years, and also volunteered in her retirement community. She would make soups and desserts for the elderly residents in her community.

She also enjoyed traveling. I was most intrigued to hear about her fantastic trip to Wales she took in 1995. She described it as a really great time in her life.

She was simply an amazing woman all-around. She was an excellent listener and was an encyclopedia of knowledge. She was very well-mannered and maintained an abundance of politeness, whether that meant carrying a box for someone, holding the door open for them, or just acknowledging someone by saying hello. Her good deeds for others spoke volumes. She also believed in leading by example…back in the early 80’s, for instance, she and my Grandpa took part in the Great American Smoke Out. They stopped smoking that very day and never looked back. It was little things like that that made all the difference in the lives of her children and grandchildren, whom she knew were always watching.

And if you knew Grandma, you knew that she loved games. Board games were her favorite. She enjoyed crossword puzzles too, and spent a lot of time working on her jigsaw puzzles. She was also incredibly skilled at crocheting. She would make me and my sister the absolute best homemade hats, gloves, scarves and socks. And quite possibly the warmest blankets on planet Earth.

My grandmother, Laura Lee Wilson, lived a long and fulfilled life. Towards the end of her life, she was suffering from Alzheimer’s, which robbed her and us of precious time together. She gave it her all but passed away at the age of 90, and yet somehow that just seem like near enough time. I miss her like crazy, my family misses her, and there’s no doubt everyone here does, too. And we always will. But maybe being missed like crazy is a sure sign of a life well lived…and of a life well-loved.

I used to watch my Grandma do her jigsaw puzzles with awe. Now as I stand before you all today, I see the bigger picture and the significance of her fitting together and connecting the pieces. It was symbolic of her ability to get through life’s challenges…with enough perseverance and dedication, you can master any challenge life throws your ways, any obstacle, any hardship. In a world that’s a box full of jumbled pieces, with a little time and effort, you too can create a picture that is fulfillment in life. Laura Lee did – she completed her puzzle and has left us with an extraordinarily beautiful picture.

Before I close, I want to thank you again for being here today to support my family and to honor my grandmother. I especially want to thank my mom, who went above and beyond for Grandma, especially towards the end. I love you Mom, we all love and appreciate you, and Grandma sure did as well.

And Grandma, we all love you too. Thank you for your everlasting wisdom, and for all the wonderful memories you gave us. We will do our best to pass down your generosity and kindness to the next generation, your love for all things family and friends, and your ability to always see the bigger picture.

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Eulogy Example for a Grandfather

Hello, everyone. I know most of you here today, but for those who may not know me, my name is Kate, I’m Bob’s granddaughter. Before I begin, I want to thank you all for being here today as we’ve gathered to honor the life and legacy of my grandfather, Robert Alan White. To each of us here, he was either Dad, Papa, Uncle Bob, or simply Bob. No matter what we called him, he held a special place in each of our hearts that can never be replaced, but will always be remembered with great love.

Papa was born on April 16th, 1939 in the outskirts of Montgomery, Alabama, a place that he held close to his heart. He had fond childhood memories growing up in his small Southern hometown. When he would recollect these memories, which was often, he would speak of the people who made him who he was: his dad and mother, Ned and Betsy, as well as of his siblings. He spoke of childhood jaunts with his brother John. They would spend days together doing what boys would do, he’d say, picking tomatoes to snack on when they got hungry, that sort of thing. He spoke of time spent with his brother Silas, too, particularly of time spent together after Silas was grown. Even though Papa was ten years older, they shared a mutual love for the great outdoors and for animals, as well.

Papa loved his parents and family, and he knew that he was loved in return. His mama taught him from an early age how to read the Sunday comics, and that joy of reading stayed with him his whole life. He enjoyed reading so much so, that he would read all of his new school books within the first few weeks of the new school year. And although he was born and raised in and around Montgomery, no one in his family was surprised when he grew up and eventually settled in Texas; they always knew he’d leave home one day to visit or live in one of those interesting places he’d read about.

In 1955, at the young age of 16, Papa enlisted in the military by fibbing about his age and having his daddy sign for him. He served our country in the United States Air Force for 9 years, serving in places near and far: from Oklahoma to New York; from France to New Zealand.

Papa was married to the love of his life, Abby June, best known as Nanny, for 50 years. Papa loved Nanny more than life itself. He spent his last years taking care of her as best he could. When he was no longer able to himself, he would visit her every day that he could. He couldn’t stand leaving her when it was time to go, and often said he wished he could stay the night with her so he wouldn’t have to.

In his final year, Papa would speak of how blessed he was, how thankful he was for everything, with his only regret being that Nanny wasn’t there at home to spend it with him.

Papa was a good man. He was a man of few words, but you knew when he was in the room. He had an infectious laugh and a genuine smile. He loved his family deeply and wore his heart on his sleeve. When I think of Papa, I think of the way he said my name when I called to talk or when I came over to visit him and Nanny. Nanny would always say, “It’s Kate,” or “Kate is here, Bob.” He would immediately reply with, “You mean Katelyn Leann Smith!” When I got married, he changed it to “Katelyn Leann Smith Lewis!” He was always so happy to talk to me and I knew I was loved by him.

Me and my siblings, and all of the cousins, have wonderful memories growing up of…movies. So many movies! When we were little Nanny owned a movie store in town, and we were always the first to receive copies of the latest films, before anyone else did. This made Christmas extra fun every year.

Papa was a simple man with simple hobbies, but he was a very thoughtful and intellectual man at the same time. He enjoyed listening to and playing all kinds of music. He was very good with technology and computers, and was also into researching his family’s genealogy, a passion that he passed down to his children and grandchildren.

He loved to fish, and often spoke fondly of fishing trips he would take with his neighbors. His children remember watching him race cars in Amarillo, and also going to wrestling matches together. They remember bowling outings, too, among other activities. He loved old westerns and car shows, he loved feeding the birds and squirrels, and he loved his dogs and cats.

At the age of 13, Papa accepted Christ as his Lord and Savior. He shared with his family that once when he hit a dark spot in life and his faith was tested, he asked God to help him get through it. The Lord provided a way. From then on, his faith never wavered.

For this wonderful reason, even though Papa has passed on from this old life, we can say without a shadow of a doubt, this isn’t so much “Goodbye” as it is, “See you soon.” And while “Twas hard to give thee up, thy will o God be done.” So before we leave, I’ll say this: we love you Papa, and we’ll see you again soon.

Eulogy Example for an Aunt

“Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me. I once was lost, but now am found. Was blind, but now I see.”

Amazing Grace was Aunt Faith’s absolute favorite hymn. From the time I was little, I remember her singing it in the kitchen making dinner, or humming it out in the garden. She would even belt it out opera-style while in the shower sometimes… well, she may not have wanted you all to know that part!

I think I had the honor of introducing myself to everyone here earlier, but just in case I missed you, I’m Annie, Faith’s niece. Aunt Faith raised me from the time I was three until I left home. She was more like mom to me than an aunt, and I’ll be forever grateful for the example of Christ’s love that she provided me during my growing up years. I wasn’t the easiest kid sometimes, but her love for me was unconditional and forgiving, just like the love of Someone else we know.

From the time she was 19, she was a licensed cosmetologist, and that was something she was very proud of. I enjoyed it, too, of course! She knew how to create any hairstyle or makeup look you could dream up, which made prom, school dances, and the occasional date night for either of us super fun.

Aunt Faith never married, and for this reason I would sometimes jokingly call her “Aunt Nun.” But to be honest, I was glad that it was just me and her. She was always there for me whenever I needed her, whether I had an issue with a teacher, a friend, a guy, with myself or even her. She was the most non-judgemental person I knew…you could complain about your entire day to her and she wouldn’t berate you for it. She would listen first and then simply remind you, in a way that only she could, to see the bigger picture and to look at things from a different perspective.

Aunt Faith didn’t just say it, she lived it, too. She was a prime example of what it means to show grace and forgiveness, what it means to take the narrow way without so much as a complaint.

She was an active member of her church’s women’s outreach group. Every Christmas she headed our Sunday School’s class’s (and all the other Sunday School classes’) Operation Christmas Child initiative. She sewed and donated lovies to her local children’s hospital, volunteered regularly at her local soup kitchen, and donated regularly to several children’s charities.

All this on top of keeping her community beautiful from the comfort of her salon!

Because of these activities, I grew to understand on a deep level what it means to truly feel empathy and to care for those around you who are less fortunate. I’m forever grateful to her for the experiences she made sure I had.

Three years ago Aunt Faith was diagnosed with breast cancer, the same disease that took my Nana. She was in pain for much of this past year, but even as she digressed in her illness, she spent what energy she had not on herself, but on others. Up until about two months ago, you’d still find her down at the soup kitchen, handing out sandwiches, all while donning her favorite pink bandana and her face still dolled up.

My beautiful aunt passed away on December 8th, just a few weeks shy of her favorite holiday. I’m happy to say that she was still able to enjoy Christmas this year – we just celebrated a bit earlier than usual, with all the usual works. Including our annual “Happy Birthday Jesus” cake… even if she could only eat a bite or two this time.

Before I close, I want to remind you all that it was her wish that you should donate to St. Jude’s in lieu of buying flowers for her grave! Or to any charity of your choice, really…it would make her happy knowing that some good is still being carried out on her behalf.

I also want to take a moment to thank you all for being here today. I can’t tell you how grateful I am for all your messages of love and support over these past several months. All the texts, phone calls, emails, and even old memories and photos shared online, I will keep tucked away in my heart for the rest of my life.

And I want to thank you, too, Aunt Faith, for everything you have given me. You raised me as your own, taught me to be the person I am today. You taught me everything I know. I literally have no idea where I’d be in my life without you, and I hope to one day be able to pay that love forward to someone else who needs it like I did. I love you, I thank you, and I will always cherish your memory.

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Eulogy Example for an Uncle

Proverbs 3:5 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding.” When you’re younger, you know, you think you know what that verse means and what it stands for. It’s not until you’re hit with the reality of death that you come to realize the significance of that verse…and to feel the comfort it offers.

Good morning everyone. My name is Jerry. I’m Lonnie’s nephew. I like to say I’m Lonnie’s favorite nephew, but that’s a given really, since I’m actually his only nephew. (If you can’t already tell, I inherited my uncle’s lame sense of humor).

Truth be told, I didn’t even know myself a lot of what I’m about to share with you about Uncle Lonnie, until after he passed away last week. To me, he was just always Uncle Lonnie, who lived on the ranch, who ran Lon’s Mini Mart his whole life. Who always had and always would. I’m 35 years old and it baffles me how I never even thought to ask him about his life before I was in it. Because as close as we were, I had no idea any of this, no idea of the giant of a man he actually was in life, until my Mom and Aunt Jemmy told me I was gonna be giving the eulogy today. “Uh-oh…” I thought, “I better get to diggin’.”

So as I stand here before you now, I am so proud to share with you all some of the stories about my uncle, the man I called my best friend, but whom I apparently never really knew.

Leonard Roy Davis was born February 3rd, 1950, in Altus, Oklahoma. It wasn’t until his 12th birthday that he asked to be called “Lonnie” rather than Leonard…some kid at his class birthday party had made fun of his name. Long story short, that kid ended up with a bloody nose and Lonnie’s party was cancelled…I think the experience was a little traumatic for him and he hated the name “Leonard” ever since.

As a young man, Lonnie left high school early to join the Army. He enjoyed military life, but he also missed the simplicity of life in his hometown. When Vietnam ended and he got to go home, the first thing he did was propose to his high school sweetheart, Emily. I never had the opportunity to meet Emily because their time together was long before I came around. But according to my mom, Emily was the one who turned Lonnie from a boy into a man. He went from rough around the edges to as gentle as a mourning dove, she said. And when Emily was tragically killed just two years into their marriage, in a car accident just down the road from the ranch, he was never the same.

Uncle Lonnie had always wanted children but knew that he would never have any of his own when Emily died. So when I came around, he was beyond excited. He would watch me, with a little help from Granny, during the evenings back when Mom worked as a nurse. My own dad was no where to be found back then, so Lonnie became sort of a father figure to me. He taught me how to hunt, how to fish, how to change a tire. How to talk to girls in a way that would get them to actually talk back to you! How to drive when I got older. Needless to say, he was the best.

When I was a teenager I became a big trouble-maker and started to hang out with the wrong crowds. When my parents couldn’t get through to me, you could bet Uncle Lonnie could. It wasn’t harsh towards me by any means. But there was something in his voice that made you shut up and listen when he was talking to you. There was something in his voice that made you want to respect him, and not just because you “had” to. I wish more than anything I could here that voice now. It was a voice of thunder but at the same time a voice of comfort, and now that’s he’s gone, if I can be honest with you, I’m feeling a little lost.

If there was a cause in this world that Uncle Lonnie cherished the most, it would be the prevention of animal cruelty. If you’ve ever been in his house, you’d see first thing walking into the den, two stuffed ducks hanging up on the wall. And you may wonder about what I just told you! Well, just believe me when I say that those two ducks were the last animals he ever hunted. There was just something about them, he’d tell me, that made him feel terrible about what he’d done to them. So even though he’d taught me how, he never hunted again, but he kept those two stuffed ducks on the wall, as a reminder I guess of his newfound convictions.

Those ducks are mine now, by the way. And I’m not about to give up hunting anytime soon. Sorry Uncle Lonnie! Not really….

All this to say, I see a lot of flowers up here in the front today. If you sent flowers for Uncle Lonnie, I’m sorry to break it to you…but he wasn’t a big flower guy! I’m just messing. But I will say, if you can find it in your heart to make a donation to your local animal shelter, the ASCPA, or even to PETA (I can’t believe I just said that), I know that would have really put a smile on his face.

Before I step down, I want to thank you all for being here today. I want to thank Mom and Aunt Jemmy for encouraging me to give the eulogy today, because I almost didn’t. And I want to thank my Uncle Lonnie for everything he was and everything he did for me. I wouldn’t be the man I am today without his example, guidance, and commitment to see me through some of the darker points in my life.

Love you, Uncle Lon. And thank you. I’ll see you again one day.

Eulogy Example for a Cousin

Hello everyone.

My name is Denise Johnson. I’m McKayla’s cousin, for those who don’t know who I am. I want to start off by saying thank you to everyone who joined us here today to help us say good-bye to McKayla. It has been the most difficult experience in the world to lose her and I just want to express our appreciation for you being here.

McKayla Jade Brewer was born in Galveston on July 7 th , 2002, right in the middle of summer. Her mom and dad, my Aunt Claudia and Uncle Mark, used to say that she brought summer with her the day she was born, because she brought so much sunshine into their lives. She was an only child, but she never once asked for a brother or sister. When she was little she would say that the fish and dolphins and sea turtles were her brothers and sisters.

McKayla grew up here in Surfside, right on the beach. Maybe to you Surfside isn’t the beautiful, blue-sea experience you might find elsewhere, but the gulf was McKayla’s home and heart and she was so proud of it. Anyone who knew McKayla knew how proud she was to be a “beach girl” through and through.

Do you picture a sweet teen girl having the time of her life in the waves with her best friends on a bright, balmy day? That was McKayla. She was very outgoing and some would even say extroverted, but she was also just the sweetest girl you ever met.

Her best friends since elementary school, Karissa, Alex and Gracie, are here today and can attest to this! Guys, I want you to know that you were McKayla’s world. Each of you gave her so much happiness in her young life, and in return I know that she, with each of you, built memories that will last a lifetime. I want to thank you, Karissa, Alex, and Gracie, for being here today to honor her memory. I know that this is the hardest day ever for you, but the fact that you are here would have meant the world to her.

As she grew older, McKayla took her passion for the ocean to the next level. She participated in A & M Galveston’s Sea Camp for five years in a row. There she got to experience the ocean, her home, hands-on and in a way that she never had before. Aggie Sea Camp ultimately led to her decision to one day become a marine biologist. Quite the career change from wanting to be a professional mermaid!

McKayla cared deeply about our beaches, the ocean, and the creatures that lived in and around it. She was a member of Brazosport High’s Keep It Clean club, which meets twice a month in the spring and fall to pick up litter along the coast. I see several of her Brazosport peers and teachers here today…thank you so much for being here. Just last week I was telling McKayla that I couldn’t believe that she was going to be a senior this year. And now I wish it was the only thing I couldn’t believe.

Looking around I also see several of her co-workers from Kitty’s Purple Cow Cafe. The Purple Cow held a special place in McKayla’s heart; our families were regulars there for many years when we were younger and it was a dream of hers to one day get to work there. So I want to thank you all for granting her that dream last summer and all the memories that went with it.

McKayla often expressed her desire to learn how to surf, and sadly she never got the chance to do that. But I like to think that she’s surfing the waves of heaven’s oceans right now, as I speak. If any of you surf, why don’t you catch a wave one day soon in her memory? I think that would have put a huge smile on her face.

I’m sure that everyone here today has several special memories of McKayla, and I would like to share one of mine. I am older than my beautiful cousin, but for many years our families lived right next door to each other, up until just a few years ago. One day when she was about seven, we were playing in the water and Aunt Claudia had asked me to watch McKayla while she went back to the house to get something. As soon as my aunt was gone, McKayla started screaming, “Shark! Shark! A shark just bit my hand!” I thought I was in big trouble! I ran up to her and tried to look at her hand. She was flapping it back and forth and a little crab flew up in the air and back into the water. She looked at me and I looked at her and we busted out laughing!

It’s precious memories like these that take my breath away. How could someone who was so full of life and love and joy just be taken from us like this, in the blink of an eye? McKayla was only 16 when God took her back to heaven. She missed her 17 th birthday by just four days. It just doesn’t seem fair, does it?

But who are we to question God’s will? They say that He breaks our hearts to prove to us that He only takes the best, and now I believe that with all my heart. McKayla was a beautiful, rare soul that will be forever young and beautiful, and greatly missed.

On behalf of my family, Aunt Claudia and Uncle Mark, her best friends forever Karissa, Alex and Gracie, and everyone who was touched by my cousin’s light, thank you for being here today. I would like to extend a special thanks as well to Martin-Deen Funeral Home for taking care of us this past week, and for helping us to get through today as gently as possible.

Lastly, I want to say thank you, my beautiful cousin McKayla, for all the love and smiles and giggles and memories that you generously gave to each and every one of us. Your life was painfully short, but the memory of you will last a lifetime.

What Do You Say In a Eulogy?

A typical eulogy consists of a introduction of yourself and your relationship to the deceased, followed by a mini chronology of their life: when and where they were born, who they married, their career, when they died.

The speech can include some of your favorite memories of them, as well as special aspects of who they were:

  • What were their greatest accomplishments in life?
  • What were they most proud of?
  • What were some of their favorite hobbies?
  • How did they leave the world a better place?

Remember that your eulogy doesn’t have to be all serious. Feel free to tell funny stories of your loved one or share some of their favorite jokes or sayings. This is a little trick that will not only lighten your mood, but also the mood of your audience. Feel free to add any favorite poems, song lyrics, verses or  other quotes  that you feel are appropriate.

The eulogy usually ends with a special thank-you given to a church, family or close friends, hospice or anyone else who has supported the family or cared for the deceased during the last several days. If you want, it can also include a heartfelt final goodbye to your loved one.

As you are preparing to write a funeral eulogy, it’s important to remember to keep the focus on your loved one who has died.

When writing, it can be easy to veer off topic and onto yourself and how you’re feeling (this is only natural, especially if you are nervous about public speaking).

Of course you should highlight your relationship to the deceased and the impacts they had on your life, but keep in mind who you’re honoring in this special moment: the person who has passed away. Putting the focus off yourself and onto the decedent will also help you calm your nerves.

Related: How to Write a Great Eulogy

Tips for Giving A Eulogy Speech

Besides keeping your mind on the purpose of your funeral speech, here are a few tried-and-true tips for the writing process, as well as the delivery.

Get all your thoughts down on paper.  Collect your own favorite memories of the deceased, as well as memories and stories from family and friends. Get all your dates in order – your loved one’s birthday, date of death, marriage anniversary, date they graduated from college, year they retired, etc. Place your thoughts in the order you want to say them, pick the tone of your eulogy, and write out the rough draft.

Include a personal anecdote. Most people are familiar with the person’s life events. Your unique contribution can help show what kind of person they were by relating one or two fond memories that you shared together.

Choose the right words. Once you’ve written down something of their life story, revise with an eye to selecting the best way to convey what you’re trying to say.

Get input from family and friends.  Chances are, you already know someone who has previously given a good eulogy. Ask for their thoughts on what you’ve written, and what they think you should add (or keep out).

Practice your speech.  Stand in front of a mirror and go over your eulogy a few times. Practicing it will give you the chance to not only pick out any errors you’ve made in your rough draft, but also pinpoint any sensitive spots at which you are likely to become emotional.

Write your final copy.  It’s a good idea to pick a support person and make them a copy of the eulogy, too. This way, if at any time during the eulogy you begin to struggle, they can join you with their copy and help you finish. Also consider making enough copies for everyone who attends the funeral service to take home with them as a memento.

Take deep breaths before you begin, and during the eulogy. On the day of the funeral, remember that everyone is focused on the person who has passed away and how much they miss them. They are not focused on you. Keeping this in mind will help you stay focused if you feel your nerves getting the best of you. When you get to a sensitive spot in your speech at which you know you’ll probably tear up, take some more deep breaths to help clear your mind and heart.

Look to your support person when needed.  If you’ve picked out a support person, have them sit in the front row of the room in which you’ll be speaking. Make sure that you can see them, and that they have a copy of your speech. Make eye contact with them when you need to for encouragement, or just to stabilize your emotions. It may be a good idea to have a secret signal, word or hand gesture that only the two of you know, in case you need them to join you at the mic to help you finish the eulogy.

Related: Eulogy vs Obituary: What’s the Difference?

Consider Help from a Professional Eulogy Writer

Each eulogy sample above was written by Aubrey of Eulogies by Aubrey . If you don’t have the time or simply feel overwhelmed about the eulogy, Aubrey is a terrific writer who is easy to work with.

She has written many articles for this website, as well as many eulogies. She is a wonderful communicator, both in regards to communicating with you to get it just right, and with the words, tone, and phrasing of the final eulogy you’ll receive.

I highly recommend her if you need someone to write the eulogy for you, using your tone and capturing the highlights of your loved one’s life story.

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Daniel Szczesniak

Daniel has been working in the funeral industry since 2010, speaking directly to grieving families as they made funeral arrangements.

He began researching and publishing funeral articles on this website as part of his role as product and marketing manager at Urns Northwest.

Having written hundreds of articles and growing the site to multiple millions of views per year, Daniel continues to write while providing editorial oversight for US Urns Online’s content team.

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10 Powerful Eulogy Examples That Will Inspire and Guide You

Losing a loved one is an incredibly difficult and emotional experience. It’s during these times that the importance of a heartfelt eulogy becomes evident, as it allows us to pay tribute to the person’s life, share fond memories, and provide comfort to family members and friends. A well-crafted eulogy can have a significant emotional impact, helping those in attendance find solace and connection through shared stories and experiences.

At MemoryCherish, we understand the challenges and emotions that come with writing a eulogy , especially when you’re grieving the loss of someone dear to you. That’s why we are here to guide and support you throughout this process, offering valuable insights and examples to help you craft a moving funeral speech that captures the essence of your loved one’s life.

In this article, we will explore 10 powerful eulogy examples that will inspire and guide you in creating a meaningful tribute for your beloved family member or close friend. Whether you’re looking for funeral speech ideas or seeking guidance on how to strike the perfect balance between reminiscing about precious memories and honoring the life of the departed, these examples will provide you with the inspiration you need to express your feelings and pay tribute to the person who meant so much to you.

II. Preparing to Write a Eulogy

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When preparing to write a eulogy , it’s essential to gather your thoughts and memories about your loved one. This process begins by reflecting on the special bond you shared with them. Death is never easy, but through funeral speeches and eulogy examples, we can find solace and pay tribute to the person’s life.

As you embark on this emotional journey, remember that there is no right or wrong way to write a eulogy. Whether you choose to share funny stories or fond memories, the goal is to honor your beloved family member or dear friend. Funeral speech examples can serve as inspiration, but your own memories and personal stories are what truly make a eulogy unique and heartfelt.

Begin by reminiscing about your favorite memories with your loved one, whether it’s a funny story from your childhood or a precious moment shared with your best friend. As you sift through these memories, consider the impact your loved one had on your life and the lives of others. Were they a supportive father or a caring mother? A loyal friend or a cherished sibling?

As you write, strive for a balance between emotions and storytelling. While it’s natural to feel grief and sadness, a eulogy should also celebrate the life and legacy of the departed. Share anecdotes about their achievements, passions, and the qualities that made them special. By recounting these stories, you’ll not only pay tribute to their memory but also provide comfort to family and friends in attendance.

As you work through the writing process, don’t be afraid to lean on others for support. Reach out to close friends or family members who knew the person well and ask them to share their own memories and experiences. These collective stories will help paint a vivid picture of your loved one’s life and provide a solid foundation for your eulogy.

Lastly, remember that your eulogy should be an authentic reflection of your relationship with the deceased. It’s okay if it’s not perfect or polished – the most important thing is to speak from the heart and honor their memory in a way that feels true to you.

In conclusion, preparing to write a eulogy requires time, reflection, and a willingness to embrace both laughter and tears. By gathering thoughts, memories, and stories from your own life and those of others, you can create a heartfelt tribute that honors your loved one’s life and provides comfort to all who hear it.

III. Key Elements of a Powerful Eulogy

A powerful eulogy is not only a tribute to the deceased but also a source of comfort and solace for family and friends. To create a meaningful and heartfelt eulogy, focus on these key elements:

A eulogy should celebrate the person’s life and highlight their unique qualities, accomplishments, and passions. By sharing stories that showcase their character, you’ll help paint a vivid picture of the person they were, allowing those in attendance to remember and cherish the time they spent with them.

Incorporate fond memories and funny stories into your eulogy to bring smiles and laughter to the room. These lighthearted moments provide relief from grief and remind everyone of the joy the deceased brought to their lives. Don’t be afraid to share personal anecdotes – these genuine stories will resonate with others and deepen the emotional connection.

Take the time to express your gratitude and love for the person who has passed away. Share how their presence impacted your life and the lives of others, and acknowledge the lessons they taught you. In doing so, you’ll create a sense of unity and support among those grieving, and show that the deceased’s memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those who loved them.

As you write your eulogy, remember that there is no right or wrong way to honor your loved one. Drawing inspiration from eulogy examples and funeral speeches can help guide your writing process, but ultimately, your own memories and personal stories will make your tribute unique and heartfelt.

In conclusion, a powerful eulogy celebrates the person’s life, shares fond memories and funny stories, and expresses gratitude and love for the departed. By focusing on these key elements and speaking from the heart, you’ll create an emotional connection with your audience and pay a fitting tribute to your loved one. Embrace the informative, persuasive, and empathetic nature of storytelling to honor their memory and provide comfort to those who are grieving.

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IV. Eulogy Example 1: A Tribute to a Dear Friend

Ladies and Gentlemen,

As we gather here today, we are united by the love and the profound sense of loss we all feel for a woman who touched our lives in ways words can hardly express. Darlene was not just a friend; she was a constant source of light and warmth in our lives, a force of nature whose energy and spirit were as boundless as her capacity to love.

Darlene was a woman of many talents and passions, but above all, she was a woman of extraordinary kindness. Born in a small town, she carried that sense of community with her throughout her life. Her heart was her hometown, welcoming and warm, a place where everyone felt loved and accepted.

She was a teacher by profession, but her influence extended far beyond the four walls of a classroom. She didn’t just teach lessons from textbooks, she taught lessons of life. Patience, kindness, empathy, courage – these were the tenets she lived by, and instilled in everyone around her.

Her laughter was a melody that played on even the cloudiest of days, her smile, a beacon that could light up the darkest of nights. She had a zest for life that was infectious, a spirit that was indomitable. She found joy in the simplest things, and in doing so, taught us to appreciate those little moments that make life so beautiful.

Darlene was a friend who was always there, in good times and in bad. She was our rock when we were adrift, our compass when we lost our way. Her friendship was a gift, one that we unwrapped every day, one that brought us immense joy, comfort, and love.

She was an avid gardener, her hands weaving magic into the soil. Her garden was a testament to her belief in growth, change, and the idea that beauty can bloom even from the darkest corners. Just like the flowers in her garden, the seeds of love and kindness she planted in our hearts will continue to grow and bloom.

As we bid farewell to our dear friend Darlene today, let us not lose ourselves in the sorrow of loss, but rather find comfort in the memories we shared, the laughter, the tears, the love. Let us remember her not with sadness, but with the joy she brought into our lives, the lessons she taught us, and the love she shared with us.

Darlene, you were a blessing in our lives, a light that never dimmed. You were a friend who left footprints of love and kindness on our hearts. As we say goodbye, know that your spirit will continue to live on in the garden of our memories, in the bloom of every flower, in the rustle of every leaf.

Rest in peace, dear Darlene. You will be missed, but your spirit, your love, and your light will forever shine bright in our hearts.

V. Eulogy Example 2: Honoring a Parent’s Legacy

As we gather here today, we find ourselves in the midst of an ocean of emotions. It’s not easy to say goodbye, especially to a man like my father, Richard. He was my guiding star, my greatest mentor, and my dearest friend. His passing leaves a profound void, yet his spirit continues to surround and guide us.

My father was a man of humble beginnings, but he was rich in ways that cannot be measured by material possessions. He was rich in wisdom, in kindness, in love. He was the kind of man who knew the value of hard work, the importance of honesty, and the strength of humility. His life was not an easy journey, but it was a journey he embarked on with courage and dignity.

Richard, or Dad as I was blessed to call him, had a heart as vast as the universe. He loved unconditionally, gave generously, and forgave easily. His laughter was the soundtrack of my childhood, his smile, my beacon of hope. He had a way of making the ordinary feel extraordinary, of turning mundane moments into cherished memories.

Dad was an engineer by profession, and he brought that same precision, dedication, and passion to every aspect of his life. But it was his role as a father that truly showcased the depth of his character. He was not just a dad, he was a superhero without a cape, a guiding light without a lantern, a teacher without a classroom.

He taught me the importance of resilience, the power of kindness, and the value of integrity. He taught me to be brave in the face of adversity, to be compassionate in the face of cruelty, to be humble in the face of accolades. He taught me not just how to live, but how to live well, with purpose, with passion, with love.

As I stand here today, I am reminded of his words, “Life is not about the number of breaths we take, but about the moments that take our breath away.” Dad lived his life embracing every moment, cherishing every breath. His legacy is not just in the years he lived, but in the lives he touched, the hearts he warmed, the souls he inspired.

Today, as we bid farewell to my father, I am not saying goodbye. Instead, I am saying thank you. Thank you, Dad, for your unwavering love, your endless patience, your invaluable lessons. Thank you for your laughter, your wisdom, and your guidance. Thank you for being my dad.

Richard, Dad, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your love continues to surround us, your wisdom continues to guide us, and your laughter continues to echo in our hearts. Rest in peace, dear Dad. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

VI. Eulogy Example 3: Remembering a Sibling’s Life

Today, as we stand united in grief and in love, we are here to celebrate the life of Destiny, my sister, my confidante, my lifelong friend. Her departure has left an irreplaceable void, yet her spirit, her laughter, and her memories continue to surround us.

Destiny was a beacon of light in our lives. Her name was not just a moniker, but a testament to the vibrant, inspirational life she led. She was a woman of courage, of compassion, of boundless love. Her spirit was indomitable, her heart, an ocean of kindness.

From our earliest days, Destiny was not just my older sister but my mentor, my guiding light. She was the one who taught me how to tie my shoelaces, the one who comforted me when nightmares kept me awake, the one who stood up for me when bullies tried to tear me down. Her protective nature, her unwavering support, and her unconditional love are the foundation of the unbreakable bond we shared.

Destiny was an artist, her canvas as expansive and as diverse as her spirit. She painted with a passion that was contagious, her artwork a reflection of her soul – bright, beautiful, and brimming with life. Her paintings were not just images, but stories, stories of hope, of love, of dreams. Her art was her voice, her way of touching lives, of making a difference.

Her laughter was infectious, her spirit, unyielding. Destiny faced life’s trials with a courage that was awe-inspiring, and a determination that was unstoppable. She taught me the true meaning of resilience, the power of hope, and the beauty of life.

Destiny was a lover of nature. She found solace in the rustling leaves, joy in the blooming flowers, and inspiration in the setting sun. She believed in the healing power of nature, its ability to comfort, to inspire, to rejuvenate. Her love for nature was not just a passion, but a way of life.

As I stand here today, I am not just mourning the loss of my sister, but celebrating the life she lived, the love she shared, the dreams she chased. Destiny, you were more than a sister, you were a part of me, a part of my life, a part of my soul.

Destiny, you will always be remembered, not just as a sister, but as a beacon of love, of strength, of inspiration. Your spirit will continue to guide us, your memories will continue to comfort us, your love will continue to surround us. Rest in peace, dear sister. You will be missed, but your spirit, your love, and your light will forever shine bright in our hearts.

VII. Eulogy Example 4: Celebrating a Spouse’s Love and Partnership

We are gathered here today in the midst of profound sorrow, but also in heartfelt gratitude and love for a man whose presence in our lives was a blessing, my dear husband, Nick. His departure has left an indelible mark on our hearts, yet his love, his laughter, and his memories continue to comfort us.

Nick was not just my husband, he was my partner, my confidante, my best friend. Our journey together was not just a marriage, it was a beautiful dance of love, respect, and companionship. His love was my sanctuary, his arms, my home, his heart, my haven.

Nick was a man of extraordinary strength, of unwavering courage, of boundless love. He believed in the power of dreams, the strength of kindness, and the beauty of life. His spirit was as vibrant as a summer’s day, his heart as warm as a winter’s fire.

He was a man of many talents, but his greatest talent was his ability to love, to love unconditionally, to love profoundly. He loved with a depth that was awe-inspiring, with a passion that was heartwarming. His love was not just a feeling, but a force, a force that brought joy, comfort, and strength.

Nick had laughter that could light up the darkest of nights, a smile that could brighten the gloomiest of days. His optimism was infectious, his spirit, indomitable. He faced life’s trials with courage, its joys with gratitude, its sorrows with grace.

Nick was a man who loved the sea. He found solace in its vastness, joy in its waves, and inspiration in its depths. He believed in the power of the sea, its ability to heal, to inspire, to rejuvenate. His love for the sea was not just a passion, but a way of life.

Today, as I stand here, I am not just mourning the loss of my husband, but celebrating the love we shared, the life we built, the memories we created. Nick, you were more than a husband, you were my rock, my lighthouse, my compass.

Nick, your physical presence may be absent, but your love continues to surround us, your laughter continues to echo in our hearts, your spirit continues to guide us. Rest in peace, dear Nick. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

VIII. Eulogy Example 5: A Heartfelt Tribute to a Child

Today we gather, our hearts heavy with sorrow, our souls seeking solace, to honor and remember a life that was short in duration but infinite in its impact. A life that was a beacon of light in our world, the life of our beloved Poppy.

Poppy, our little angel, was a burst of sunshine, a spark of joy, a wellspring of love. Her life was a dance of innocence, a symphony of laughter, a canvas of dreams. Her presence was a blessing, her laughter, a melody, her love, a treasure.

From the moment Poppy arrived in our lives, she brought with her a love that was boundless, a joy that was infectious, a spirit that was indomitable. She loved with a purity that was awe-inspiring, she laughed with a joy that was heartwarming, she lived with a zest that was life-affirming.

One of my most treasured memories is of our trips to the park. Poppy would run towards the swings with gleeful abandon, her laughter ringing through the air, her eyes sparkling with joy. Those moments of pure, unadulterated joy, of innocence, of love, are etched in our hearts, a balm to our aching souls.

Poppy was a lover of stories. Every night, we would dive into a world of dragons and princesses, of superheroes and talking animals. Her eyes would light up with wonder, her laughter would fill the room, her dreams would take flight. Those moments of shared stories, of shared dreams, of shared love, are treasures we will forever hold dear.

As a family, we grew, we learned, and we loved, all through the grace of Poppy. She was our teacher, our inspiration, our guiding light. Her innocence taught us the beauty of simplicity, her laughter taught us the joy of living, her love taught us the power of kindness.

Today, as we bid farewell to our beloved Poppy, we are not saying goodbye, but thank you. Thank you for the love, for the laughter, for the lessons. Thank you for the joy, for the memories, for the dreams. Thank you for being our child, for being our joy, for being our love.

Our dear Poppy, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your laughter echoes in our hearts, your love surrounds us, your spirit guides us. You were a blessing in our lives, a gift we will forever cherish, a love we will forever hold dear.

Rest in peace, our dear Poppy. You will always be loved, always be missed, and forever be remembered.

IX. Eulogy Example 6: Commemorating a Colleague or Mentor

Today, we gather not only to mourn, but to celebrate the life of an extraordinary individual, a mentor, a colleague, and a friend, Sharon. Sharon’s physical absence has left a void in our lives, but her spirit, her teachings, and her memories continue to inspire us.

Sharon was a woman of extraordinary intellect, of unwavering dedication, and of boundless kindness. She was not just a colleague, she was a mentor, a guiding light. Her work was not just a job, it was a passion, a mission, a calling.

Sharon’s professional accomplishments were as vast as they were impressive. She was a visionary, a trailblazer, a leader. Under her guidance, our team overcame challenges and reached heights we could only dream of. Her strategies were innovative, her decisions, insightful, her leadership, inspirational.

I remember a time when we were facing a particularly challenging project. The deadline was tight, the stakes were high, and the pressure was immense. But Sharon, with her characteristic calm and determination, led us through. She worked tirelessly, inspired us with her dedication, and encouraged us with her positivity. It was her leadership that brought us to success, her strength that kept us going, her spirit that made us believe.

But Sharon was more than just her professional achievements. She was a woman of deep compassion, of genuine kindness, of profound wisdom. Her office door was always open, her heart always ready to listen, to understand, to help. She had a knack for making you feel heard, for making you feel valued, for making you feel important.

Sharon was also a lover of books. She believed in the power of words, the magic of stories, the wisdom of lessons. She often said, “Books are not just pages filled with words, they are mirrors reflecting life, windows opening to the world, doors leading to wisdom.” Her love for books was not just a hobby, it was a way of life.

As we bid farewell to Sharon today, we are not just saying goodbye, but thank you. Thank you, Sharon, for your guidance, for your support, for your wisdom. Thank you for the lessons, for the memories, for the inspiration. Thank you for being our mentor, our colleague, our friend.

Sharon, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your teachings continue to guide us, your memories continue to inspire us, your legacy continues to shine. Rest in peace, dear Sharon. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be treasured. Your spirit, your wisdom, and your love will forever shine in our hearts.

X. Eulogy Example 7: Paying Homage to a Community Member

We stand here today to honor the life and legacy of a man who was not just a member of our community, but its backbone, its heart, its soul. Today, we remember Will, a man who dedicated his life to the service of others, who believed in the power of community, and whose impact will forever be etched in our hearts.

Will was a man of extraordinary generosity, of unwavering dedication, and of boundless compassion. He believed in the strength of unity, the power of kindness, and the beauty of community. His life was a testament to his values, his actions, a reflection of his heart, his legacy, a tribute to his spirit.

Will was the driving force behind our community center. I remember when it was just an idea, a dream, a vision. But Will, with his determination and hard work, turned that vision into a reality. Today, the community center stands as a testament to Will’s dedication, a beacon of hope and unity, a symbol of our community’s strength and resilience.

I remember the joy on Will’s face during the annual community festival. His laughter echoed through the air, his spirit contagious, his joy palpable. He would organize games for the children, cook for the community, and bring everyone together with his stories and songs. Those moments of shared joy, of unity, of community, are treasures we will forever hold dear.

Will’s contributions extended beyond the community center. He was always there to lend a helping hand, to offer a comforting word, to share a hearty laugh. Whether it was helping a neighbor with their garden, teaching the children how to fish, or simply sharing a cup of coffee and a good conversation, Will’s presence was a source of comfort and joy.

Today, as we bid farewell to Will, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his legacy, his impact. We are celebrating a man who was a pillar of our community, a beacon of hope, a symbol of unity.

Will, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your legacy continues to inspire us, your memories continue to comfort us, your love continues to unite us. Rest in peace, dear Will. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished.

XI. Eulogy Example 8: Cherishing the Memory of a Distant Relative

In the tapestry of family, every thread is vital, each color and texture essential in creating a beautiful whole. Today, we gather to honor the memory of a cherished thread in our own family tapestry, our beloved Betty.

Betty, though distant in relation, was close in heart. Her life was a beautiful melody in our family symphony, her presence, a radiant color in our family portrait. She was a woman of remarkable strength, unwavering resilience, and infinite kindness. Her stories were our history, her experiences, our heritage, her legacy, our treasure.

Betty was the keeper of our family stories. I remember how as children we would gather around her, our eyes wide with anticipation, our hearts eager for adventure, as she took us on journeys through the annals of our family history. From tales of ancestors who crossed vast oceans for a better life, to stories of our great-grandparents who built the foundations of our family with their bare hands. Those stories, told in her warm, soothing voice, connected us to our roots, our past, our heritage.

I remember Betty’s annual visits during the summer holidays. Despite the distance that separated us, she would make the journey, her face lighting up with joy as she embraced each one of us. Those summer days spent with Betty are filled with memories of laughter, stories, and the sense of belonging that comes from being part of a family.

Betty also loved nature. She had a garden filled with the most beautiful flowers you could ever imagine. Each petal, each leaf, each bud, was tended to with love and care. She often said, “Gardens are like families. Each plant is unique, each has its place, each contributes to the beauty of the whole.” Her garden was not just a hobby, it was a reflection of her philosophy of life, of family, of love.

As we bid farewell to Betty today, we are not just mourning her absence, but celebrating her life, her legacy, her impact. We are celebrating a woman who was a vital thread in our family tapestry, a cherished note in our family symphony, a vibrant color in our family portrait.

Betty, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your stories continue to connect us, your memories continue to comfort us, your love continues to unite us. Rest in peace, dear Betty. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished. Your spirit, your love, and your legacy will forever shine in our hearts.

XII. Eulogy Example 9: A Touching Tribute to a Beloved Pet

Today, we gather to celebrate not just a pet, but a friend, a companion, a family member. Today, we remember and honor our beloved Pluto.

In the grand tapestry of life, some threads shine brighter than others, some touch our hearts more deeply, and Pluto was one such irreplaceable thread in our lives. He was not just a dog, but a beacon of unconditional love, a source of joy, a companion in life’s journey. His loyalty was unwavering, his love, boundless, his spirit, indomitable.

Pluto came into our lives as a tiny bundle of joy, his eyes sparkling with mischief, his tail wagging with excitement. From that moment, he became a part of our family, his laughter our melody, his love our treasure, his presence our blessing.

I remember our walks in the park, Pluto running ahead, his tail wagging, his eyes full of joy. He would chase after squirrels, jump into piles of leaves, and then look back at us, his eyes twinkling with mischief, his joy contagious. Those moments of shared joy, of shared adventures, of shared love, are memories we will forever cherish.

Pluto was also a great comforter. On days when life seemed overwhelming, when the weight of the world seemed too much to bear, he would sit by our side, his head on our lap, his eyes filled with empathy. His presence was a balm to our weary hearts, his love a salve to our aching souls.

As we bid farewell to Pluto today, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his love, his spirit. We are celebrating a companion who was a source of unconditional love, a friend who was a beacon of joy, a family member who was a pillar of strength.

Pluto, your physical presence may be absent, but your spirit lives on. Your laughter continues to echo in our hearts, your love continues to surround us, your spirit continues to guide us. Rest in peace, dear Pluto. You will always be remembered, always be missed, and forever be cherished.

XIII. Eulogy Example 10: Honoring a Life Cut Short

We gather here today to remember, to mourn, and to celebrate the life of Bruce, a life that was cut tragically short, but a life that was lived to the absolute fullest.

Bruce was a man who embraced life with open arms, who drank deeply from the cup of experience, who believed in making each moment count. His life was not a slow march, but a spirited dance, a vibrant symphony, a beautiful tapestry of vivid colors and rich textures.

Bruce had an insatiable curiosity about the world around him. His quest for knowledge was unending, his thirst for understanding, unquenchable. He was a voracious reader, a keen observer, a thoughtful questioner. He believed that every day was a chance to learn, to grow, to evolve. His mind was not just a repository of knowledge, but a fertile field of ideas, a wellspring of wisdom, a beacon of enlightenment.

I remember one summer, Bruce decided to learn how to play the guitar. He practiced day and night, his fingers strumming the strings, his voice humming the tunes. Within a few weeks, he was not just playing the guitar, he was creating music. His melodies were not just notes, but stories, emotions, expressions. His music was not just a hobby, it was a passion, a form of self-expression, a celebration of life.

Bruce also had a deep love for nature. He often said, “Nature is the greatest teacher. It teaches us about life, about resilience, about beauty.” He would spend hours in the woods, exploring the trails, admiring the flora, observing the fauna. His love for nature was not just a pastime, it was a philosophy, a way of life.

But what made Bruce truly extraordinary was his indomitable spirit, his unyielding courage, his unflagging optimism. Even in the face of adversity, he remained hopeful, resilient, positive. His spirit was not just an inspiration, it was a force, a beacon, a guiding light.

As we bid farewell to Bruce today, we are not just mourning his absence, but celebrating his life, his spirit, his legacy. We are celebrating a life that was lived to the fullest, a spirit that was indomitable, a legacy that is timeless.

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XIV. Tips for Delivering a Powerful Eulogy

Delivering a powerful eulogy requires more than just well-written words; it also involves speaking from the heart, managing emotions, and engaging the audience with storytelling. Here are some tips to help you deliver a heartfelt and memorable tribute:

When delivering a eulogy, it’s essential to speak from the heart. This means being genuine, sincere, and authentic in your words and emotions. Share personal stories and memories that have meaning to you and the deceased, as this will create a strong emotional connection with your audience.

It’s natural to feel a mix of emotions when giving a eulogy. While it’s important to express your grief, try to maintain a balance between sadness and celebration. Remember that you’re there to pay tribute to your loved one’s life, so focus on the positive aspects of their life and the impact they had on others. If you find yourself getting too emotional, take a moment to pause, breathe, and regain your composure

before continuing.

To engage your audience, use vivid descriptions and anecdotes that paint a clear picture of the person’s life. This not only helps those listening to visualize the stories you’re sharing but also makes the eulogy more memorable and relatable. Whether you’re recounting a funny story or a precious memory, make sure to use descriptive language and details that capture the essence of the moment.

As you prepare to deliver your eulogy, remember that there’s no right or wrong way to honor your loved one. Drawing inspiration from funeral speeches and eulogy examples can help guide your approach, but ultimately, your own memories and experiences will make your tribute unique and heartfelt.

In conclusion, delivering a powerful eulogy involves speaking from the heart, managing emotions, and engaging the audience through storytelling. By focusing on these elements and using a style that is informative, persuasive, and empathetic, you’ll create a lasting tribute that honors your loved one’s life and provides comfort to those who are grieving.

A heartfelt eulogy leaves a lasting impact on everyone who hears it, providing comfort and healing during a difficult time. By sharing fond memories, personal stories, and celebrating the life of your loved one, you create a powerful tribute that honors their memory and helps those who are grieving find solace.

As you contemplate honoring your loved one’s memory, consider seeking guidance from MemoryCherish’s eulogy writing service. Our team of skilled writers is experienced in crafting eulogies that capture the essence of the person’s life, drawing inspiration from funeral speech examples while incorporating your own memories and experiences to create a unique and meaningful tribute.

At MemoryCherish, we understand the emotional weight of losing a loved one and the challenge of finding the right words to express your feelings. Our goal is to support you during this emotional journey and help you create a lasting tribute that resonates with your audience and keeps your loved one’s spirit alive.

In conclusion, a heartfelt eulogy has a lasting impact on all who hear it, providing comfort and solace in times of grief. As you honor your loved one’s memory, remember to speak from the heart, share personal stories, and celebrate their life. Let MemoryCherish’s eulogy writing service support you during this emotional journey, as we work together to craft a powerful tribute that honors the life and legacy of your loved one.

To start a short eulogy, begin with a brief introduction of yourself and your relationship to the deceased. Then, express gratitude to the attendees for coming together to celebrate the person’s life.

A good sentence for a eulogy could be: “Today, we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Name], who touched the hearts of everyone they encountered with their kindness, humor, and unwavering dedication to their loved ones.”

An example of starting a eulogy could be: “Good morning/afternoon, my name is [Your Name], and I am [Name]’s [relationship to the deceased, e.g., sister, friend, etc.]. I stand before you today to share some fond memories and pay tribute to our beloved [relationship to the deceased].”

A beautiful eulogy is heartfelt, genuine, and focuses on the person’s life, their special bond with friends and family, and the impact they had on others. It includes personal stories, favorite memories, and acknowledges the emotions felt by those mourning the loss

The final sentences for a eulogy could be: “As we say our goodbyes to [Name] today, let us remember the love, laughter, and precious moments we shared together. May their memory live on in our hearts forever, and may we find solace in knowing that they are now at peace.”

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Funeral Speech Examples: Saying Goodbye With Love

Funeral speech examples

A funeral speech or eulogy remembers a loved one by reminding other mourners of their good qualities and their impact on the lives of all in attendance. The content of a eulogy should be positive and uplifting as the speaker offers a final goodbye.

Although most of us will never be professionals at public speaking,  many of us will someday have to speak to a relatively large group of people as we deliver a eulogy for a loved one.  Knowing how to put together a touching eulogy speech that accurately encompasses the deceased’s life is an art form anyone can accomplish by following a few easy steps.

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What Should You Say At A Funeral When You Give The Eulogy?

When giving a funeral eulogy , one can approach it in many ways. Most eulogies happen at the funeral home, at a memorial service, during a church service, or at a celebration of life. The circumstance and location of the eulogy will sometimes help shape the type of speech you will give.

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What Are Some Tips For Giving A Good Funeral Speech?

Preparing the eulogy involves gathering memories, writing them down, and practicing, especially if you feel you might become emotional.

There are seven steps to writing a good eulogy, or tribute speech to the deceased.

  • Speak to friends and family members of the deceased.  Even though you are a close family friend, many others who knew the deceased well might have stories and insights to contribute. Meet people for coffee or make some phone calls so you can gather stories to help you prepare your eulogy.
  • Choose a theme and tone.  Ask yourself what type of stories would best and most accurately depict your best friend and loved one. A funny eulogy would be perfect if they were the kind of person who always had people laughing. However, a more reserved memorial might be more appropriate for some people. The most important thing is that you speak from the heart.
  • Consider the audience and location.  If you are invited to give a eulogy as part of a church funeral service, the tone may be very different than if you are speaking at a celebration of life at a local bar.
  • Introduce yourself as you speak.  This will help everyone there to know why you are speaking by defining your relationship with the deceased and the family. Someone who has been lifelong friends with someone can speak to many aspects of their life, for example.
  • Give some information about the deceased.  Stories and memories can get the point across. Just be certain not to say anything that might be hurtful or embarrass the family. The eulogy is not the place for dirty laundry.
  • Connect all of the information.  Whether you are speaking in a theme or just bringing the stories full circle to explain what kind of person the deceased was, this is important to helping to wrap things up.
  • Conclude the speech.  You may end your eulogy simply by stating that you are honored to have been given the opportunity to speak or by adding a funeral quote about loss or grief.

What Words Can You Use In A Funeral Speech?

  • Anecdotes  from the person’s life are always fun because all of our lives are comprised of a million little things that have happened to us. These help paint a picture of who we are.
  • Excerpts from books  are often included as a means of making a particular point.
  • Favorite memories  should be shared as long as others assembled will find them relatable. Avoid stories that are too personal or where others will feel alienated when listening.
  • Funny stories  are excellent, especially if the deceased had an exceptional sense of humor.
  • Poems  are a beautiful way to remember a lost loved one, and they uniquely offer comfort.
  • Quotes  or  song lyrics  are a beautiful way to either start or end a eulogy. Another lovely idea is to end with a quote from a song and then have the music played. It allows for a touching transition.

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What Are Some Good Topics To Talk About At A Funeral?

Reminiscing with the audience about the deceased can start out in many ways. Sometimes people start with the  first time they met someone.  Of course, there are  many firsts in a person’s life.  It could be the first time close friends went fishing together, and it ended in a tipped boat. Telling funny stories can help people cope during difficult times.

If you use the deceased person’s  nickname , explain where it came from or why it stuck.

For someone loved by all, it may be appropriate to start the eulogy with “dear friends.” After all, what better way to pull in everyone listening than to acknowledge that the deceased was a friend to all?

Choosing memories or stories from when the deceased was a little girl or boy, to high school stories, to college to adulthood is an excellent way to provide a  chronological life timeline.  Some eulogy templates follow this method.

Other sample eulogies follow the  three-story process.  In this one, the person giving the eulogy chooses three stories that can be connected in some way to help illustrate a life well lived.

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Short Eulogy Examples

Sometimes a short and sweet eulogy is best because you worry about keeping your composure when speaking. Also, many people give short stories or memories at some celebration of life events. Whatever the reason you are leaning toward a short eulogy speech, you can say a lot in very few words.

For a Friend:  “Starting on that first day of high school when I could not get my locker open, and Amanda helped me, making us both late for class, I knew I had a friend for life. As I spoke to people about Amanda, I heard over and over that she gave often and selflessly. She will be terribly missed, and the world is a darker place without her.”

For an Older Brother:  “My brother was my first best friend, and I simply can’t imagine life without him in it. He was my protector and my confidant. My fishing buddy and my personal cheerleader. He pushed me to be the best version of myself, and I am struggling to imagine a life without him in it. I love you, Matt.”

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For a Co-Worker:  “Having worked with Art for over 20 years, I can attest, he was a staunch perfectionist who helped us all to be better in the workplace and in life. Art led by example, worked hard to lead our team and also reminded us of the importance of keeping work and home life balance. Art was the best boss I have ever had, and although eventually, someone will have to sit at his desk, no one will ever take his place.”

What Are Some Examples Of Funeral Speeches?

When seeking eulogy examples, why not read (or watch) what are arguably five of the best eulogies ever?

  • Barack Obama’s Eulogy Speech for John McCain
  • Oprah Winfrey’s Eulogy for Rosa Parks
  • Ronald Regan Gives Impromptu Eulogy for Space Shuttle Challenger
  • Ted Kennedy’s Tribute Speech to his nephew John F Kennedy, Jr.
  • Mickey Mantle’s Eulogy Delivered by Bob Costas

A former English teacher and currently an elementary principal in a rural school, Pam has honed her speaking skills in the classroom and before professional groups. Pam enjoys sharing her insights about public speaking almost as much as she enjoys running, which she does daily.

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 - 2 funeral speeches to help you write.

By:  Susan Dugdale  | Last updated: 12-15-2021

Reading a sample eulogy can really help when you're facing the task of preparing a funeral speech for someone you love.

I understand.

The tyranny of a blank sheet paper and a numbed mind yoked together by the desire to 'get it right' is the perfect recipe for confusion. You start - you stop. You write - then you cross out what you've written.  I've been there too.

It's my hope that the eulogy samples here will step you over the threshold of 'shall I say this, or shall I say that' and let you begin.

Image: rosemary, the herb of remembrance. Text: 2 eulogy examples -write-out-loud.com. Rosemary the herb of remembrance.

You'll see that there are no definitive right or wrong ways to honor a life. Yes, there are guidelines or suggestions about  how to write a eulogy * ,  what to put in and what to leave out, but ultimately, the choice is yours.

* If you want to see the suggestions I put together after getting through the anxiety of indecision, click the link. I've also added a free printable eulogy planning template to that page because I know how time consuming and ghastly struggling to write can be!  

These funeral speeches were written for an elderly neighbor and my sister. You are most welcome to use them as spring-boards for the speech you need to write.

Although they are very different in style, both are personal tributes marking characteristics I valued and loved.

Sample Eulogy One: Eulogy for Malcolm

Background notes:.

Malcolm and his wife, Margaret 'retired' into our neighborhood. Both were extremely quiet people who spent most of their time making their house and garden beautiful.

Malcolm was a little man physically but large in generosity. He had been a hard working builder, the ultimate 'do-it-yourself'  guy. Over the years he transformed their little patch and we spent many happy times swapping gardening hints and plant cuttings.

Malcolm's service respected his wishes. It was simple and non-religious.

The text of the eulogy I wrote for Malcolm

We heard Malcolm before we met him. And that was an irony as we later found out.

He and Margaret had scarcely moved into our street before the concrete mixer started growling. It rumbled and roared for weeks on end as Malcolm transformed his back yard into what would become a showcase for his flowers and vegetables.

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Our cat EVEREADY engineered the introduction bringing us together. She was small, black, full of energy, had at least nine lives, we thought, and was ever-ready for a feed or a cuddle.

During that time there was no-one at home through the day and EVEREADY roamed. She inevitably found Malcolm and Margaret. It was true love. She had a second home and was utterly spoiled. There were special treats of milk and more. They called her ‘our little girl’ and I got regular updates of her daily adventures.

When she became ill, and it was apparent she'd run out of lives, it was Malcolm and Margaret who accompanied me to the vet for her final visit.

Aside from loving our cat, I also discovered we had something else in common.

Malcolm loved plants and in particular flowers. He spent his day light hours fussing over them outside and then his nights, embroidering them inside.

His hands, so capable with a concrete mixer or a shovel, could also turn out fine needlework. I have several of his cross stitched treasures.

To me they represent his patience, perseverance and quiet endurance. Toward the end, even in severe pain, he worked on creating these little beauties.

Malcolm called me the Flower–Fairy, a name given because when I went past their letterbox for my evening walk I often dropped in a flower from what ever was blooming in my garden.

In return I now call him the Flower–Elf. I know I won’t sit down to embroider as he did so instead I offer up a thought posy.

Here’s rosemary sweet and aromatic for remembrance. A snip of pale pink rosebuds for friendship A collection of pansies for loving thoughts Some larkspur signifying a beautiful spirit

And lastly because, I know you’ll remember the alstroemeria (Peruvian lily) I gave you: how it invaded your garden and how hard you worked to get rid of it, some of that too. It stands for ‘aspiring’ and I know it will make you smile.

Thank-you Malcolm for your gentle love, friendship and kindness. We will remember you.

Sample Eulogy Two: For my sister  Elizabeth

Background notes to this eulogy:.

Rather than write a formal 'sentence by sentence' eulogy, I chose to take 'snapshots' of our childhood featuring the two of us.

Despite the eulogy being segmented it does have a three-part structure. It opens with her birth and the qualities she brought with her. The middle section is devoted to she and me. The ending returns to the start with a summary of her qualities. The repetition of her name throughout was to reinforce her being made up of many individual parts even though all of them were called 'Elizabeth'.

I've asterisked parts of this sample eulogy that you may need further explanation for in order to understand them.

Eulogy for Elizabeth

E lizabeth: an enormous capacity and will to live. Our mother spent many of the months carrying her in bed in order that she stayed put and grew. Even so she was impatient and arrived early.

Elizabeth: 'Mrs Me Too'. I did the talking. She simply said ‘Me too.’

Elizabeth: a whirl of arms and legs, turning cartwheels on the lawn with her skirt tucked into her knickers.

Elizabeth:  determined to be a marching girl and practicing up and down the path to the clothesline.

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Elizabeth and I having been to see the movie * South Pacific singing to the garden under the kitchen window. We snapped our fingers in time and danced: ‘Walky, Walky Talky Hollyhocks, Talk about things you like to do…’

Elizabeth and I having elaborate doll’s tea parties under the buddlia trees. Their perfume still reminds me. We gave the dolls pink nail polish fingers and toes. A moment of inspiration later they had splendid sets of nipples too.

Elizabeth and I wearing hand knitted pale blue fluffy boleros and the other kids picking at the fluff.

Elizabeth and I in our * ‘show’ dresses. Hers was white with red spots. When it rained the dye ran red down her bare legs. She cried but later won a kewpie doll on a stick which brought back a smile.

Elizabeth and I playing music. She on the piano and me on the violin. Bach's Minuet in G getting faster and faster until the notes slid into each other and our Mother shouted for peace.

Elizabeth trying to teach me to do a handstand and I kept falling over.

Elizabeth: a tumult of passions, sensitivities, hopes, fears and abilities. The qualities I know to be true, despite the numbing rumble of daily life, were her deep desire to understand, her striving for peace, love and to honor and use her abilities creatively.

Elizabeth was and is a highly intelligent, articulate, courageous and adventurous woman. I loved her.

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* South Pacific : The song was actually Happy Talk . The original lyric was ' Happy talk, keep talkin' happy talk, Talk about things you'd like to do '.

At eight and ten years old, Elizabeth and I heard it differently and there were hollyhocks flowering in our garden under the kitchen window. Naturally we sang our song to them. I remember hearing our mother and father laughing, and then seeing them both peep, smiling, through the window at the pair of us. Our duet became part of family history.

* 'show' dresses.  We lived in a rural area. Each spring there was a huge agricultural show and everybody went. In those days, (1960's) girls got new dresses for the occasion usually sewn by their mothers.

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Eulogy Examples: How to Write a Eulogy for a Loved One

By Bernie Flowers

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How do you distill a lifetime of memories and experiences into a 15-minute eulogy? It’s an honor to hold the responsibility of eulogizing your loved one, but it can feel like a challenge to fit everything you want to say in one speech.

Instead of making the funeral attendees feel like they are reading an encyclopedia from cover-to-cover, look for ways to highlight the rich life experiences that matter most. A eulogy should be a sampling of the best the person had to offer including accomplishments, personality traits, and memorable stories.

When it comes to eulogy writing, you can search online for ideas and examples. But the most important thing you need to keep in mind: quality over quantity .

All this being said, we would advise having a professional write your Eulogy for you and you can avail of our Eulogy Writing Concierge Service

What is a Eulogy?

Giving a eulogy means that you are sharing a remembrance speech with the purpose of paying tribute to a loved one. This speech is given at the funeral or memorial service by a family member or close friend.

A good eulogy highlights the lasting impact of the person on their family and community. Through your speech, you’ll have an opportunity to share their unique qualities, as well as the ripple effect of positivity and change they created in the world around them.

How can you best honor  your loved one? A eulogy can be a part of your healing, and a beautiful way to reflect on the details that were most special about them.

Eulogy Examples

One of the simplest ways to write a eulogy is to review a eulogy speech example that matches your own preferred tone and style. What makes a eulogy unique is the unique details you’ll share about the person themselves, which is why it’s essential to customize your eulogy to honor and celebrate the personality of your loved one.

You may want to start with our primer on how to write a eulogy . Then, use the following outline and eulogy examples to create a strong speech  that communicates the message you want to share about the person who meant so much to you.

Eulogy Sample Outline

Using a eulogy sample outline is a proven way to create a great speech. Remember those Mad Libs books from your childhood? This process is similar: follow the outline and plug in the personal details applicable to your loved one. 

These eulogy samples help you overcome writer's block and keep you focused on the details that matter most. Aim to cap the eulogy at a maximum of 10 minutes total. The simplest eulogy outline can be broken down into three parts, so you’ll need to consider how much time to spend on each section:

  • Set the tone by beginning with a poem, quote, or scripture that was meaningful to the person.
  • Names they were known by, including nicknames and maiden names.
  • Cause of death (an optional detail).
  • A brief insight into your relationship with the individual.
  • Accomplishments
  • Major life events
  • Stories or fond memories
  • How the person affected others
  • Childhood years
  • Travel adventures
  • Marriage and children
  • Any other thoughts you want to share about the person
  • A final take away from your theme
  • How you want family and friends to remember the individual
  • What the person would want you to remember them for
  • Quote, scripture, or song lyric
  • Thank attendees for participating

Eulogy Examples for a Friend

It can be helpful to write this eulogy as if you were talking to a friend. Common talking points might include:

  • Common activities enjoyed together
  • What you like most about the person
  • Personality traits or phrases they often use
  • How you would describe the person
  • What will you remember them by?

Here is a eulogy example for a friend:

I can’t imagine how empty it will feel to spend time on the basketball court without Jim by my side. Our relationship was built with a basketball in hand, and evolved to share many family gatherings and other activities together over the years. With his passing, Jim is leaving behind a legacy of kindness, compassion, and generosity.

Jim shared good humor and a big smile with everyone he met. Even though people often cursed at his practical jokes, he was an integral part of creating a solid foundation of friendship in our group. When times were difficult, he could always put a smile on my face. He held his head high until the end, showing what it looks like to finish strong.

Eulogy Examples for Your Father

Writing a eulogy for your dad may be really tough. How do you memorialize your hero amid grief and emotion? We hope these tips and the example below will help you in your process. 

  • Share childhood experiences when spending time with dad
  • Talk about his best qualities
  • Capture his essence through “dad jokes” and the things that made you laugh
  • Tell about the things you will miss most about him
  • Describe his role in your upbringing

Here is a eulogy example for your father:

My dad was my hero. He could make every person feel like they were the most important person in the world. Growing up, I knew that I could always ask Dad for help – and he would be willing to drop anything to lend a hand. He was a rock of stability in my childhood and a source of strength for our whole family.

My father was a man who infused fun into the most mundane tasks. I remember how he would turn our bedtime routine into an adventure that included highlights from our favorite storybooks. He was a kind and thoughtful person. Every night at the dinner table, he encouraged us to talk about the things we were grateful for, and always had yummy treats for us kids hidden in the back of the pantry. I will miss you, Dad, and I’ll always hold onto the amazing memories we shared together.

Eulogy Examples for Your Mother

How can you ever do justice to a eulogy for your beloved mother – the woman who was always there with love and guidance through the ups and downs, the celebrations and challenging moments of your life? Here are a few tips for writing a eulogy for your mother:

  • Describe the way she showed her love for you
  • Celebrate the small ways she turned your house into a home
  • Highlight the impact she made throughout the community
  • Explain the smells, sounds, and feelings you felt when arriving home
  • Share stories from childhood and adulthood that reflect her character

Here is a eulogy example for your mother:

Today we are honoring, celebrating, and remembering {mom’s full name]. She was a woman of grace and courage, with a stubborn streak that showed up when she set her mind to something, like going back to school to become a nurse at age 40. 

My mother was truly my best friend and I am humbled by the challenge of describing the fullness of her beauty and caring here today. I don't know how she did it, but Mom always found the perfect balance between work and home. Even though she worked 40 – 50 hours a week to support us, she prioritized family dinner. That time was sacred to our family. Her love and kindness were infused in everything she did, whether she was baking cookies for a bake sale to help the hospital or sewing our Halloween costumes by hand year after year. 

She had a magical way of bringing joy every time she walked into the room. No one who met her could forget her smile. And I’ll never forget the advice and the lessons she taught me. Her wisdom will forever guide the decisions I make through the rest of my life. I love you, Mom.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandmother

How do you share the details about the love you felt through your relationship with a grandmother? Follow these tips to write a good eulogy for this important woman:

  • Talk about the fun traditions she brought for your favorite holiday
  • What was she known for in the community?
  • How did her influence touch your life?
  • What are the daily moments that will remind you of her?
  • Share funny stories that showcase her quirks or sense of humor

Here is a eulogy example for your grandmother:

My grandmother paid attention to the details – it was the little things that added the finishing touch to every experience. Whether she was setting out the treat jar on the kitchen table or clinking the glass while drinking her iced tea, she always prioritized food and drinks.

Since she loved to shop, grandma would often take us to the mall when we were visiting for the weekend. We would have fashion shows in the dressing rooms and often come home with bright, frilly dresses that were perfect for twirling.

When grandpa was away for the war, grandma was an example of always getting back up again when things get hard. She never complained; just worked hard and supported her family at all times. Despite the personal challenges, she always looked outside of herself – which is why she will be remembered as a beacon of light in this community.

Eulogy Examples for Your Grandfather

What are the details that make your grandfather larger than life? Here are a few ideas to help when writing a eulogy for this great man:

  • Explain the qualities that best describe his personality
  • Tell about the details that made him stand out from other grandparents
  • What hobbies or passions did he share with the family?
  • How will the neighborhood or community remember him?
  • Talk about stories that were life-changing moments for him

Here is a eulogy example for your grandfather:

Even though my grandfather didn’t like to be the center of attention, he had an undeniable impact on the community. If he was here with us today, he wouldn’t want us to share grief and sorrow. Instead, his desire would be to focus on the happy memories and joyful experiences shared over the years.

Grandpa was a man who set a lasting impression on everyone he met. His deep laugh and kind eyes warmed the room and brought life into the most boring daily activities. Grandpa loved spending time with his grandkids because he said that it made him feel young at heart.

He was a great teacher and a dependable friend. His advice and guidance will continue to carry me through the joys and challenges that life has to offer.

Eulogy Examples for Your Brother

Siblings share a special bond, giving you deep insights to share about your brother. Follow these tips for writing a good eulogy:

  • What was it like growing up in the same house together?
  • Describe the way your relationship changed in adulthood
  • Share funny stories about sibling rivalries
  • Explain the lasting impact he left on you and the family
  • List his favorite hobbies and food

Here is a eulogy example for your brother:

While it’s tragic to think about Kyle leaving us too soon, he left behind a lifetime of memories that we can celebrate. Kyle was always ready for a fun day with friends – he would have been the one showing up today with the perfect playlist for the event.

Even though my brother was a few years older than me, he always included me in the adventures with his friends. I never felt like the little brother he was dragging along. He made me feel special and included in the group, and helped me build confidence along the way.

Kyle was my best friend and I can’t imagine what life is going to be like without him sending me funny cat memes every night. But I know that his memory will live on when I eat his favorite pizza or hear his favorite band on the radio.

Eulogy Examples for Your Sister

If you’ve lost a sibling, we are truly sorry, Writing a eulogy for your sister can be a way to honor her through your memories of your childhood and growing up with her, as well as the milestones of her life. A few ideas for this eulogy include:

  • Share her notable life accomplishments
  • Retell your favorite stories from growing up together
  • Highlight the kind of person she was
  • Summarize your relationship in a few short words
  • Talk about what she meant to you and how she influenced your life

Here is a eulogy example for your sister:

My sister, Kim, might have been a little shy at the first introduction. But once she warmed up to a friendship, she always had plenty to say every time she talked. Kim loved to share stories from her time volunteering at the children’s hospital and she had a beautiful gift of making everyone feel like the most important person in the world.

We were only a year apart, which meant that I was the younger sister who was often stealing her clothes or listening in on her conversations with her boyfriend. Even though I was the pesky sibling who cracked jokes about her unique style, she was everything I wanted to be when I grew up. She was independent, strong, and beautiful. She was a free spirit who wasn’t afraid to act boldly, like moving to Paris after college and starting her own business. She was my partner in crime, and I could always tell her everything. She will never be replaced. . My dear sister, I love you and I will be forever grateful for every moment we spent together.

Short Eulogy Examples

Short and sweet is a good rule of thumb to follow when writing a eulogy. Consider these important talking points if you want to write a short eulogy:

  • Highlight the person’s passions or interests
  • What were the most memorable times you spent together?
  • Sum up the person’s character using a story or memory
  • Express your gratitude for the impact the person had on your life
  • Talk about their influence on family and community

Here is a short eulogy example:

The years I spent with Kathy in my life were filled with excitement and adventure. She showed up for life in the biggest way possible. From the moment she shared her cookie with me on the first day of kindergarten, I knew we would be best friends.

She spent many years working as a teacher, and her heart was big enough to offer individual attention to every child that walked into her classroom. Kathy made a difference in the lives of hundreds of children over the years, and her kindness and positivity will leave an unwavering legacy in this community.

Funny Eulogy Examples

Sometimes a bit of humor is the perfect way to lighten the mood and showcase the personality of your loved one. Consider these tips if you want to add a few jokes into the eulogy:

  • Point out the person’s comedic qualities
  • Be specific about sharing their jokes or pranks
  • Look for ways to communicate what the person would say if they wrote the speech
  • Find the right balance of humor to share laughs without being irreverent
  • Share a funny poem or a quote from the person’s favorite movie

Here is a funny eulogy example:

Anyone who met Josh quickly learned that there are always laughs to be shared. It was impossible to spend time with him without enjoying a gut-busting laugh at some point in the conversation. Josh was known as the class clown, and his jokes were quick-witted and hilarious.

Who could forget the time Josh showed up to the family reunion wearing that ridiculous blow-up dinosaur costume? He chased the kids around the park until everyone laughed until they were crying.

Many funny memories came out of our family camping trips. He couldn’t sit down to enjoy a peaceful campfire. Instead, the s’more making always seemed to turn into a marshmallow fight – with white puffs flying through the air when you least expected it. Josh kept a smile on my face through the ups and downs of life, and I will keep on smiling in his honor.

Personalizing the Eulogy

As you read through these funeral eulogy examples, the most important thing to remember is that there isn’t a right or wrong way to write a eulogy. Instead, consider the best way to share the person in the way they would want others to remember them. It’s your chance to verbalize your love and honor the memories of your loved one.

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The 16 Best Eulogies Ever Written [Famous Funeral Speeches]

Gwen Daniel

Eulogies are a way of paying tribute to someone who has passed away and celebrating their life.

Unfortunately, writing and giving them can be hard.

The task of capturing the essence of a loved one who has passed, and expressing it in words to a gathering of friends and family, is a heavy responsibility.

Despite its difficulties, a eulogy is an incredibly important part of the grieving process. It provides closure, helps to preserve memories, and celebrates the life of the deceased.

On this page, we set out some our favorites; the best eulogies ever written over the years.

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16 Best Eulogies Ever Written

1. mona simpson’s eulogy for steve jobs.

Mona Simpson’s eulogy of Steve Jobs is a personal and heartfelt tribute to the late co-founder of Apple.

Mona shares their own experiences of meeting Jobs, who she ultimately discovered was her long-lost brother.

Throughout the eulogy, Mona describes how Jobs inspired her in different ways over the 27 years that she knew him. She highlights Jobs’ hard work ethic, his love for aesthetics and beauty, and his unwavering commitment to his work even in the face of setbacks.

Related Article: How To Write a Eulogy: Tips, Structure, & Examples [Guide]

Mona’s use of anecdotes and stories brings Jobs to life and makes him feel like a real human , like a friend or family member of our own, not just the legendary figure we know him as. Honestly, Mona’s admiration for Jobs’ commitment to beauty is inspiring and serves as a reminder of how much one person can impact the world.

The eulogy is a touching tribute to Jobs and a fitting farewell to one of the greatest innovators of our time.

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Our Favorite Quote From Mona Simpson’s Eulogy for Steve Jobs

But with that will, that work ethic, that strength, there was also sweet Steve’s capacity for wonderment, the artist’s belief in the ideal, the still more beautiful later. Steve’s final words, hours earlier, were monosyllables, repeated three times. Before embarking, he’d looked at his sister Patty, then for a long time at his children, then at his life’s partner, Laurene, and then over their shoulders past them. Steve’s final words were: OH WOW. OH WOW. OH WOW.

2. Frank Oz’s Eulogy for Jim Henson

Frank Oz’s eulogy for Jim Henson , the creator of The Muppets, is a speech that praises the beloved creator and performer, and is another one of the best eulogies ever given.

Frank, who was a friend and colleague of Henson for 27 years, highlights the appreciation and joy that was at the heart of Henson’s life and work.

The eulogy captures the essence of Henson’s spirit through vivid, personal anecdotes that illustrate his love for life. The way Frank describes Henson’s love for the outdoors, his family, his colleagues, and even dessert, showcases the energy and positivity that he brought to life.

This eulogy is a beautiful and heartfelt tribute to Jim Henson.

Our Favorite Quote From Frank Oz’s Eulogy for Jim Henson

Looking here I think I only realise now how large a man this was.  This man that I just worked with and played with, and had so much fun with. And we did have fun, we had such great silly fun together. The best thing of all—the best thing—is when you watched Jim laugh until he cried.

3. Earl Spencer’s Funeral Oration for Princess Diana

Earl Spencer’s eulogy for his sister Diana is a touching and heartfelt tribute to the late princess.

Spencer does an excellent job of capturing Diana’s essence, painting a picture of a selfless, compassionate, and kind person who used her intuition and vulnerability to connect with those in need.

The speech is personal, with Spencer reminiscing about his time with Diana, and it shows the deep love and admiration he had for his sister, who died tragically.

Overall, this is a beautiful eulogy that captures the essence of Princess Diana.

Our Favorite Quote From Earl Spencer’s Eulogy for Princess Diana

There is no doubt that she was looking for a new direction in her life at this time. She talked endlessly of getting away from England, mainly because of the treatment that she received at the hands of the newspapers. I don’t think she ever understood why her genuinely good intentions were sneered at by the media, why there appeared to be a permanent quest on their behalf to bring her down. It is baffling. My own and only explanation is that genuine goodness is threatening to those at the opposite end of the moral spectrum. It is a point to remember that of all the ironies about Diana, perhaps the greatest was this – a girl given the name of the ancient goddess of hunting was, in the end, the most hunted person of the modern age. She would want us today to pledge ourselves to protecting her beloved boys William and Harry from a similar fate and I do this here Diana on your behalf. We will not allow them to suffer the anguish that used regularly to drive you to tearful despair.

4. Father Michael Duffy’s Eulogy for Father Mychal Judge

Michael Duffy’s eulogy for Mychal Judge opens with humility, acknowledging the difficulty of following the many accolades and tributes already given during the service.

Duffy then shares the impact that Father Mychal had on his own life, describing him as a true friend and a source of comfort during a time of national tragedy with 9/11.

The eulogy is full of emotion and reflects the Duffy’s deep faith, which gave him the courage to stand before the crowd and celebrate the life of his friend.

The choice of scripture from the Book of Lamentations was particularly moving and provided a reminder of the hope and renewal that can be found in the darkest of times.

Our Favorite Quote From Michael Duffy’s Eulogy for Father Mychal Judge

And so, this morning we come to bury Mike Judge’s body but not his spirit. We come to bury his mind but not his dreams. We come to bury his voice but not his message. We come to bury his hands but not his good works. We come to bury his heart but not his love. Never his love.

5. Ronald Reagan’s Eulogy for the Crew of the Space Shuttle Challenger

Ronald Reagan’s eulogy for the seven heroes who lost their lives in the Challenger shuttle tragedy is a moving one.

Reagan does an excellent job of capturing the collective grief of the nation and honoring the memory of the fallen astronauts.

I particularly appreciate the way he honors the crew’s dedication and bravery, as well as their spirit of exploration and discovery.

The reference to Sir Francis Drake and the comparison to the Challenger crew’s dedication is a powerful one.

Overall, this eulogy is a touching reminder of the sacrifices made in the pursuit of knowledge and exploration.

Our Favorite Quote From Ronald Reagan’s Eulogy for the Crew of the Space Shuttle Challenger

The future doesn’t belong to the fainthearted; it belongs to the brave. The Challenger crew was pulling us into the future, and we’ll continue to follow them. I’ve always had great faith in and respect for our space program, and what happened today does nothing to diminish it. We don’t hide our space program.

6. Ex-Canadian PM Brian Mulroney’s Eulogy for Queen Elizabeth II

The eulogy given by former Canadian Prime Minister Brian Mulroney for Queen Elizabeth II celebrates Her Majesty’s role as a head of state and her relationship with Canada.

Mulroney speaks fondly of his time serving as the Queen’s Prime Minister and the alignment they shared on various issues, particularly Canadian unity and the Commonwealth.

He highlights the Queen’s support for the liberation of Nelson Mandela and the destruction of apartheid in South Africa. Mulroney also mentions her deep love for Canada and its diversity, geography, and history.

He concludes by recalling the Queen’s words, “I knew myself to be not only amongst friends but amongst fellow countrymen.” The perfect tribute to the Queen’s contributions and her relationship with Canada.

Our Favorite Quote From Ex-Canadian PM Brian Mulroney’s Eulogy for Queen Elizabeth II

Today, our system might appear anachronistic to some. I understand that. But to others – who constitute in my judgment the overwhelming majority of Canadians – the role of the monarchy and in particular the irreplaceable role played by Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II for 70 years, was absolutely indispensable in our country’s hugely impressive, achievements and contributions to peace, prosperity and stability at home and around the world.

7. John Cleese’s Eulogy for Graham Chapman

This eulogy by John Cleese for Graham Chapman is another one of the best. A fantastic tribute to his late friend and fellow Monty Python member.

It is filled with hilarious anecdotes and memories, showcasing Chapman’s love of absurdity and shocking people.

Cleese captures the spirit of Chapman in his unique way of speaking and tells stories that are both absurd and touching.

He also reflects on the role that Chapman played in his life, both as a performer and as a friend.

It is a fitting tribute to a man who lived a life filled with humor, satire, and creativity.

Our Favorite Quote From John Cleese’s Eulogy for Graham Chapman

Graham Chapman, co-author of the ‘Parrot Sketch,’ is no more. He has ceased to be, bereft of life, he rests in peace, he has kicked the bucket, hopped the twig, bit the dust, snuffed it, breathed his last, and gone to meet the Great Head of Light Entertainment in the sky, and I guess that we’re all thinking how sad it is that a man of such talent, such capability and kindness, of such intelligence should now be so suddenly spirited away at the age of only forty-eight, before he’d achieved many of the things of which he was capable, and before he’d had enough fun.

8. Bill Clinton’s Eulogy for Richard Nixon

In Bill Clinton’s eulogy for Richard Nixon he highlighted Nixon’s humble beginnings, his journey across America, and his contributions to the country both as President and after leaving office.

He also touched on Nixon’s achievements, controversies, and his tireless spirit.

The eulogy was delivered with a genuine tone of respect, admiration, and gratitude. It was clear that Clinton had a personal relationship with Nixon and was honored to be speaking on his behalf.

The closing words of the eulogy were poignant and emphasized the importance of judging a person’s life in its entirety.

Our Favorite Quote From Bill Clinton’s Eulogy for Richard Nixon

Today is a day for his family, his friends, and his nation to remember President Nixon’s life in totality. To them, let us say, may the day of judging President Nixon on anything less than his entire life and career come to a close. May we heed his call to maintain the will and the wisdom to build on America’s greatest gift, its freedom, to lead a world full of difficulty to the just and lasting peace he dreamed of.

9. Rev. Al Sharpton’s Eulogy for Tyre Nichols

Rev. Al Sharpton’s eulogy for Tyre Nichol is a powerful and impassioned speech that connects the death of Tyre Nichol to the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr.

Sharpton draws a parallel between the story of Joseph in the Bible and the tragedy of Tyre’s death, painting it as another example of the ongoing struggle for justice and equality.

Throughout the eulogy, Sharpton’s deep sense of injustice and his commitment to the fight for equality shine through.

He delivers a call to action for those in attendance, urging them to demand accountability and to continue the struggle for justice, using Tyre’s eulogy to ensure he did not die in vain.

Our Favorite Quote From Rev. Al Sharpton’s Eulogy for Tyre Nichols

And here we are Ashely, 55 years later, looking at the balcony where Martin Luther King shed his blood for city workers, for Black city workers to be able to work in the police department, work in sanitation. And the reason why, Mr. and Mrs, Wells, what happened to Tyre is so personal to me is that five Black men that wouldn’t have had a job in the police department – would not ever be thought of to be in the elite squad – in the city that Dr. King lost his life, not far away from that balcony, you beat a Brother to death. 

10. Barack Obama’s Eulogy for John McCain

In this eulogy for John McCain , Obama honors the late senator’s life, character, and achievements.

He highlights McCain’s patriotism and statesmanship and notes how he inspired both Bush and Obama to be better presidents.

Obama emphasizes McCain’s love of unpredictability, his disdain for self-pity, and his irreverence and sense of humor. He notes that despite their differences, McCain and he had a deep respect for one another.

Lastly, Obama highlights McCain’s commitment to upholding values that transcend politics and his belief in honest argument and the importance of our institutions.

Our Favorite Quote from Barack Obama’s Eulogy for John McCain

Today is only one day in all the days that will ever be. but what will happen in all the other days that will ever come can depend on what you do today. What better way to honor John McCain’s life of service than as best we can follow his example to prove that the willingness to get in the arena and fight for this country is not reserved for the few, it is open to all of us, and in fact it is demanded of all of us as citizens of this great republic. That’s perhaps how we honor him best, by recognizing that there are some things bigger than party or ambition or money or fame or power, that the things that are worth risking everything for, principles that are eternal, truths that are abiding. At his best, John showed us what that means. For that, we are all deeply in his debt.

11. Oprah Winfrey’s Eulogy for Rosa Parks

Oprah Winfrey’s Eulogy for Rosa Parks is a beautiful goodbye to a civil rights icon.

Her delivery is personal and emotive, which makes the speech powerful and memorable. The way she describes her childhood impression of Parks as a hundred-feet tall woman and how she later met her in person, is a great example of how Parks’ bravery and grace inspired people of all ages.

Oprah’s words are a testament to Parks’ impact on the world, and how her refusal to give up her seat on the bus changed the trajectory of so many lives.

The final message, “We shall not be moved,” is a reminder of Parks’ strength and resilience in the face of adversity.

Our Favorite Quote from Oprah Winfrey’s Eulogy for Rosa Parks

So I thank you again, Sister Rosa, for not only confronting the one white man whose seat you took, not only confronting the bus driver, not only for confronting the law, but for confronting history, a history that for 400 years said that you were not even worthy of a glance, certainly no consideration. I thank you for not moving.

12. Cher’s Eulogy for Sonny Bono

Cher’s eulogy for Sonny Bono is a heartfelt goodbye to her former partner and husband.

She speaks candidly about his impact on her life and the misconceptions people had about him.

Through her anecdotes, we get a glimpse into the person he was and the strong bond he and Cher shared.

The eulogy is both humorous and emotional, capturing the spirit of Sonny’s larger-than-life personality.

This is another one of the best eulogies ever written.

Our Favorite Quote from Cher’s Eulogy for Sonny Bono

Some people were under the misconception that Sonny was a short man, but he was heads and tails taller than anyone else. He could see above the tallest people. He had a vision of his future and just how he was going to build it.

13. Jawaharlal Nehru’s Eulogy for Mahatma Gandhi

Jawaharlal Nehru’s speech for Gandhi is another deeply affecting eulogy, reflective of the immense influence Gandhi had on India and the world.

Nehru captures the sense of grief and loss felt by many upon Gandhi’s passing, while also expressing the hope that Gandhi’s legacy would remain a guiding light for generations to come.

I appreciate the emphasis on unity and the reminder to act with poise and courage in the face of adversity.

Our Favorite Quote from Jawaharlal Nehru’s Eulogy for Mahatma Gandhi

Friends and Comrades, The light has gone out of our lives and there is darkness everywhere. I do not know what to tell you and how to say it. Our beloved leader, Bapu as we called him, the Father of the Nation, is no more.

14. Billy Crystal’s Eulogy for Muhammad Ali

Comedian Billy Crystal’s eulogy for Muhammad Ali is humorous; one of the best eulogies of all time for one of the greatest athletes of all time.

Crystal’s personal anecdotes paint a vivid picture of Ali’s impact on not just sports but society as a whole. It captures Ali’s charisma, humor, and bravery, making him more than just a boxer but a symbol of hope for those who fought for civil rights.

This eulogy is a testament to Ali’s lasting legacy and his ability to inspire future generations.

Our Favorite Quote from Billy Crystal’s Eulogy for Muhammad Ali

Muhammad Ali struck us in the middle of America’s darkest night, in the heart of its most threatening gathering storm. His power toppled the mighty foes and his intense light shined on America and we were able to see clearly: injustice, inequality, poverty, pride, self-realization, courage, laughter, love, joy and religious freedom for all.

15. Ex-New Zealand PM Helen Clark’s Eulogy for Sir Edmund Hillary

The eulogy for Sir Edmund Hillary by Helen Clark is a fitting tribute to the late New Zealand hero.

Beyond discussing his climb to the top of Mount Everest and how it was a defining moment of the 20th century, Clark also touches on Sir Edmund’s compassion for others. She highlighs his dedication to the wellbeing of the Sherpa people in Nepal and his numerous other endeavors.

The use of words like “colossus” and “hero” help to emphasize the magnitude of Sir Edmund’s impact, making this eulogy a heartfelt memorial for him.

Our Favorite Quote from Ex-New Zealand PM Helen Clark’s Eulogy for Sir Edmund Hillary

Sir Ed described himself as a person of modest abilities. In reality he was a colossus. He was our hero. He brought fame to our country. We admired his achievements and the great international respect in which he was held. But above all, we loved Sir Ed for what he represented – a determination to succeed against the odds, humility, an innate sense of fair play, and a tremendous sense of service to the community, at home and abroad.

16. Winston Churchill’s Eulogy for King George VI

Well known for his inspiring speeches, Winston Churchill’s eulogy for King George VI is no outlier.

It is a beautiful ode to someone who was at the time a beloved monarch.

Churchill’s words are heartfelt and evocative. He gives a vivid description of King George’s character and his influence on the people of England and the world.

What really stands out is how Churchill captures George’s attitude to life and death, depicting him as one “who walked with death as if death were a companion, an acquaintance whom he recognized and did not fear.” This is a powerful reminder to everyone to confront life’s challenges with courage.

Our Favorite Quote from Winston Churchill’s Eulogy for King George VI

For fifteen years George VI was King. Never at any moment in all the perplexities at home and abroad, in public or in private, did he fail in his duties. Well does he deserve the farewell salute of all his governments and peoples.

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Tailoring heartfelt eulogies for spiritual stewards, crafting a legacy of reverence and emotional connection, echoes of sincere respect: client experiences, 2. share a short background, 3. convey their personality, 4. share memorable anecdotes, 5. offer personal condolences, 6. end on a positive note, example funeral speech for a work colleague 1, example funeral speech for a work colleague 2, example funeral speech for a work colleague 3, eulogy assistant: voices of spiritual honor, frequently asked questions.

Losing a work colleague can be a challenging experience for any professional. It's not just the emptiness left behind due to their absence in the workplace, but also the loss of their unique contributions to the team, their friendship, and their energy. Amidst this grief, it's crucial to find the right words to celebrate their life and honour the contributions they made in their professional life. Writing a funeral speech for a work colleague may not be an easy task, but it's an essential way to pay tribute to their memory and to help the grieving process among the team members.

In this article, we'll guide you through the process of writing a heartfelt funeral speech for a work colleague, and provide a realistic example that you can use as a starting point. Follow these steps, and conclude the article by discovering how using Eulogy Assistant can simplify the process and help you craft the perfect eulogy.

Start your speech by introducing yourself, your role within the company, and your relationship with the deceased. Express how honoured you feel to have the opportunity to share their memory with everyone present.

Talk about how long the deceased had been working at the company and the various positions they held. Highlight their key accomplishments and their contributions to the team.

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Work colleagues possess both professional skills and distinctive personal traits. Talk about the qualities that made the deceased unique to their work environment. Were they always optimistic, a great problem solver, or known for their exceptional kindness? Try to pinpoint their distinguishing characteristics and mention how they affected others.

Illustrate your speech with specific examples from the deceased's work life. These can be anecdotes that reflect their personality, achievements or even funny moments that bring a smile to the audience. Choose stories that highlight the person's spirit and contributions in the workplace.

Express your own feelings of grief and empathy for the family. Encourage everyone present to be supportive of the deceased's loved ones in these trying times. Acknowledge the pain that everyone is experiencing and remind them that they're not alone.

Conclude the speech by expressing gratitude for the time spent working alongside the departed colleague. Offer some hopeful words, focusing on the great memories shared and the positive impact that the deceased had on the lives of their co-workers.

Distinguished guests, esteemed colleagues, and friends,

Today, we gather not just as coworkers but as a community united in grief and remembrance, to pay tribute to a person who was an integral part of our professional family and a cherished friend, [Colleague's Name]. As I stand before you, I am filled with a profound sense of loss, but also with a deep appreciation for the time we were privileged to share with [him/her]. In this speech, I hope to honor [his/her] memory, celebrate [his/her] life, and share with you the impact [he/she] had on us all.

[Colleague's Name] joined our team on [Date of Joining], and from that first day, [he/she] brought with [him/her] a breath of fresh air. [His/Her] passion for [mention their professional role or expertise] was evident in everything [he/she] did. [He/She] wasn’t just doing a job; [he/she] was fulfilling a calling, a purpose that drove [him/her] to excel and to inspire those around [him/her].

I remember a particular instance [share a specific memory or story that highlights the colleague’s professional qualities or contributions]. This moment speaks volumes about [Colleague's Name]'s character – [his/her] dedication, [his/her] integrity, and [his/her] unwavering commitment to excellence. [He/She] was not just our colleague; [he/she] was our mentor, our motivator, and our benchmark.

Beyond [his/her] professional prowess, [Colleague's Name] was known for [his/her] [positive personal quality, e.g., 'kindness', 'sense of humor', 'compassion']. [He/She] had an innate ability to connect with people, to understand their needs, and to extend a helping hand. [His/Her] office was not just a workspace; it was a sanctuary for many of us, a place where we were always welcomed with a warm smile and an open heart.

One of the most admirable aspects of [Colleague's Name] was [his/her] ability to bring out the best in others. [He/She] believed in teamwork, in the power of collaboration, and in the strength of unity. [He/She] was the glue that held our team together, the one who could turn challenges into opportunities and differences into synergies.

[Colleague's Name] also had a remarkable sense of humor, a quality that made the stresses of our daily work seem a little lighter. [He/She] could defuse tension with a witty remark, and [his/her] laughter was often the best remedy for a long, hard day. [Share a light-hearted anecdote that demonstrates their humor]. In these moments of laughter and joy, [he/she] showed us the importance of not taking life too seriously.

In [his/her] personal life, [Colleague's Name] was a [role in the family, e.g., 'devoted parent', 'caring sibling']. [He/She] cherished [his/her] family above all else and provided them with endless love and support. [His/Her] [children/spouse/siblings/parents], [Names, if applicable], were the center of [his/her] universe, and [he/she] reveled in every moment spent with them.

Despite the many roles [he/she] played, [Colleague's Name] was also deeply committed to [a cause or hobby]. [His/Her] involvement in [specific activities or causes] was not just a pastime; it was a testament to [his/her] belief in [a specific value or mission].

The sudden loss of [Colleague's Name] is a stark reminder of the fragility of life. It challenges us to find meaning in the midst of our grief and to seek comfort in the memories we shared. [His/Her] death leaves a void that cannot be filled, yet [his/her] life leaves a legacy that cannot be forgotten.

In [his/her] [age, e.g., 'thirty years'], [Colleague's Name] lived more fully than many who are granted much longer on this earth. [His/Her] impact was profound, and [his/her] spirit, indomitable. Though [his/her] time with us was cut short, the breadth of [his/her] influence and the depth of [his/her] presence were immense.

Esteemed family, friends, and colleagues,

Today, we gather to honor and remember my mother, [Mother's Name], whose life was a beautiful blend of compassion, dedication, and love. As her daughter, it is with a heavy heart yet a deep sense of pride that I stand before you to pay tribute to a woman who was not only an exceptional nurse but also an extraordinary mother.

Born on [Date of Birth] in [Place of Birth], my mother's early life was marked by a nurturing spirit and a desire to help others. This inherent compassion led her to a career in nursing, a profession where she excelled not just in skill, but in empathy and kindness. Her journey in nursing began at [Name of Nursing School or University], where she quickly distinguished herself through her commitment and her unwavering care for her patients.

Throughout her career, [Mother's Name] touched countless lives through her work in [mention specific areas of nursing she worked in, such as pediatrics, emergency care, or a specific hospital or clinic]. She had a remarkable ability to connect with her patients, offering not just medical care but also comfort and understanding. Her colleagues often spoke of her as an inspiration, a nurse who personified the very essence of the profession.

I remember [share a specific story or memory that highlights your mother's dedication to nursing]. This moment encapsulates her selfless nature and her profound impact on those she cared for. Her dedication to her profession was a beacon of hope and healing to many.

At home, [Mother's Name] brought the same level of care and love she showed to her patients. She was the heart of our family, providing not only physical care but emotional support. Her strength, resilience, and unconditional love were the pillars upon which our family was built. She taught us the importance of compassion, the value of hard work, and the joy found in caring for others.

Balancing a demanding career with motherhood was no small feat, yet she did so with grace and poise. She was there for every important moment, every challenge, and every achievement, guiding us with her wisdom and her gentle yet firm hand. [Share a personal anecdote or memory that reflects this balance and her role as a mother].

One of the most striking qualities of my mother was her ability to remain positive and uplifted, even in the face of adversity. She faced challenges with courage and always managed to find a reason to smile. Her optimistic outlook and her ability to find joy in every situation were infectious and brought light to our lives.

As we remember [Mother's Name] today, we not only reflect on her as a nurse and a mother but as a beacon of compassion and humanity. Her legacy is not just in the lives she healed or the family she raised, but in the example she set for each of us – an example of kindness, dedication, and love.

In her final days, [Mother's Name] demonstrated the same dignity and strength that she lived her life. She faced her illness with courage, and even in her weakest moments, she was concerned about the welfare of others. This selflessness was the hallmark of her life and character.

Today, as we bid farewell to my beloved mother, I am reminded of [a quote, poem, or saying that was significant to your mother or reflects her life]. These words beautifully capture the essence of her spirit – a spirit characterized by unending compassion and a deep-seated desire to make the world a better place.

[Mother's Name], your journey with us may have ended, but your spirit, your love, and your legacy will continue to inspire and guide us. You were a healer in every sense of the word, and your memory will forever be etched in our hearts.

As we say our final goodbye, we do so with gratitude for the love you shared, the lives you touched, and the incredible example you set for us all. Rest in peace, dear mother. You will always be remembered, cherished, and deeply missed.

Thank you, [Mother's Name], for everything. Your legacy of love and compassion will live on through us.

Here's a realistic example of a funeral speech for a work colleague:

Good morning, my name is John Doe, and I have the honour of serving as the Regional Manager at ABC Corporation. Today, we gather to celebrate the life and memory of our dear friend and colleague, Jane Smith. Jane was not only a valued member of our team but was also a caring and supportive friend to many of us.

Jane joined ABC Corporation 15 years ago and quickly moved up within the organization due to her dedication and professionalism. She played a crucial role in winning key projects for the company, and her positive energy and enthusiasm were contagious.

In the workplace, Jane was known for her incredible problem-solving abilities and her unwavering kindness. Her infectious laugh and genuine presence will be sorely missed by all who had the pleasure of working with her.

I'll never forget the time when Jane took it upon herself to organize an elaborate surprise birthday party for our boss. She somehow managed to keep it a secret from everyone, including the birthday person, until the last possible moment. This thoughtful gesture is just one example of her ability to go above and beyond for those around her.

On behalf of our entire team, I would like to express our deepest condolences to Jane's family during this incredibly difficult time. The loss of Jane leaves a void in our hearts, but we will never forget the impact she had on our lives.

As we say goodbye to our beloved colleague, let us be grateful for the time we had together and let her memory live on in the friendships and connections we forge at work.

In the serene moments of paying tribute to a spiritual steward, the act of weaving your deep respect and cherished memories into words can feel as intimate as capturing the essence of a sacred prayer. Eulogy Assistant is here to guide you through this poignant journey, masterfully blending dignified homage with heartfelt emotion, turning revered memories into lasting tributes.

Our team, proficient in the art of compassionate eulogy creation, is committed to assisting you in articulating a eulogy that resonates with the serene wisdom and impactful presence of your spiritual mentor. With Eulogy Assistant , we offer more than a service; it's a partnership founded on empathy and deep understanding, dedicated to memorializing a life of spiritual guidance and inspiration.

At Eulogy Assistant , we emphasize the importance of collaboration in crafting an eulogy that resonates deeply and authentically. Working side by side with you, we seamlessly blend your personal recollections and heartfelt sentiments with our professional skill, creating a tribute that honors with genuineness and establishes deep emotional bonds.

Our approach is founded on authentic dialogue and shared creative exploration. Your personal stories and insights are vital in developing a narrative that genuinely reflects the spirit of your spiritual mentor's legacy. This process goes beyond mere storytelling; it's about capturing the nuances of their spiritual journey and the breadth of their influence.

Together, our goal is to create a narrative that authentically embodies your spiritual mentor – a eulogy that transcends typical tributes, enriched with respect, personal connection, and heartfelt emotion. Our combined efforts lead to a eulogy that is a harmonious blend of words, mirroring the deep respect and affection your spiritual guide has inspired.

The heart of our service is clearly reflected in the testimonials from those we've had the honor of assisting. These heartfelt expressions of thanks and acknowledgment from individuals who turned to us in their time of need are the most sincere testament to our dedication.

"Approaching the task of honoring my spiritual mentor was profound, yet Eulogy Assistant was a source of unshakeable support, helping me craft a eulogy that truly celebrated their spirit and teachings," says Elizabeth, expressing her deep gratitude.

Michael shares, "In my time of mourning, the empathetic and expert guidance from Eulogy Assistant was a comforting solace. They assisted me in crafting a eulogy that was not just words, but a heartfelt and touching tribute to my spiritual guide."

These accounts underscore our commitment to crafting eulogies that are not just formal speeches, but heartfelt commemorations of honor, respect, and lasting memory. We are privileged to guide you in this journey, celebrating the unique legacies of those who have profoundly influenced our lives, and crafting eulogies that are lasting tributes to their spiritual stewardship.

Join us in shaping narratives that are deeply personal, reverent, and truly reflective of the inspirational spiritual mentors who have guided our paths.

What is a Funeral Speech for a Work Colleague?

A funeral speech for a work colleague is a tribute given at their funeral or memorial service, focusing on their contributions at work and the personal connections shared with them.

How Do I Start Writing a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

Begin by reflecting on your relationship with the colleague, their role and contributions at work, and any memorable interactions or experiences shared with them.

What Key Elements Should Be Included in a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

Include anecdotes about their professional life, their personality at work, the impact they had on the team, and any shared experiences that were meaningful.

How Long Should a Funeral Speech for a Colleague Be?

A funeral speech for a colleague should typically last around 3-5 minutes, long enough to express meaningful sentiments while being considerate of the audience's time.

Can I Share a Personal Story About My Colleague?

Yes, sharing personal stories that reflect their character and your relationship with them can add depth and personal touch to the speech.

Is It Appropriate to Mention Their Professional Achievements?

Mentioning their professional achievements is appropriate and can highlight their dedication, skills, and contributions to the workplace.

How Can I Balance Personal Feelings with Professional Tone?

Balance personal feelings by sharing heartfelt stories while maintaining a professional tone that respects the work environment and relationship.

How Do I Address the Loss of My Colleague to the Audience?

Address the loss by acknowledging the collective grief of the team and the valuable presence the colleague had in the workplace.

Can I Include Humor in the Funeral Speech?

If it’s reflective of your colleague's personality and appropriate for the setting, including light humor can be a fitting way to remember them.

How Should I Conclude the Funeral Speech?

Conclude with a final expression of gratitude or farewell, a reflection on what your colleague meant to you and the team, or a hope for their legacy to continue.

Should I Speak About the Impact of Their Passing on the Team?

Discussing the impact of their passing on the team can be appropriate, as it acknowledges the void they leave and the significance of their role.

Is It Okay to Share How My Colleague Influenced My Work?

Sharing how they influenced your work can be a meaningful tribute to the professional guidance or inspiration they provided.

How Do I Handle My Emotions While Delivering the Speech?

Allow yourself to express emotions but try to maintain composure. If you become overwhelmed, it's okay to pause for a moment.

Can I Mention Our Shared Projects or Achievements?

Mentioning shared projects or achievements can be a good way to highlight collaborative efforts and the successes you achieved together.

What Tone is Suitable for a Funeral Speech for a Colleague?

A respectful, sincere, and considerate tone is suitable, acknowledging the professional relationship while also expressing personal sentiments.

How Do I Make the Speech Relatable to Other Colleagues?

Focus on experiences or qualities of your colleague that others can relate to, creating a sense of shared remembrance.

Can I Use a Quote or Saying That Reflects My Colleague’s Work Ethic?

Including a relevant quote or saying can add depth to your speech, especially if it resonates with your colleague's approach to work or life.

Should I Address My Colleague’s Family in the Speech?

If appropriate, acknowledging the family, expressing condolences, and sharing how much the colleague was valued at work can be meaningful.

What Should I Avoid Saying in the Funeral Speech?

Avoid controversial topics, personal grievances, or any humor that could be misinterpreted in the solemnity of the occasion.

Can I Encourage Others to Share Their Memories of the Colleague?

Encouraging others to share their memories can be a thoughtful way to collectively honor and remember the colleague’s life and contributions.

How Do I Prepare for Delivering the Funeral Speech?

Prepare by writing down your thoughts, practicing the speech, and considering the shared experiences and sentiments you wish to convey.

In conclusion, writing a funeral speech for a work colleague is a great honour and responsibility. By following these steps and using the realistic example provided, you'll be able to create a heartfelt and moving tribute.

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You’ve been asked to speak at a funeral. You have a basic idea of how to write a tribute speech , but you need some inspiration. Perhaps you are struggling to put into words how exceptional your mom was.

Maybe every time you try to write about the characteristics of your sister, the words sound generic and hollow. It could be that you haven’t written anything but emails since high school or college, and you are uncomfortable putting your thoughts into words.

Let us help. Here are some short tribute samples. We’ll try to give you examples of how to begin, portions from the middle of a speech, and how to conclude your tribute. We hope that reading these short excerpts will inspire you to be able to write a speech for someone close to you.

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Example of what to include in a memorial tribute for a parent over an image of candles

"Good afternoon. I am Peter, Mary’s oldest son. My sister Patricia and I would like to welcome you to the memorial service of our mom. I’m going to be honest. I’m a high school teacher, so I am used to public speaking. But presenting this tribute will be the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. Please give me grace as I struggle through my thoughts and ideas and try to articulate what an amazing woman my mom was.

Instead of giving you a list of adjectives to describe my mom, I would like to tell you a few of our favorite stories about her and let you draw your own conclusions. 

First, you probably didn’t know this, but my mom has been quietly working with the homeless population for years. She didn’t talk about it. In fact, she never said anything to my sister or me about her work. Instead, she would quietly prepare bags of snacks and toiletries every Sunday evening, and then several times throughout that week, she would distribute the packages to the homeless communities downtown. I see the looks of surprise on some of your faces, and you probably are asking yourself how you didn’t know this about my mom. That’s just the type of person she was—selfless and humble."

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"Shawna had such an exuberant spirit. I see many of you nodding your heads because you know this may be the understatement of the century. 

Even though I was two years ahead of Shawna in school, people in my class would ask if I was Shawna’s brother. It used to infuriate me, but I understand why it happened. Shawna made a point to learn everyone’s name. Not only that, but she would also learn everyone’s siblings’ names, how long they had lived in the area, and whether they liked chocolate or strawberry ice cream. 

Shawna was a natural-born public relations director. She loved people, and people loved her. It’s no surprise there’s not an empty seat in the church today. This packed house means a lot to my parents and me. We can’t tell you how much we have appreciated all the messages we have received in the last week. Your support has been overwhelming."

Example of what to include in a memorial tribute for a partner over an image of the sky

"Finally, besides being grateful for my amazing children and close friends, I am thankful for the treasure trove of memories that I have of my life with Michael. Even though I feel as if my right arm has been removed, I know that someday I may again laugh when I remember some of his god-awful jokes.

Eventually, I will be able to use his Graceland coffee cup without breaking down into tears. There will come a point when I will be able to look back at our lifetime of memories together and smile. Until then, I would love for you to share your memories of Michael with me. It comforts me to know that there are others out there thinking of and mourning for this great man."

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"The first thing I noticed about Carol was her big mane of red, curly hair. It didn’t take long to discover that her hair matched her personality. And it’s that personality that I would like to celebrate with you today.

Let’s start by remembering her laugh. I always knew where Carol was when I entered a restaurant for a lunch date with her and our high school friends. I only had to pause at the entrance of the dining room and listen for her loud, contagious laugh. I never had to wait long to hear it because Carol was always the life of the party."

"My mom has shared a lot of stories about Uncle Ralph through the years. My favorite stories were about his adventures when he was a young adult—before he married Aunt Rita. 

Apparently, Ralph had an adventurous spirit back in the late 1960s. He spent his summers hitchhiking across the country, with his old Boy Scout pack slung across his back. Ralph was able to get rides from other hippies, truck drivers, ranchers, and once a cult leader.

He slept under the stars in the Sierra Nevada mountains and woke up once to see a bear rummaging through his pack. I wasn’t around back then, but I’ve seen photos of Ralph from this time. He was almost unrecognizable. The Uncle Ralph that I knew was a clean-cut Presbyterian minister. "

"Today I would like to pay tribute to a great woman and mentor, Julia Price. Julia was born to a Missouri farm couple in 1958. Her parents, Sam and Glenda Smith, had struggled to conceive, and when Julia finally arrived to complete their family, they were delighted. They treated their daughter as a princess, and she loved them with her whole heart.

Although she didn’t want to leave home, her parents convinced her to enroll in the University of Missouri after she graduated from high school as valedictorian. There, she studied journalism and became the first female editor of the college newspaper. She loved her new-found career, and when she graduated, she received an offer from major newspapers in St. Louis and Chicago. 

She began her career covering city hall in Chicago. You know she met a lot of interesting characters from this experience—many of whom are currently serving time in prison. Regardless, she remained unintimidated by these high-profile public servants and worked hard to make sure the local population knew what was going on behind closed doors."

"It is my honor to speak today about Bill. Although I wish I were talking at his retirement party instead of his funeral , we all know that life isn’t fair sometimes. It’s not fair that Bill was taken from his wife Carol after only 27 years together. It’s not fair that Bill wasn’t able to live long enough to see his first granddaughter born next spring. And it’s not fair that our office will be without Bill’s booming voice and contagious laugh. Things won’t ever be the same.

No one worked harder than Bill. He knew every aspect of the business, which is not a surprise since he started in the warehouse when he was 23 years old. He worked his way up to warehouse supervisor, and then distribution manager, and finally, one of the vice presidents of the company." 

Tip on how to prepare a memorial tribute with an image of flowers

We hope these short eulogy samples will help you get over your writer’s block. But don’t beat yourself up if you really struggle to write a fitting tribute to your loved one or colleague. You are undertaking a difficult and important task. 

  • Give yourself plenty of time to write your speech. Begin jotting down ideas as soon as you are asked. You may want to speak to others who knew the deceased to learn stories and gather ideas. 
  • Write out a draft of your tribute, using as many specific examples and stories as possible. Avoid making general statements about the person’s personality without having a particular memory to share. 
  • Also, remember that a funeral is not the appropriate place to share someone’s secrets. It’s not the time to make a bombshell announcement or reveal a life-long secret.  
  • Finally, once you have your draft, share it with several other people. Ask for suggestions and be open-minded with their edits. 

Writing a tribute is a lot of work, but it is a great honor to be asked to speak at a loved one’s memorial service.

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Ladies and Gentlemen ,

Good [morning/afternoon/evening],

Thank you all for being here today as we gather to honor and celebrate the life of [Loved One’s Name]. I am [Your Name], and it is both a privilege and a deeply emotional task to stand before you and share my thoughts about someone who meant so much to all of us.

[Loved One’s Name] was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of everyone they met. They were a loving [relationship, e.g., parent, sibling, friend], a cherished member of our community, and a source of joy and inspiration to all who knew them.

One of my fondest memories of [Loved One’s Name] is [share a specific memory, such as a shared activity, a special trip, or a meaningful conversation]. Their ability to [describe a characteristic, such as make people laugh, bring people together, offer wise counsel] made every moment we spent together truly special. [Loved One’s Name] had a unique gift for making everyone feel valued and loved.

[Loved One’s Name] was a person of immense strength and character. They faced life’s challenges with resilience and grace, never losing sight of what was truly important. They taught us the value of perseverance, the importance of kindness, and the power of a positive outlook.

What I will always cherish about [Loved One’s Name] is their unwavering kindness and generosity. They had a heart of gold and were always willing to lend a helping hand, offer a listening ear, or provide words of encouragement. Their selflessness touched many lives and left a lasting impact on our hearts.

[Loved One’s Name] was also a person of great wisdom and insight. They were always there to offer advice, to listen, and to provide a different perspective. Their counsel was invaluable, and we all knew that we could always count on them for guidance and support.

As I stand here today, I am filled with gratitude for the time we had together. While I wish we could have had more time, I am comforted by the countless memories we created and the lessons they taught us. Their legacy lives on in the values they instilled in us, in the love they showed to our family and friends, and in the positive impact they had on everyone who knew them.

[Loved One’s Name], thank you for being a beacon of love, wisdom, and strength. Thank you for the laughter, the lessons, and the countless memories. We will carry your memory in our hearts forever and strive to honor you in all that we do.

In closing, I would like to share a quote that reminds me of [Loved One’s Name]: “Those we love don’t go away; they walk beside us every day.” [Loved One’s Name], your love and your legacy will live on in all of us. Thank you for everything.

Thank you, everyone, for being here today to honor [Loved One’s Name].

[Your Name]

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The president continues to hammer themes about George Floyd four years on.

Examples abound of Joe Biden’s memory lapses, but one person the president seems unable to forget is George Floyd, the anniversary of whose death he commemorated in a White House event last year that included members of Floyd’s family and their ever-present chaperone, Rev. Al Sharpton. Though this year’s commemoration was reduced to a Presidential Proclamation issued on the date, a few days earlier Floyd had featured prominently in Biden’s May 19 commencement address at Morehouse College, often referred to as the nation’s premier historically black college and university (HBCU) for men.

Biden’s speech urged the assembled graduates to see themselves in Floyd, reminding them that they started college shortly after Floyd’s death. He asked the young graduates, “What is democracy if black men are being killed in the street?” Then, answering his own question, he said: “For me, that means to call out the poison of white supremacy, to root out systemic racism.”

Biden seemed to be analogizing the graduates’ future life prospects with the plight of Floyd, a career criminal whose involvement with Minneapolis police on May 25, 2020, stemmed from his decision to pass a counterfeit bill at a local store and his refusal to replace it after the clerk asked for one. Had Floyd responded to the clerk’s request, Officer Derek Chauvin and his colleagues would likely never have been on the scene.

Following the speech, Morehouse’s president, David Thomas, released a statement that mentioned the president’s call for a ceasefire in the Israel–Hamas war and his announcement of a $16 billion investment in HBCUs (more than double the $7 billion previously pledged ), but it said not a word concerning his remarks about Floyd. Thomas also praised the graduates for the respectful way that several of them, some wearing keffiyehs, chose to walk out or turn their backs during Biden’s speech.

Biden faced a more disciplined audience of graduates at West Point Miliary Academy on the morning of May 24. Dressed in their formal blues, they sat up straight in their chairs. None wore keffiyehs, and none walked out or turned their backs on the president of the United States. In contrast to his speech at Morehouse, Biden made no mention of George Floyd, concentrating his remarks on international affairs, primarily concerning Israel and Gaza.

Unable to leave Floyd unmentioned entirely, however, on that same day the White House issued a statement commemorating Floyd’s death and noting the time that Biden had spent with Floyd’s family before the funeral. The statement also recalled that, two years ago, Biden signed an executive order codifying into federal law aspects of the unenacted George Floyd Justice in Policing Act, many of which have already been implemented by states and localities. Having sufficiently nodded to the progressive defund-the-police advocates still lobbying Congress to pass the Floyd Act, Biden was free to depart West Point for his home in Delaware.

Dorothy Moses Schulz is an adjunct fellow at the Manhattan Institute’s Policing and Public Safety Initiative, an emerita professor at John Jay College of Criminal Justice (CUNY), and a retired MTA-Metro North Railroad Police captain.

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